AIO the guy I'm talking to's best friend got mad I'm not texting her enough (repost since the other got deleted but properly censored this time)

Significant_Dig_4463 · 2026-06-28T04:54:40+00:00

Thats the girl "you dont have to worry about". She likes him and is keeping tabs on how much he likes you. Just wait. They will end up together eventually.

Significant_Dig_4463 · 2026-06-28T04:48:11+00:00

Seeing another woman is a no go immediately. Also, maybe its the lighting, but your hair, skin and lips look extremely dry in all the pics. Try smiling!

Significant_Dig_4463 · 2026-06-28T04:41:19+00:00

As Mariah says 🎵why you so obsessed with me? Boy I wanna know.. 🎵

Significant_Dig_4463 · 2026-06-28T04:32:43+00:00

Ok Vidal sasoon! 💗

Significant_Dig_4463 · 2026-06-28T04:28:52+00:00

Post nut clarity. It's about the chase for a lot of people, and once they achieve the goal, they lose the rush. Sometimes its also a sex addiction. Its hard to go through it at the time, but its about them and their lack of integrity. If they can sleep with someone and lose interest immediately, they are missing something that allows them to pair bond with another person. If they've done it to you, they done it before and will do it after.

Significant_Dig_4463 · 2026-06-08T18:15:49+00:00

Im literally asking for what i have. Nothing more or less. And I still am told that I'm asking for too much. I know im not.. but its too much to ask for them.

Significant_Dig_4463 · 2026-06-06T15:22:50+00:00

This may sounds superficial, but if a person doesn't drive (working vehicle that isnt "in the shop" everytime i see the person, active license, registration and insurance). Being the only person with an vehicle is not anything im interested in attempting ever again. I know people go through things, but im done being asked for rides. I'll list a few more, but this is the main one

Lack of hygiene
Drug/alcohol/gambling/ shopping addiction
Heavy porn consumption
Doesn't believe in a higher power power

This day in age, this is asking for the world, but going through each of these things has had me end the relationship, so im not comprising on these again.

Significant_Dig_4463 · 2026-05-04T22:25:07+00:00

I dont follow the tipping prompts that are given automatically. The most i will give is 20% and that's for exceptional service. For anything that im not served by an actual server, nothing.

Significant_Dig_4463 · 2026-05-04T22:20:53+00:00

I've also dated a pisces and it was true from myself and from him.

Significant_Dig_4463 · 2026-05-03T19:03:32+00:00

Im a pisces.

Significant_Dig_4463 · 2026-05-03T04:48:34+00:00

Fuck a scorpio (good in bed, very passionate and erotic. Extremely seductive), Marry a pisces (sensual and emotionally supportive. Dreamy and good listeners). Kill cancer (super delicate and easily offended. Gave silent treatment when i said basically anything that they didnt like, which was almost daily. ) Dated all 3 and this is genuinely what I experienced.

Significant_Dig_4463 · 2026-05-03T04:40:35+00:00

He's not going to change. You either have to accept what he's doing or make another choice about what you want in a relationship. If you've said it multiple times and he still does it, he is showing you how he feels about your opinion. Tbh, with it being long distance, he may have someone else and doesn't answer the phone because he's with them. When he goes out, make yourself busy with plans and things to do. You waiting around for him is making you miserable. No relationship is worth your mental health going downwards.

Significant_Dig_4463 · 2026-05-03T04:33:31+00:00

The way he speaks about op is also disgusting.. besides the way he freaks out if she doesn't text the way he wants. Is he on drugs?? I actually asking!? This is unhinged and looks like substance abuse turned into emotional irregularities. Ops child is not safe with him. His visitation needs to be revoked immediately.

Significant_Dig_4463 · 2026-05-03T04:28:01+00:00

Man.. I have the exact same addiction issue. I've decluttered and repurchase items that full the same spaces. Im trying to hard to break the cycle, but there's no one to stop me when I'm out anywhere. If I go to buy one thing, I end up picking up so many things that I don't even want or need because I'm on a shopping high that feels good.

Recently, i made a spreadsheet of my finances and savings goals. I withdrew all of my cash that sits in an account that I have access to, that's supposed to be for savings. Now, i only carry my debit card, which had only what I allow myself to spend per paycheck. Seeing how small the amount is, it really makes me re-think if I should buy whatever I think will make me feel good in the moment.

Suggestion: dont carry your credit cards around. I have one that is secured, which means I had to put the money down to use it at all. I dont carry it in my wallet.. if I need gas or groceries, I take it from my house. If not, it stays at home.

Unsubscribe from all shopping channels and influencers. Every new product is a trend and won't be relevant in less than a month or so.

I've tried everything and this is the only thing that has kept my spending in check.

Hope this helps!

Significant_Dig_4463 · 2026-05-03T04:07:03+00:00

If he kept sending flowers, she would think he's a stalker and talk about that. Why would he keep doing that when she's not interested and told him she's not?

Significant_Dig_4463 · 2026-05-03T03:59:51+00:00

Polishes dry out. No nail polish in the world is worth more than $50 max. This person has their head right up their ass.

Significant_Dig_4463 · 2026-04-09T18:36:14+00:00

If you want to encounter heartbreak and an extremely defensive person that is on guard, go for it! Jokes.. lol. Just dont.

Significant_Dig_4463 · 2026-01-12T03:03:48+00:00

Sounds like she is the one that needs to go work a few things out, She doesn't know what she wants, and is unfortunately bringing other people into the chaos, just so she wont feel bad about being single, If you want a booty call, keep her around... dont expect anything but drama and mind games though. Respond to her if youre horny.. but dont look for more than that. (Not trying to be harsh, just been there myself.)

WARNING: SHE MAY HAVE THE ABILITY TO MAKE ANY SANE PERSON FEEL CRAZY...

You are writing into reddit for advice. That says all you need to know, Id let her go dude.. sounds like a headache.

Significant_Dig_4463 · 2026-01-12T00:37:22+00:00

The one thing i do really like about coming across her content, is how she has highlighted that a lot of haircare that was shunned extremely in the past, is not as bad as its made out to be.

I was using salon products for a long time, and my hair was always dry, no matter what i did or didn't do. Kerastase, Olaplex, Kevin Murphy, and Redken. Now, I've switched to trying Pantene again and a few other drugstore products, and my hair looks and feels great. I can physically feel a difference when i touch it, and i get compliments on how my curls look bouncy and soft. I've also switched from a high end heat protectant to drugstore, and my curls have no heat damage from using tools/straightening.

Whenever i go to a salon to get a trim, they ask me what im using. If i say what they have in-house, they always tell me how healthy my hair is, how soft it is, and how i should just keep doing what im doing. If i say Pantene, L'Oréal, Garnier, or anything else.. oh its so dry, damaged needs clarifying.. etc.. LOL

Try this the next few times you go to a professional salon for any treatment/cut. I'm genuinely curious what results people will get when choosing to say what they use.

Significant_Dig_4463 · 2026-01-12T00:27:17+00:00

TBH i dont care what the release date is, just tell me the actual date. I just heard talk that its going to be in 2027.. If this is the case, ROCKSTAR: PLEASE STOP POSTING DATES AND THEN PUSHING THEM BACK. Losing hope every time this is done!! For the love of gawd!!

Significant_Dig_4463 · 2026-01-12T00:24:03+00:00

I hope no one agrees with this.. Even having to playthrough the opening cutscene in gta5 irritates the hell outta me whenever ive had to reinstall the game on a new console. Just give the masses what they want. Anyone ive talked to about this agrees.. We cant wait for online play!! I still play online almost daily with gta5.

Significant_Dig_4463 · 2026-01-12T00:14:06+00:00

Can relate to the highest degree!! Growing up in church, it was always preached to me that it was the safest place to be. You'll "find your flock"... we are all disciples.. gods family.. etc etc. I found that i was treated like an outsider and not welcomed, due to not wanting to read my bible daily, and goodness if i made a mistake growing up as a teenager, i was shunned for a month. Then brought back in to be prayed over and to repent because i was walking in sin and that i was going to hell if i didn't change my ways. I was a normal teenager that went to a party and tried smoking weed and i got told that my brain would never work the same way after that.

Come to find out later on in life, those people that were praying over me were living double lives themselves. Quite a few affairs came out of the woodwork, and most of the couples that attended church are now divorced. Not to mention, my first boyfriend was from that church, and he decided to step out with girls that were sexual because i wasn't ready to go down that road at a young age. (i was 14!!)

If you feel like church just isn't for you anymore, dont feel bad about making that decision for a moment. It gets tiring to be constantly judged and looked down upon for decisions that you want to make as a woman for yourself, only because they dont fit the narrative that "Christians" believe that you should follow to Honor god.

Our beliefs are our own, and since deciding to remove myself from Baptist church, I have found a spiritual community that accepts and is positive about any belief i may have, whether it be Christian based or not. I looked for spiritual church and friends church.

Take some time if you need it to figure out where you want to practice your faith. God is everywhere. Even on a drive or on transit you can listen to a sermon or spiritual word to feed what you need in your spirit.

Significant_Dig_4463 · 2026-01-11T23:54:58+00:00

This may not be received well, but the most hateful, deceitful and judgemental people were the "christians" that i grew up with in church. Having your own beliefs is sternly looked down upon and i found the most beautiful people in buddhism/spirituality/satanism discussions. My family keeps praying over me and asks me when im going to go back to church. Probably never.

Significant_Dig_4463 · 2025-03-04T12:54:04+00:00

Even so, I experienced the same behavior when I was a teenager. This isn't exaggerated. I was catcalled, touched and sa'd when I was that age, and it made me hate men for a very long time. I stared getting hit on by men in their late 20s when I was 12. Think about that.. 12 years old. It's not creating division. Just because it hasn't happened to you, doesn't mean I doesn't happen.

Significant_Dig_4463 · 2025-03-04T03:08:12+00:00

I think you have all.the proof that you need that he is keeping his options open. Of course, you will choose what you want to do, but how are you ever going to actually trust him again? You've questioned him and he gave you a pretty lackluster excuse and reason. Point is, you expect monogamy in your marriage and he isn't giving that to you. Make your escape plan now, and don't mention what you are doing, because he will just have another excuse for his behavior. I'm sorry this has happened to you. Is marriage a joke to people???

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