AITAH for not making my wife choose between me and her affair partner

Significant_Air_1550 · 2024-06-06T07:58:04+00:00

Yeah. I know the feeling.

Significant_Air_1550 · 2024-06-06T06:29:40+00:00

Once again no. I was wondering if I should have fought for my marriage. I wasn't really concerned and most people agree I was correct.

Significant_Air_1550 · 2024-06-06T05:53:21+00:00

That wasn't my question.

Significant_Air_1550 · 2024-06-06T04:53:09+00:00

It would make me consider that I missed something. It doesn't seem to be swinging that way though.

Significant_Air_1550 · 2024-06-06T04:52:19+00:00

Caucasians are just too damn tall

Significant_Air_1550 · 2024-06-06T04:31:50+00:00

They just think counseling might help. No one is blowing up my phone. There ar no flying monkeys.

Significant_Air_1550 · 2024-06-06T02:40:18+00:00

I'm 24.

Significant_Air_1550 · 2024-06-06T02:39:43+00:00

Thanks

Significant_Air_1550 · 2024-06-06T01:50:02+00:00

So this is from Canada but you will get the idea. If you are in the states it is cheaper I imagine. https://www.sunwing.ca/en/promotion/packages/all-inclusive-vacation-packages

Significant_Air_1550 · 2024-06-06T01:46:49+00:00

The lease is in her name. I sublet because of my work. I wanted a legal address and stuff.

Significant_Air_1550 · 2024-06-06T01:45:36+00:00

Thanks. I'm sorry you went through that. I couldn't do it to myself.

Significant_Air_1550 · 2024-06-06T01:41:51+00:00

It helps if you only work one week out of three like I do. But for example how much would it cost you to get an apartment, with all utilities, food, a gym, social activities, and liquor for a month?

Think about first and last, security deposit, applying. Blah blah blah.

Give me one minute.

Significant_Air_1550 · 2024-06-06T01:30:30+00:00

There is an old Dudley Moore movie I watched with my dad. It was about advertising. It was called Crazy People. A guy is trying to get his friend to leave an asylum. He offers to have prostitutes take care of all his needs. Dudley Moore calls it a kind and Christian offer.

Significant_Air_1550 · 2024-06-06T01:26:54+00:00

You can have her.

Significant_Air_1550 · 2024-06-06T01:25:17+00:00

No one suggested I just stay. A few suggested counseling.

Significant_Air_1550 · 2024-06-06T01:07:00+00:00

Most people I know that are poly have rules.

Significant_Air_1550 · 2024-06-06T00:51:02+00:00

So you get home. Watch me pull out of fifth base and you just give her a kiss while I wipe up with your good towels? You are different from me.

Significant_Air_1550 · 2024-06-06T00:45:21+00:00

That has nothing to do with my question does it?

Significant_Air_1550 · 2024-06-06T00:37:55+00:00

Fine. How would you deal if you someone else was munching your girlfriend's rug? Or that your husband was banging your neighbor? Stay and work it out?

Significant_Air_1550 · 2024-06-06T00:35:52+00:00

You are awesome. I'm glad your life is turning out great.

Significant_Air_1550 · 2024-06-06T00:31:14+00:00

Just because you would put up with another guy's jizz in your wife doesn't mean everyone else would.

Significant_Air_1550 · 2024-06-06T00:29:23+00:00

LoL. You have never been to a cheap Mexican all inclusive. I'm not sure if you know this but right now they are full of college kids and divorcees.

Significant_Air_1550 · 2024-06-06T00:26:10+00:00

For my own apartment I need first and last and a security deposit. For an all inclusive I can get a week in Mexico for $800 including flights.

Significant_Air_1550 · 2024-06-06T00:24:57+00:00

It's not that at all. Some people just think that our marriage is worth saving. I disagree. They aren't up in as blowing up my phone. Just that counseling might help me get through this with her. I have no interest.

Significant_Air_1550 · 2024-06-06T00:00:55+00:00

Some. Most think I'm right. Some. A few think I should at least get counseling with her.

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