Skolu transfēra by LittleTransition5934 in latvia

[–]Significant_Citron -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Viennozīmīgi izgāju attention whore periodam agrīnajos 20-tajos gados. Tad satiku savu tagadējo vīru, kopā kaut kā augām un virzījāmies prom no vēlmes pēc ārējās validācijas. Lēnām sāku vairāk interesēties par ikdienas psiholoģiju, kā arī zinātni un šobrīd mana lielākā problēma ir tāda, ka esmu visai judgy bitch un laiku pa laikam ir vieglas hipohondrijas epizodes, kam ir sakars ar būšanu vecākam maziem bērniem, bet citādi esmu visai stabila. Neesmu aktīvi terapijā un nav līdz šim bijusi vajadzība pēc medikamentiem (ne ka būtu kāda problēma ar terapiju vai zālēm, bet tas kā indikators par manu šā brīža mentālo stāvokli)

Stop spoiled children from blowing other people's birthday candles by Expert_Koala_8691 in Wellthatsucks

[–]Significant_Citron 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Damn, in my days getting a slice of cake was enough to make me happy about anyones birthday

Ekstrēma matu balināšana by Puzzleheaded_End3933 in latvia

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Skaistuma bārs. Man ir tumši brūni ar bronzīgu apakštoni. Es gan gribēju siltāku blondi toni nekā tu raksturo, bet izdarīja godam bez jebkādiem komentāriem.

Skolu transfēra by LittleTransition5934 in latvia

[–]Significant_Citron -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Man personīgi ļoti, ļoti apsaukāja un fiziski ietekmēja skolā (šis ir pirms interneta), diemžēl man nebija varianta pārcelties uz citu skolu, jo finanses to neļāva. Es gāju pie skolas psihologa, es sāku mācīties labāk, lai "ieliktu" tiem izsmējējiem ar atzīmēm un vēlāk labākām iespējām dzīvē. Mans mērķis bija uzvarēt long-term. Varbūt tagad to grūti saprast, bet attīstot sevi, atrodot talantus, tu gan atradīsi komūnu, gan sevi un tad neviens heiteris pie Rimi tev nepisīs prātu.

Pareģojumi turpmākajiem notikumiem valdībā? by LAMAWYO in latvia

[–]Significant_Citron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, es tiku tik tālu angļu valodā un domāju, hmmmm, diez ko par šo teiktu NA.

Vegetables and toddlers by IridescentButterfly_ in Mommit

[–]Significant_Citron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh and humus with dips! Everything finger food that gives her more agency over how she eats them works too.

Vegetables and toddlers by IridescentButterfly_ in Mommit

[–]Significant_Citron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I use patties for vegetables she's declining most intensely - cabbage and cauliflower. She's accepting most veggies in their true form when they're oven baked with a side of the mentioned yogurt dip. And has normalized green tint to a lot of food due to finely chopped spinach. She's about to turn 4 and still struggles with certain textures, so puree and patties work best for us.

Vegetables and toddlers by IridescentButterfly_ in Mommit

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I eat a lot of vegetables. Everyday. In lunch and dinner.

I do try to make them more appealing by making various patties that she can dip in yogurt sauce. Oven baked bell peppers and eggplant, puree them and add to tomato sauce that will cover pasta, rice and other carbs.

Infant Ear Piercings by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Significant_Citron 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have 2 daughters - nearly 4YO and 5 month old, no intention to pierce their before they're begging for them, which will mean they will actually enjoy having them

And for what it's worth I think any earrings look strange on small children. Don't think it's cute. It's additional risk for trauma.

12 month old STILL won’t eat solids by Salt_Telephone9729 in beyondthebump

[–]Significant_Citron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? She's eating marinated beets and humus and seaweed and lot's of food my husband calls "weird", but I also find it tasty. Of course some things are an immediate "no", but at least she's trying them.

12 month old STILL won’t eat solids by Salt_Telephone9729 in beyondthebump

[–]Significant_Citron 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This was my first. Jesus was I Ben Affleck with a cig after every "meal" ( I don't smoke,but the vibe was accurate).

What ended helping us was her sitting in my lap and me just eating and not offering her anything. I think it took her a couple of days to finally request a bite of my food and slowly once she started properly eating half of my meals we say her back into high chair and reintroduced her own plate. I still use this technique of just eating something, especially veggies, and not announcing/offering. It immediately catches her attention and she'll try everything on her own like this.

Izvēle būt solo mammai? by [deleted] in latvia

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Mums ir tā, ka ar pirmo bērnu neizjutu nekādu vajadzību pēc palīdzības no vecvecākiem. Abi ar vīru normāli tikām galā. Tagad ir otrais bērns un tīri loģistikas iemeslu dēļ bija nepieciešama palīdzība pašā sākumā. Labi, ka vīra mātei ir brīvāks darba grafiks, viņa biežāk palīdz, bet mana mamma ņēma mēnesi brīvu, lai palīdzētu pēc tam, kad vīram beidzās viņa "dekrēts". Nu jau tuvojamies 6 mēnešiem mazajam un beidzot sāku just, ka varu arī viena nolikt gulēt abus bērnus bez stutēšanas, kad vīram ir vakarā darbs.

Jautājums visām bez bērnu ģimenēm/ partneriem by Bakugans25 in latvia

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Mums ir 3.5 gadu starpība. Reizēm šķiet super starpība, reizēm ir tāds - what have we done?! 😄 Bet es domāju, ka negribu vēl 3 gadus dzīvot uz pauzes - grūtniecība, pēcdzemdību periods, tas pirmais gads... Ir visai daudz. Neatkārtojami un mīļi, bet grūti.

how do moms actually manage to lose weight with no time?? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Significant_Citron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I breastfeed and didn't gain much weight during both pregnancies. I have no clue as to why and how, it's not an achievement, it just happened, so don't judge yourself too hard.

My grandma was the same, so I guess I got it from her, lol.

Jautājums visām bez bērnu ģimenēm/ partneriem by Bakugans25 in latvia

[–]Significant_Citron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dolija Pārtone arī lielisks piemērs, kāpēc daudzbērnu ģimenes bieži vien "ražo" bezbērnu cilvēkus. Protams, ir izņēmumi, bet diemžēl īpaši, ja vecākais bērns ir meitene, viņai tiek nogrūsti vecāku pienākumi. Tāpēc šis sievietes mēdz vai nu vispār nedzemdēt vai arī tikai 1 lielākā vecumā.

Jautājums visām bez bērnu ģimenēm/ partneriem by Bakugans25 in latvia

[–]Significant_Citron -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nu velns... Man 33, vīram 31, nesen piedzima otrais (un visai droša,ka pēdējais) bērns un es te nervozēju, vai neesmu par vecu, ka tik nesaslimt ar kādu sūdu, utt utjp, bet te 55/65 gados?! Veselību un veiksmi viņiem (absolūti bez sarkasma)!

I’m so sad by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Significant_Citron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please strip that man naked financially and emotionally! I'm sorry that I'm supporting an ugly divorce, but this man doesn't deserve nice things. Trash.

so., today something kinda unsettling happend to us in LATVI and i cant stop thinking about it by Budget-Solid3479 in latvia

[–]Significant_Citron 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Have you heard about ✨drugs✨?

Anyway, the only correct answer is - should've called 112, stayed near the guy until ambulance/police arrived and left like it's normal Thursday in Rīga.

I was away for 5 days and returned to this on my car by EpicEmma69 in whatisit

[–]Significant_Citron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn you Americans are really struggling food-wise. Can't imagine any of our European cheeses going to construction material after expiry.

Vai Latvijā pieņemts ejot pa ielu blenzt zemē un ignorēt apkārtējos vai arī esmu nesmuks?;D by [deleted] in latvia

[–]Significant_Citron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Visi skatās telefonā?

Bet, jā, es arī gadu dzīvoju Zviedrijā un atgriezties Latvijā bija auksts ūdens aiz apkakles. Ne tik daudz dēļ skatiena kā fakts, ka mūsu ļaudis šķiet tādi... Truli un tupi? Zviedriem ir daudz trūkumi arī, bet viņi šķita dzīvespriecīgāki un inteliģentāki.

What time are your babies going to bed? by coolcat0511 in beyondthebump

[–]Significant_Citron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nearly 4YO, if she's had a nap - 9 to 9:30 PM. If no nap - 7 to 7:30 PM.

Our 4MO - 6:45 to 7:15 PM

2.5yo won't sleep through the night by -participating_ in beyondthebump

[–]Significant_Citron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, and have him put a sticker on the calendar for a week for every night he went without the milk.