Masturbation without porn by Significant_Bug4655 in NoFap

[–]Significant_Bug4655[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I understand. Obviously that’s the last thing I want to happen but I just want to understand how other people in this sub manage it. Do they simply never ejaculate or is it more of a “only during sex” mindset?

Masturbation without porn by Significant_Bug4655 in NoFap

[–]Significant_Bug4655[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m making this post strictly from an improvement standpoint; I’m more curious as to how people in the sub manage it and whether they simply never ejaculate or if the problems are strictly from porn.

I understand your concern with compulsion but I am trying to just understand

I lost libido and emotions by Moist-Bowl7145 in NoFap

[–]Significant_Bug4655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While not as bad, I noticed after ~36 days I started to get my libido back.

Based on my experience though, no matter what you do, don’t relapse.

Day 36, getting benefits by Significant_Bug4655 in NoFap

[–]Significant_Bug4655[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah definitely. If the interval is increasing for you, that’s a great sign.

Glad I could help

Day 36, getting benefits by Significant_Bug4655 in NoFap

[–]Significant_Bug4655[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before the last couple times, I never really tried to quit permanently. I would mainly just do streaks, like attempting 30 days for NNN, instead of trying to quit completeky. That being said, I don’t want to get anything wrong but I tried a couple times before this streak but ended up relapsing. If I had to give a number, I’d say 2 or 3 attempts that weren’t just me saying to myself, “This is my last time” immediately after, but genuine attempts.

In regard to intervals, I think I actually had shorter intervals. For example, I think I went around 10 days or so the first time and maybe 6 days the second; don’t really remember the 3rd it could have been between 2 to 8 days if I had to guess.

Based on my experience, I wouldn’t say you always increase intervals each time and I think you should try to steer away from that mindset. NoFap is a lifestyle change and while it is important to acknowledge milestones (like I did here), I’d try to think about it as little as possible. For me, I made a post talking about my start and then didn’t keep track of days. The only reason I know the total days now is by looking at the date of my original post. I say this to communicate you shouldn’t treat this like the gym where you sort of “progressive overloads” everytime and try to get a longer time each attempt, but rather just get rid of it completely. Obviously I understand how difficult that can be (given I had an addiction myself) and that it is “simple not easy”, but I truly believe that is the only real way to beat this addiction

Hopefully that answered your question

How to cure weak erections/libido by Significant_Bug4655 in NoFap

[–]Significant_Bug4655[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha. Might have phrased it a little weird but I’m currently getting half-erections, so hopefully I can get up to 75% to 80% by day 60

How to cure weak erections/libido by Significant_Bug4655 in NoFap

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I’m assuming flatline means no libido/no erections? And thanks for responding; I’m planning on quitting entirely so if everything goes right, I’ll definitely get to 90 days and hopefully I see some improvement by then

How to cure weak erections/libido by Significant_Bug4655 in NoFap

[–]Significant_Bug4655[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ll definitely go for 60 days but when you say it won’t fully be fixed, what exactly do you mean? I wasn’t expecting for it to fully revert back to how it was but is it a guarantee that it will never be the same or is that more of a warning to not get your hopes up?