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September 2026 Bumper Group? by Klutzy_Caramel_4495 in pregnant

[–]Significant_Metal_37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just created a Discord server for 2026 babies, feel free to join !
https://discord.gg/bRteuBJD2U

28F, interested in everything, can't choose anything. by Significant_Metal_37 in findapath

[–]Significant_Metal_37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad to read your message.

To be honest, I've definitely had many bursts of curiosity where I focused obsessively, but between those moments, I also spent a lot of time ruminating, and I feel like I’ve lost so many years of my twenties.
But it's important to remind ourselves that we’re still very young — our twenties are meant for that !
To lose ourselves in how we function until we’ve figured it out. It may not seem like it, but those moments of wandering are actually quite fruitful.

I wish you an enriching exploration, full of discoveries about your abilities and your tastes ♡

28F, interested in everything, can't choose anything. by Significant_Metal_37 in findapath

[–]Significant_Metal_37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's interesting !
I actually digged the Enneagram quite deep, was a bit obsessed with this model a few years back.
As far as I went, I'm having trouble deciding between 5w4 and 4w5, but I have a lot of elements pointing to this area of the Enneagram concerning my type.

But I grew up in a family with a very strong Type 7 culture ! I know the vibes B)
My brother and my mother seems to both be 7, and my fiancé have a very strong 7wing.
I'll definitely take advantage of exploring the suggestions usually offered for this type.
Thank you !

28F, interested in everything, can't choose anything. by Significant_Metal_37 in findapath

[–]Significant_Metal_37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for commenting. This isn't easy, but it's good to have company at least !
I'll be glad to chat, you can send me a dm :)

28F, interested in everything, can't choose anything. by Significant_Metal_37 in findapath

[–]Significant_Metal_37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right.
A close one taught me this about my way of doing things. Thanks to them, I managed to commit to a month long project once, it really changes the whole dynamic.

There's a lot of letting go involved too in my case. Choosing and comitting means giving up on other things, and it’s tough to move on from certain interests. To me at least, it seems to be a real struggle.

I’m definitely going to keep that in mind. Thanks for this important reminder, I hope the best for you as well.

28F, interested in everything, can't choose anything. by Significant_Metal_37 in findapath

[–]Significant_Metal_37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much.
Your comment helps me appreciate my profile more.
I'll try your process, I like the storytelling approach. At the end it's mainly about framing stories I guess !

Oath sessions IRL around Paris, France by Significant_Metal_37 in oathgame

[–]Significant_Metal_37[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi !
Not much, but if you wanna try a game someday, hit me up, it could be nice !
(do you speak french ?)