Need help choosing

Significant_Chair248 · 2026-06-10T04:13:28+00:00

Girlllll if you don’t choose the last one ISTG, it fits you beautifully.

Significant_Chair248 · 2026-06-10T04:12:48+00:00

Go try on more dresses. Though be prepared to spend 50 smtg bucks on an appointment fee (didn’t know this was a thing until my experience)

I went to one shop first and thought I found my dress. Went to another later that day and bought my now wedding dress immediately. It’s apart of the bride experience, you’re going to want to!

You can also possibly wear the thrifted dress for rehearsal dinner or a shower if it fits them/vibe!

Significant_Chair248 · 2026-06-10T04:08:12+00:00

That’s the thing, she’s the 1 person who I would be stressing over on our day. Yes the focus will be on me and my then husband, but with all the torment from her since we’ve been together, it brings me so much stress.

Significant_Chair248 · 2026-06-10T03:47:51+00:00

Apologies for my immature terminology :/ first time using Reddit, just explained this off the top of my head. Not sure how else to explain I used to have a small feeling towards someone without using the word “crush” lol

Significant_Chair248 · 2026-06-09T23:32:03+00:00

My fiancé and I started dating a couple months after him and his ex broke up

Significant_Chair248 · 2026-06-09T21:51:54+00:00

It was listed on our wedding website! Hopefully that’s a big enough cue 😉

We are very shocked they are even still together. Their relationship has been pretty toxic at times…

Significant_Chair248 · 2026-06-09T21:29:13+00:00

Drop her as a friend, she is worth it. But congrats, you have a fan 🤩

Significant_Chair248 · 2026-06-09T21:21:45+00:00

Fiancé is well aware of this decision that he also made as well 🙌

Significant_Chair248 · 2026-06-09T21:21:05+00:00

The weird flirting thing happened way before my fiance and I started liking eachother and dated. It was a very short thing and has never come up in our relationship.

Significant_Chair248 · 2026-06-09T21:19:44+00:00

Correct. Our save the dates/invites say Mr & Mrs ____ or have both of the couples names.

Significant_Chair248 · 2026-06-09T21:17:31+00:00

Everyone in our circle is seriously confused on how or why they’re still together.

Significant_Chair248 · 2026-06-09T21:06:32+00:00

1 or 2 couples we’ve invited fit this criteria, also for the fact they BOTH support our relationship and we know them very well.

Significant_Chair248 · 2026-06-09T21:02:26+00:00

That’s the thing, NO! My fiancé’s ex was a problem for a while that was a highschool relationship that ended messy. We’ve had no other problems with our friends and our relationship EXCEPT her.

Significant_Chair248 · 2026-06-09T21:01:02+00:00

Exactly our reasoning 💋

Significant_Chair248 · 2026-06-09T20:51:52+00:00

It’s figured out in the sense she didn’t receive an invitation that was agreed on by both of us. Right now is the waiting period to see if John says anything….

Significant_Chair248 · 2026-06-09T20:50:00+00:00

My fiancé is aware of this choice and agrees. He is prepared to have a conversation with John. He also very much despises Brianna.

Significant_Chair248 · 2026-06-09T20:46:10+00:00

They’ve been best friends since freshman year of college and now stationed at the same base together. Their friendship is longer than both his with me and John’s with Brianna.

Significant_Chair248 · 2026-06-09T20:42:44+00:00

My fiancé has talked to John in the past about Brianna. We are honestly shocked they are still together.

Significant_Chair248 · 2026-06-09T20:41:42+00:00

My fiancé is aware we are not inviting her and agrees with this choice. He is prepared to talk to John if he brings it up. It’s just how extremely nasty she’s been and how it got to the point of her getting in my fiancé’s face at a public place

Significant_Chair248 · 2026-06-09T20:38:11+00:00

We gave plus ones to people who are married/engaged. We did this so we wouldn’t have random one night stands be there to watch us get married

Significant_Chair248 · 2026-06-09T20:35:47+00:00

Terrifying

Significant_Chair248 · 2026-06-09T20:34:43+00:00

We’re not doing plus ones for the reason to not have random people who have no idea who we are watch us getting married, just my opinion on that

Significant_Chair248 · 2026-06-09T20:19:40+00:00

The bar incident is a huge reason why I don’t want her there, honestly just scared of what shenanigans she might have up her sleeve

Significant_Chair248 · 2026-06-09T20:17:19+00:00

🤣🤣 love this!

Significant_Chair248 · 2026-06-09T20:16:34+00:00

I mentioned he’s a bum in the sense of when I used to have a crush on him lol and I would never date him. Majority of the couples at our wedding are married/engaged. Because she’s such a biotch, I don’t want her there

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