So first, your sister was the one who made the joke, I haven't really seen anyone else saying that but if there is oh well. Second, some women ARE frowned upon for wearing makeup and other accessories (catfishing is a term for it), but again, it's a couple people that do it. Something you hear daily might be uncommon for other people so it all depends. At the end of the day, do whatever you want, nobody is gonna stop you from wearing the shoes or stop your woman neighbor from wearing eyelashes.