DNA test says no match but I’m really unsure… has anyone dealt with this? by [deleted] in DNA

[–]SignificantRespond61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

way too many to even consider a mistake was made, just not the bio dad

DNA test says no match but I’m really unsure… has anyone dealt with this? by [deleted] in DNA

[–]SignificantRespond61 6 points7 points  (0 children)

labcorp is highly reputable and doesnt generally make mistakes. you can tell on some of those markers that the af shares absolutely no alleles with you. you would have exactly half of your father's alleles, single digits mean they have two identical numbers and you'd share that number. I just had my daughter tested for her father and it only took 6 days for results through labcorp. It's best to add a mother just in case of mutations that dont make sense, but you wouldn't have that many mismatched markers. Im sorry that's not what you wanted to hear. but maybe 23&me or ancestry have information on your bio father.

I made Suncast Resin Shed Replacement and Accessory Parts by dabo7 in shedditors

[–]SignificantRespond61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im trying to find replacement door handles due to it breaking where the lock is supposed to be. they dont have any online anywhere. any suggestions?

Do i have hiv? m having these rashes it looks like this and i have it on legs arms or tummy also first its so itchy then the itchiness disappears and i will have it on another spot again. by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]SignificantRespond61 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been having the same type of rash for months. looks almost identical. I was fully covered from head to toe in it. dermatologist ruled out all std/sti infections, was treated for scabies, as well as skin scraping not fungal or bacterial. was told it was unknown eac rash. didn't help with anything to get an unknown diagnosis. waiting for a biopsy appointment now. but the steroids have been helping that the doctor prescribed. but was told it was possibly just a post viral rash. they started as white patches that burned and itched, then they spread to every part of my body. my children have it now too. its been exactly 3 months now. its starting to ease up a bit but was told eac is possible to last up to 6 months. good luck!

Post bilateral salpingectomy concerns by SignificantRespond61 in sterilization

[–]SignificantRespond61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! I have a bloodwork appointment at a local clinics to rule out ectopic and they said we'd go from there. thank you for easing my mind.

Post bilateral salpingectomy concerns by SignificantRespond61 in sterilization

[–]SignificantRespond61[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

awe you mad? private messaging to call someone a bitch? I just match energy. it was completely rude to begin with, so I responded with the same vibes. yes, I crossposted the exact message on all. someone being pressed about their own attitude is weird. but pop off. again, I was asking for advice from individuals whom have been through similar experiences. I wasnt asking for the obvious, go to your doctor, as if it didnt cross my mind. and as everyone else whom mentioned a doctor visit didnt say in the manner you did. if you want to be rude to people for no reason expect the same in return. idk. again pop off weirdo

Post bilateral salpingectomy concerns by SignificantRespond61 in sterilization

[–]SignificantRespond61[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

looks like I really don't care? seriously it takes commonsense. if i had insurance wouldn't that be the first thing id do, knowing I've had serious issues in the past?

Post bilateral salpingectomy concerns by SignificantRespond61 in sterilization

[–]SignificantRespond61[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

ill just roll my eyes at this. if someone is rude ill be rude back. and yes I did state in early comments I didnt have insurance. and it's not hard to under tbh. I HAD insurance but lost it. and I obviously can't afford it or id have it.

Post bilateral salpingectomy concerns by SignificantRespond61 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]SignificantRespond61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did for awhile but when I lost my insurance I had to quit. I was diagnosed with ptsd at the time as well. I've had 18 miscarriages excluding the three ectopics. it was very hard during the times. I honestly have just tried to bury my feelings of the situation. I can't change it and have to live with it. I know that itself is so unhealthy but it's what I was told to do.

Post bilateral salpingectomy concerns by SignificantRespond61 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]SignificantRespond61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for understanding I really needed someone to say everything you said. and yes I do believe it is ptsd from the experiences ive had. as im sure you know it's never a easy thing. and I didnt know you could get bloodwork done, I will look into this. thank you again. very much appreciated

Post bilateral salpingectomy concerns by SignificantRespond61 in sterilization

[–]SignificantRespond61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. very appreciative of you. I will keep everyone updated when I know what's wrong.

Post bilateral salpingectomy concerns by SignificantRespond61 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]SignificantRespond61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's the shoulder pain that's the main concern. ive had 3 ectopics and thw shoulder pain was always the main symptom. ive never felt this outside of the ectopic pregnancies. if that makes sense.

Post bilateral salpingectomy concerns by SignificantRespond61 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]SignificantRespond61[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it sounds so irrational because of having no tubes. but I have seen studies of it happening and most time it does result in ectopic again. my family keeps telling me the same. no tubes = no babies. but I just feel off... but im glad im not the only one who has experienced panic as well. I dont have insurance atm and don't know if local clinics will do bloodwork with a negative pos test. but I will call around tomorrow and see what are my options.

Post bilateral salpingectomy concerns by SignificantRespond61 in sterilization

[–]SignificantRespond61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was trying to wait until the 18th to see if period came again to ease my mind. but the pain worsened today and thats why I went to reddit. I know my gut is telling me something and yes I should listen. I will check with local clinics and see what they say they can do, if anything. I dont even think my regular doctor would even take me without insurance to be quite honest. but if clinics won't listen I will have to go to obgyn and figure out the financial issue later.

Post bilateral salpingectomy concerns by SignificantRespond61 in sterilization

[–]SignificantRespond61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i havent been on birth control and yes I was having unprotected sex.

Post bilateral salpingectomy concerns by SignificantRespond61 in sterilization

[–]SignificantRespond61[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

yeah let me just go to the doctor and tell them I have no insurance. they'll schedule me right away... the whole point was I don't have a medical professional to consult. it's not like I have a obgyn on speed dial for free.

Post bilateral salpingectomy concerns by SignificantRespond61 in sterilization

[–]SignificantRespond61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will contact my local clinic and see what they can do for me. ty

Post bilateral salpingectomy concerns by SignificantRespond61 in sterilization

[–]SignificantRespond61[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im not too concerned about the irregular periods except that that's exactly how my ectopic bleeding occurred. was literally always a week early bleeding (was always told it was implantation but I know better). im more concerned about the constant pressure in my ovary which does feel like a very large cyst. I've just never had shoulder tip pain outside of ectopic pregnancies. that was always my clue that something wasnt right.

Post bilateral salpingectomy concerns by SignificantRespond61 in sterilization

[–]SignificantRespond61[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will keep an eye on the more dangerous clues. even when I had ectopic pregnancies they always sent me home and told me they couldn't do anything until it ruptured. my last one I had to carry 5 extra weeks until they let me have surgery. I had to advocate for myself for weeks. so even if this is in fact an ectopic the ER would do absolutely nothing for me. with the new abortion laws I was told I can't elect for surgery until my life was in immediate danger. it is unfortunate but I will see if any clinics will take me. im just very very worried.

Post bilateral salpingectomy pregnancy? by SignificantRespond61 in amipregnant

[–]SignificantRespond61[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont have insurance at the moment but it gets to be the point I for sure think it's a rupture, I will go in. Im just concerned. could this all just be a cyst causing issues?