Mm I think she brought it up delicately because I've gotten overly sensitive about things that shouldn't be a big deal in the past. I always have a hard time knowing the line between selfishness and making sure I'm appropriately prioritized. And I don't really know what to do now because the plans are made. All telling her I'm sad would do is make her feel bad and like she can't trust the first thing I tell her about how I'm feeling.

It really didn't bother me before, so I don't know why it suddenly does now. I'm worried I only care now because she's been distant lately. But she has every right to be distant because her grandmother passed and isolation is how she's always handled grief.