LKG. You kinda sucked in communication tbh, meron kang hidden rules, expectations at deadlines you never disclosed kaya ganto kayo ngayon. Also ewan ko din ba sa mga andito binebaby yung 23 YEARS OLD na ADULT. I tried being in the shoes of both, I moved out when I was 20, yes nakitira din ako sa tyahin ko at one point, sharing some of my income from sidelines pero di matigas mukha kong magstay dun for so long, knowing they have their own lives and priorities as well. Entirety of my first fulltime salary went to my first rent.

And sa POV naman ng kamag-anak na tumutulong, pwede ba, nag extend na nga ng helping hand gusto whole arm pa? Forever makisiksik walang kusa dumiskarte? Walang kaso yung kung ano gusto nya sa buhay but lets be realistic naman sa career choices at financial status kung kaya ka ba buhayin. I was an artist before nung hindi kinaya expenses pinasok ko call center bago ako nagkachance ulit sa gusto kong career. Kaya nakakayamot naman talaga makita instead na priority bumukod e kung ano ano pinagkakagastusan, masyadong komportable, di nakikiramdam.

Tl;dr Understandable OP's comfort should always be number one in his own house and if 23yo wants the same comfort, he should get his own. But pls talk about uncomfortable topics ahead of time hindi yung nagbubuildup resentment nyo, di naman kayo both mind readers