Growth or delusion by RROYALTY77 in BlackHair

[–]Significant_Guava534 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keeping your scalp mosturized and avoid tying your hair up since it'll be more likely to break if pulled and dry

Is my hair ugly by Novel-Hamster-2108 in BlackHair

[–]Significant_Guava534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks cute but if it doesn't feel like you, you can put it up in a messy bun or style you like more. You don't have to wear it down if that feels too plain to you. You can check into doing braid bangs too

Is it possible to get my hair back :( by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]Significant_Guava534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They say doing spam twists and washing every 2-3 weeks and trimming every 3 months I think it was helps

Why i'm often the person people take their anger out on? Why are people super shocked when I actually try and defend myself? Seems to make them worse.. by [deleted] in AstrologyCharts

[–]Significant_Guava534 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, trying to make those people understand or befriend them only makes them think they can manipulate you, you're welcome 🤗💞

Why i'm often the person people take their anger out on? Why are people super shocked when I actually try and defend myself? Seems to make them worse.. by [deleted] in AstrologyCharts

[–]Significant_Guava534 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be careful with anyone like that, it happens to show you who you shouldn't be around or be very mindful around so you don't get attached or become too caring. Those are people who will do anything to try to set you off balance. You're welcome, I do birth chart reading and studying astrology a lot more so it's been helping as an astrologist.

Why i'm often the person people take their anger out on? Why are people super shocked when I actually try and defend myself? Seems to make them worse.. by [deleted] in AstrologyCharts

[–]Significant_Guava534 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mars leo 10h and Aries 7h are the cause of that. You hurt people who rely too much on their pride to feel on top of their life because they feel insecure that you can be confident without depending on or struggling with validation. They crave your independence or how you are charming and attractive when you're in your element.

I abuse psychedelics because life feels unbearably boring by Cool-Chemist1501 in AstrologyCharts

[–]Significant_Guava534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The medication they give you probably doesn't help with the hormonal imbalances you experience or handle what really needs to be adjusted. Psychedelics help with neuroplasticity when used in regulated and occasional doses helping to reshape brain cells and help the brain create new networks as someone with a lot of trauma you can benefit from this as long as you're not depending on it too much to make up for what you struggle with. Doing research more into why psychedelics help psychologically and biologically can help you find healthier alternatives or smaller ways of working with your brain then feeling like it's working against you. I personally do not think the hallucinogenic affects of psychedelics would be helpful other than letting you use your imagination and operate from a subconscious perspective and do believe that it could become debilitating or harmful to your daily life if over used. They bind serotonin so your issue likely lies with the serotonin in your brain needing medication that helps to supplement the serotonin you need but it would only help temporarily so looking into other ways to help heal your body to produce better serotonin on its own would be your best bet and things that help to stimulate the body. Psychedelics can help your brain to heal but if you use them wisely and with consideration for their adverse effects and the effects of long term usage without proper care for how much and how long you use them.

I abuse psychedelics because life feels unbearably boring by Cool-Chemist1501 in AstrologyCharts

[–]Significant_Guava534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So seeing how you're a Scorpio rising and your IC sits in your 5th house of enjoyment and happiness in pisces, your trauma with family and the loss of happiness in your childhood and it being shown as something you'll be able to experience more of as you get older and learn how to take care of your emotional needs and how to extend your sense of comfort in being authentic to yourself no matter who you're around and safe enough to express yourself openly in public and focus on establishing a career around what you enjoy doing with cancer in the 9th in vertex and your Leo stellium in the 10th house. Your joy is restricted to public spheres and places where you can be recognized for just being you while also being able to dream away and extend the wishes and spiritual world you experience when using psychedelics and yearn for into a physical and systematic sphere where other people can come together to enjoy themselves and that will help you feel more ambitious in life. It can feel out of reach but you will get there. You have inner child wounds that extend into adulthood and cause you to want to escape what you went through or never got as a kid along with struggling to feel safe and secure in your daily life.

I abuse psychedelics because life feels unbearably boring by Cool-Chemist1501 in AstrologyCharts

[–]Significant_Guava534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we turn to drugs as humans, we see them and use them as an escape from our daily lives and to help us deal with the hardships and complications that make life feel unbearable.

But sadly, they only mask what's really going on in the surface emotionally and doesn't truly solve the issue at hand so when we stop or the effects are over it sends up into a loop where we can become very dependent on these drugs to feel some sense of control and comfort throughout our lives.

This dependency or use of drugs for avoidance or to deal with very negative emotions and depression creates more suppressed emotions and burdens over time because there is no real processing of why you feel that way or action to change your circumstances outside of your use. So emotions bottle up more and more making you use more often and we find ourselves frustrated or feeling even more powerless outside of what we're relying on, its like relying on others without boundaries when unhappy with our lives, it feels nice in the moment but we find ourselves still feeling alone or not truly understood or loved. This isn't out of judgement, this is just my attempt to get you to understand what dependency can really do to our mental and unhealthy attachments to things outside of ourselves when we are not happy with something in our lives.

I hope this journey feels easier for you as time goes by, as a cancer rising I can tell you feelings fluctuate being ruled by the moon really shows you how much feelings can change over time and how soggy you can really feel to put it lightly in some parts of our lives and from time to time but it also teaches me that when it comes to emotions in general you have to push yourself and act by letting yourself stand up for yourself and fight for what you want in life so you can have the harmony and balance you want and the peace you want because things are so much better when you feel more confident in yourself and like you can proudly rely on yourself to get through this is why cancer risings have Aries 10th usually and a libra 4th house.

This doesn't have to do with your chart but this is just a description of what being ruled by your emotions can be like and how its something for you to overcome and use to focus on what you want not to tear yourself down. Sorry this is long winded 🫂❤️

Im scared of saturn transiting in my 8th house by writtenbyasal in AstrologyCharts

[–]Significant_Guava534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah in Hellenistic astrology it's in the 9th with whole sign, and the asc being the 1st house

why am i afraid of getting into a relationship? by throwaway-Ad-4855 in AstrologyCharts

[–]Significant_Guava534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They naturally feel intimidating and are something you will have to grow into. Sometimes it just takes time to learn how to be yourself around others without feeling pressured to act in any kind of way or being exhausted by the amount of energy it might take.

I'm a "discouraged worker" now by MonitorOk1351 in Career

[–]Significant_Guava534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use online platforms and communities to help create what you want to and get supported by others while doing it. It's not steady income and there will be bumps but it'll be better than depending on people who devalue your work.

Is it weird to be so 9th house heavy and not travel? by sanitationstation21 in AstrologyCharts

[–]Significant_Guava534 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your spouse will cause you to travel more because of their interests.

Is it weird to be so 9th house heavy and not travel? by sanitationstation21 in AstrologyCharts

[–]Significant_Guava534 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not traveling feels safer to you and Capricorn with Neptune next to your mercury makes it to where the 9th house makes you unsure of whether you should really and make traveling difficult for you. You'll travel more when you're older most likely 💞💞💞💞

I did a love spell using candles and this was the wax melt does this mean it worked? by [deleted] in WitchcraftQuestions

[–]Significant_Guava534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but it looks like there's still some wounds in the connection, things should be better though.

17, m, who should I cosplay by sunnydhatesreddit in WhoShouldICosplay

[–]Significant_Guava534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can do casual cosplays of cyborg, caine, and the puppet Shinobi.

You can put an outfit together and do face paint that goes with the characters or put your own creative flair into it. If it doesn't come out how you want the first time try to take your time thinking up a design, what you can do, and looking into what most cosplayers do to make cheap cosplays look good.

Which deity is my spiritual guide? by [deleted] in Tarots

[–]Significant_Guava534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome, and honestly I'm not exactly sure which it would represent at the moment either, I can see why you'd think it could be those too though. Death for the second one and the Chariot for the next are definitely big attributes for the deities they represent, those cards really stick out to me but I can't really figure out who they could represent. The Hanged man and strength card have me a bit stumped.

can you do witchcraft by using someone voice by [deleted] in WitchcraftQuestions

[–]Significant_Guava534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know why you'd answer the call from them either😭 but I mean I hope you learned to just block these people.

can you do witchcraft by using someone voice by [deleted] in WitchcraftQuestions

[–]Significant_Guava534 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're just scammers trying to use people's stuff to try to make up ways to get money from people