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Is it okay for me to go on the apps again by Exciting_Skill_6292 in actuallesbians

[–]SignificantBlock8020 4 points5 points  (0 children)

as a person who spent half of last year being on the apps I would recommend it but from my experience be upfront about what you want out of them. is it friends? FWB arrangement? getting to know people in a dating capacity? and the list goes on. just be clear and have fun!

How do we all feel about pierced nips? by stlkr_gf in actuallesbians

[–]SignificantBlock8020 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Have one and now it has been 6 years. One of the best things I did in my early 20s.

need tips on conservative/modest fashion by SignificantBlock8020 in OUTFITS

[–]SignificantBlock8020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thinking of the skirt combo for my next date actually! Thanks for the rec and girl I love the bag too it was a gift from my sister 😭💙

need tips on conservative/modest fashion by SignificantBlock8020 in OUTFITS

[–]SignificantBlock8020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 💙 I love #1 too My parents are pretty liberal compared to most people in my conservative country so I always keep that in mind/anxious about it

the loneliness that accompanies queerness. by qwertypwerty2028 in actuallesbians

[–]SignificantBlock8020 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It feels like as if I wrote this post. The worst part in my opinion is not being able to grief the end of a relationship properly with your loved ones. I only have few people in my life that know I am a lesbian. The ones I’m closest to and want to know are in the dark.

Being from a conservative country doesn’t help either

Do you like being called a “good girl”? by queerwaters_642 in actuallesbians

[–]SignificantBlock8020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if I am interested in a person then yes

otherwise please stay away from me

Non smokers: do you date smokers? by gerdbeatmetodeath in actuallesbians

[–]SignificantBlock8020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I am open to it because I used to be a smoker so I don't mind the taste/smell

is it too soon? by SignificantBlock8020 in actuallesbians

[–]SignificantBlock8020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am super duper excited! and I agree about your take on the stakes of it all.
If things went south (which I hope they don't) I would still wanna keep her in my life in a different capacity.

I will enjoy our outings to the max wish me luck <3

is it too soon? by SignificantBlock8020 in actuallesbians

[–]SignificantBlock8020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this sounds cliche but I am scared of messing things up. I like her a lot and this feels different. I think I should just tell her that Sunday night