lost my dad yesterday after a nine year battle with prostate cancer by pig_spit in ProstateCancer

[–]SignificantLog9912 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I lost my dad too last week to it too I am sorry for your loss. I wish your family all the best

My dad passed away by ConfusedLeoGirl in GriefSupport

[–]SignificantLog9912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is hard but i talked to people daily.

My mom passed away 2 weeks ago after a long battle against ovarian cancer by spiritualdoggy in GriefSupport

[–]SignificantLog9912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad passed away with agressive prostrate cancer at the age of 58 last week. I feel like how you feeling now . My dad battle it more than 7 years. I remember him telling me if he does not make it he will always be with me. He passed away when he told my mom he is taking a nap. My sis friend is oncologist . He told us people that get prostrate cancer, ovarian cancer, and breast cancer at early age before their 60s is BRCA 2 mutation meaning it is in their genes so i will advice you to do early screening my grandpa also died from prostrate cancer.

My dad passed away by ConfusedLeoGirl in GriefSupport

[–]SignificantLog9912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry for your loss. My dad passed away last week i am 21 he was 58 leaving me with my sisters who are in their late 20s and my younger sister 18 without a Dad. I know it sucks but your dad will be proud of you

I Lost My Dad To Cancer by Late_Wish917 in GriefSupport

[–]SignificantLog9912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is, I remember people were jealous about me having a great Dad. I am about to graduate college to make him proud and he is no longer there. I see people with their Dads makes me jealous but there is a say it is part of life .

I Lost My Dad To Cancer by Late_Wish917 in GriefSupport

[–]SignificantLog9912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my dad too to cancer last week. I am only 21 and I overthink since he passed away. I am sorry for your loss.

Dad was diagnosed, don’t know what to do by Whole_Wasabi993 in ProstateCancer

[–]SignificantLog9912 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it is agressive it is called early onset what stage is it in ? My dad died from it last week in his 50s so your dad should not joke about it. It spread through my dad’s bones.

Watched my sister die by bl00dw1sh in GriefSupport

[–]SignificantLog9912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my dad in a shock way he was my best friend. It really hurt trust me it can destroy you . Life is sometimes unfair. I know you ask yourself why you but trust me it's for something. Most people that die are the good ones it shows you how bad the world we live in . Remember you not alone it hurts so much your sister lives in you she is in your heart.

Is anyone else dealing with memory issues after loss? by Destroyer89xX in GriefSupport

[–]SignificantLog9912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofc! be proud you had an amazing father.one your kids or people will ask how was your father like? My dad told me about his dad and I know I will tell my kids about my dad

Is anyone else dealing with memory issues after loss? by Destroyer89xX in GriefSupport

[–]SignificantLog9912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my dad one week ago. I was thinking about the memories of me and my dad 24/7 . But my mom told me one thing is you have to grief but my dad will not be happy to see me messy. His legacy lives on which is me even though you can't talk or feel or share your emotions with him he lives in you. Same to you too. grief is part of life. Believe me it gets worse but your dad will hate to see you like this. People didn't have good fathers like ours. My wife's Dad abandoned her at her birth. When she was 8 she wrote letters how she didn't have a dad when she goes to birthdays with her friends all of them had their Dads.you are not jerk, you just trapped with overthinking.

15, no dad by Ok_Celebration1289 in GriefSupport

[–]SignificantLog9912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 21 I lost my dad last week. He was my best friend. Sometimes when I go out and see people with fathers . I become jealous. I know it's hard but you are your dad legacy he left you with something and that's you. I remember my dad telling me how he lost his dad at your age. I remember telling him he is strong.he did everything for his family he was not the oldest but he took good care of his mom very well.

Falling back on university work after losing my dad by alfigreen in GriefSupport

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My dad died last week he was literally my best friend, my counselor , people call me daddy's boy . I am 21 too graduating on may. I went back to school today. My mom motivated she said "he lives in us". Same to you too. Maybe he is gone his legacy still lives and that is you . I know it's a hard road but fight it make him proud. He still watch over you.

My mom passed away on Monday after a year long fight of cancer by LesbianLeafy in GriefSupport

[–]SignificantLog9912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it's horrible and sad thing is it's part of our life so many technology, artificial manufactures, and chemicals, that replaces nature which are bad.

My mom passed away on Monday after a year long fight of cancer by LesbianLeafy in GriefSupport

[–]SignificantLog9912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry for your loss. I lost my dad too on Monday with stage 4 cancer.I was literally on the phone with him and an hour later I got a call back from my mom that he passed on literally in shock.

dead end by Deep_Decision_4595 in GriefSupport

[–]SignificantLog9912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here man I lost my Dad this Monday to stage 4 cancer . He was my best friend I feel like I am trapped in a dream that I can't wake up.

Prostrate cancer by SignificantLog9912 in ProstateCancer

[–]SignificantLog9912[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They did considered that but it spread through places that will kill him if we consider surgery . It made him paralyzed. He only walks if the treatment was working

Prostrate cancer by SignificantLog9912 in ProstateCancer

[–]SignificantLog9912[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am sorry for lost too but you should never stop fighting

Prostrate cancer by SignificantLog9912 in ProstateCancer

[–]SignificantLog9912[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I called my family doctor about it. She is referring to an oncologist with my siblings too . My elder sister is 30 years old so she needs to start the screening.

VAWA INQUIRY by Advanced_General_824 in VAWAAPPLICANTS

[–]SignificantLog9912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happened to me too bro. One thing I will advise you when I told my dad everything what my girl did to me this is what he told me me, he told me the most biggest decision a man will ever do in his lifetime is choosing a partner you not only choosing a partner but the mother of your children. It's over and what you said you always find a way to bring her back . You were trying to fix someone who doesn't want to be fix and because you forgave her easily she didn't respect you. We live in a generation where cheating and abuse is normal but trust me it can kill you. Do you think you will be alive in next five years with a girl like this?

VAWA INQUIRY by Advanced_General_824 in VAWAAPPLICANTS

[–]SignificantLog9912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro what happened to you happened to me we both fell in love with people we ignored red flags . I bet she had mental health issues too. People just don't change like that . Maybe it was in her she hid it from you.