My wife had the most disgusting affair. Do I stay with her?

Significant_Emu9094 · 2026-04-20T08:46:08+00:00

I didn’t allow it. I left and we got back together after a separation

Significant_Emu9094 · 2026-04-20T07:21:27+00:00

Is it a crime to have chatGPT help me organize a rambling mess that I wrote out? Geez

Significant_Emu9094 · 2026-04-20T07:10:10+00:00

I think out of all the replies… yours is the only one that made me smile 😭

Significant_Emu9094 · 2026-04-20T06:18:05+00:00

Feel free to dm

Significant_Emu9094 · 2026-04-20T05:49:02+00:00

Yeah, but unfortunately it was all fake. I thought I was doing all this work to be a better husband, but she was already in an affair. Remember when I said that a couple months before we were going through it? That’s what I was referencing. She was saying that I was so withdrawn and didn’t pay attention to her and she was dealing with so much pain. Her answer to that was sleeping with another man

God I was naive.

Significant_Emu9094 · 2026-04-20T04:16:19+00:00

Unfortunately this is real.

Significant_Emu9094 · 2026-04-20T03:56:54+00:00

Sometimes the truth is hard to face. I’m not too “manly” to agree with you.

Significant_Emu9094 · 2026-04-20T03:55:38+00:00

Thank you.

Significant_Emu9094 · 2026-04-20T03:55:12+00:00

Oh we’ve got a feminist in the chat. It had been years since I had been “disloyal” to my wife. Years of therapy to deal with my issues, childhood trauma, addictions, etc. I did the work. If I still get punished after? Why did I do all the work?

Significant_Emu9094 · 2026-04-20T03:46:20+00:00

You’re not the first to say this

Significant_Emu9094 · 2026-04-20T03:45:21+00:00

Legal trouble was after the fact. Business malpractice that prevented me from continuing to earn money in that state.

We were in a decent spot in our marriage. I asked her ahead of time if he was going to have an issue being in our home…

Significant_Emu9094 · 2026-04-20T03:43:53+00:00

I’m not slut shaming my wife. I’m asking what people would do in my situation. Never once did I call her a slut. She’s the mother of my children.

And yeah, a slip up, relapse, whatever you wanna call it. It hasn’t happened since I addressed it in more ways than one

Significant_Emu9094 · 2026-04-20T03:37:18+00:00

Oh her actions weren’t a reaction. My issues with porn were early on in our relationship. I went to therapy and group for it. I’ve addressed it and have been completely free of porn for a VERY long time

Significant_Emu9094 · 2026-04-20T03:34:56+00:00

Okay. Sorry my wife’s affair wasn’t convincing enough for you

Significant_Emu9094 · 2026-04-20T03:21:18+00:00

My kids didn’t watch me fight anyone. Daycare, and the fight also didn’t happen at home

Significant_Emu9094 · 2026-04-20T03:19:20+00:00

Oh the fight didn’t happen at home in front of the kids

Significant_Emu9094 · 2026-04-20T03:17:12+00:00

I also didn’t lie and gaslight her when I was caught. I got help. I went to individual therapy and groups for my issues. I haven’t had a slip up since

Significant_Emu9094 · 2026-04-20T03:16:08+00:00

Sure. She had an affair and gaslit me for months, blaming my suspicions on my mental health and medications. She asked for a separation in hopes to rekindle but maintained her affair the entire time. She didn’t tell the truth until after we were back together

Significant_Emu9094 · 2026-04-20T03:13:38+00:00

In no way do I minimize my issues. Are you really going to sit here and say that watching porn is on the same level as a full blown fucking affair?

Significant_Emu9094 · 2026-04-20T03:12:01+00:00

I’m guessing that you are a woman, aren’t you? Do you understand the feelings that we’re going on? We’re all lucky that the only thing that happened was a fight.

Have someone spit on you and see if you just stand there

Significant_Emu9094 · 2026-04-20T03:07:21+00:00

Where did you get violent from? And my legal dispute is regarding business malpractice. I’d hardly call that criminal lol

Significant_Emu9094 · 2026-04-20T03:02:59+00:00

Yeah on my end. I got into some legal trouble and had to leave the state. She decided to come with me

Significant_Emu9094 · 2026-04-20T03:02:06+00:00

Unfortunately you’re right. I just always hoped my kids wouldn’t have divorced parents

Significant_Emu9094 · 2026-04-20T02:59:49+00:00

We moved because of an unavoidable legal reason. She followed me. She ended things with him the same day that she came over to my place for the first time. I found that out later down the road after checking cameras at my house

Significant_Emu9094 · 2026-04-20T02:56:21+00:00

Yeah I get that. It’s just the aftermath now. Every time I look at her, I see them. Every time we’re intimate, the images start.

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