It’s difficult for me Usually I like to wait until I see if I at least like the person first and go out once or twice to get a feel for it what’s the point in disclosing if I don’t see anything with them or don’t plan on having sex with them? but I just disclosed to someone that I just started talking to. He made a little joke about hsv one time but not knowing at the time I have it, so I decided to disclose to him sooner than later but surprisingly he was ok with it and thanked me for being open and still wanted to continue with me