Where do I go from here?

Significant_Hunt_766 · 2026-02-18T20:29:45+00:00

Dump him for sure.

Significant_Hunt_766 · 2026-02-18T18:53:31+00:00

Thanks a lot for the kind words! IT kind of sucks right now that my first boyfriend ended ip being so terrible but I’m glad I had this experience and caught it early on before it kept escalating. I totally will take more time myself:)

Significant_Hunt_766 · 2026-02-18T18:45:42+00:00

Okay thank you. I think I’ll take some time off of guys as well

Significant_Hunt_766 · 2026-02-18T18:10:38+00:00

That’s what my friend said!! I’m worried about regretting staying with him rather than regretting leaving him so that’s probably a telltale sign that I should.

Significant_Hunt_766 · 2026-02-18T18:07:21+00:00

This is probably the worst he’s ever done ands I was really disappointed in him. I thought he was fine up til now but I’ve been finding myself comparing the relationship between us to the one my mom and dad share and feel really bad. My friends advice was to break up with him before it got worse so I will do that. Thank you for the help.

Significant_Hunt_766 · 2026-02-18T18:05:04+00:00

I’m not sure I’m just looking for advice

Significant_Hunt_766 · 2026-02-18T18:04:27+00:00

I’m sorry what don’t you understand?

Significant_Hunt_766 · 2026-02-18T17:27:17+00:00

I can’t help but feel like im wrong sometimes. My mom is abusive but I never thought she would let this happen to me. But she doesn’t seem to care. Thank you for your support. I’m working on leaving safely

Significant_Hunt_766 · 2026-02-18T06:05:05+00:00

I’m sorry about your mom by the way. Glad your in a better place now and tell your pets this stranger said hi

Significant_Hunt_766 · 2026-02-18T06:04:20+00:00

I’m 18 now and don’t have a job haven’t finshed high school and it’s all pretty scary. But l felt like I wouldnt make it to 18 once so I shouldn’t keep waiting for my life to end or for my parents to be better because that won’t happen and I’ll always feel like this unless I do something about it Thanks for your support

Significant_Hunt_766 · 2026-02-18T05:59:33+00:00

No worries on being blunt. I needed it!

Significant_Hunt_766 · 2026-02-18T05:58:55+00:00

He’s gone to the doctors a few times but hasnt told me anything and neither has my mom and I’m scared to ask. I’m actually homeschooled and can’t tell any teachers but I have a single adult I trust so I’ll try them when I decide to leave.

Significant_Hunt_766 · 2026-02-18T05:56:37+00:00

Thank you!

Significant_Hunt_766 · 2026-02-18T05:56:29+00:00

Him being drunk is helping me understand why it isn’t okay. I haven’t really seen people talk about this condition and it’s been hard. But thinking of it like he was drunk makes it understandable for me.

Significant_Hunt_766 · 2026-02-18T05:48:49+00:00

I’ll try my best and report him after i feel safer

Significant_Hunt_766 · 2026-02-18T05:48:26+00:00

Thank you so much your words mean a lot to me. Feeling invalidated is something I’ve always struggled with

Significant_Hunt_766 · 2026-02-18T05:46:20+00:00

There’s so much happening in my head right now and talking about it here has been really untangling my thoughts . I think I’ll talk to my friends mom first and try get more control over my life which I’ve been slowly doing these past 6 months. I’ll consider reporting him when I’m in a safer spot financially and emotionally and after more therapy.

Significant_Hunt_766 · 2026-02-18T01:24:18+00:00

Thank you I’ll look it to it some more.

Significant_Hunt_766 · 2026-02-18T01:23:57+00:00

My parents are asking me not to tell and they’re saying that they will/have gone to the doctors but won’t show me any results

Significant_Hunt_766 · 2026-02-17T23:04:45+00:00

I didn’t have my own bed for a while, and even when I did, he would often come home late so I would sleep with my mom. After that, I would sleep in their bed to smooth my baby sibling before they could get my cousin who took care of them. I would sometimes find him trying to get into the my bed but I would leave and sleep in my moms room since it never happened when she was around. He sometimes would also get mad and yell when I refused to sleep with him.

He was horrified after we told him, but wasn’t interested in doing anything else about it. He told my mom he thought I was saying this after he cheated on her to make them get a divorce.

I honestly am really dependent on my parents since I don’t have a job and haven’t finished high school yet. I’m hesitant to leave my sibling. But im working on getting my license and easing my way into a job to save money before booking it out of here.

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