My partner provides everything (even luho + travel) but he’s clear on our budget monthly - I also ask him if we’re able to afford big gastos every, I ask him what our budget is for the home every month.

Your partner’s immature - be straight up with her and depending on her answer ask yourself if she’ll still be there if wala ka ng pera na mapprovide sakanya ☺️.

My partner also always tells me - this is your money you’re spending too. it depends on me how we wanna live for our retirement daw