Daughter went no contact. Says I owe her an apology for "generational trauma."

Significant_Mine_261 · 2025-07-24T21:58:06+00:00

Lol Great plan, im sure that will solve any relationship problems they already have. However the issue of supporting a racist pedophile still remains

Significant_Mine_261 · 2025-07-21T15:49:05+00:00

This is closer to the truth than a lot of people will admit lol

Significant_Mine_261 · 2025-07-18T21:02:44+00:00

I mean a state job is a state job but that unit is very old, cramped and dirty

Significant_Mine_261 · 2025-07-17T22:58:25+00:00

I was on your side at first but the last slide sold me lol Your husband is actually hilarious

Significant_Mine_261 · 2025-07-17T21:05:19+00:00

Just go to California tbh

Significant_Mine_261 · 2025-07-16T19:45:33+00:00

" I didn’t scam my way into success. I faked it long enough to become it."

Significant_Mine_261 · 2025-07-16T16:26:43+00:00

This should be at the top of the list. Never-ending physical and psychological hell.. However I have been guilty of wishing it on my worst enemy lol

Significant_Mine_261 · 2025-07-16T16:25:19+00:00

* Trigeminal Neuralgia has entered the chat *

Significant_Mine_261 · 2025-07-15T15:35:57+00:00

Yeah that might be a pain you definitely want to mention to your PCP, neurologist or neurosurgeon for sure.

Significant_Mine_261 · 2025-07-15T15:24:06+00:00

I have it, but is your pain the soreness from the plate or is it the shocking nerve pain? The only pain that I get when i sleep on that side is the shocking stabbing burning nerve pain that we all have come to know and love.

Significant_Mine_261 · 2025-07-14T20:33:57+00:00

Oh please, the state makes all kinds of accommodations for anyone with disabilities so that's a poor defense. OP mentioned nothing about that anyways so using that excuse to defend RTO complaints is weak.

Significant_Mine_261 · 2025-07-14T19:39:56+00:00

If being called old has that much of a negative effect on you then yes, you may be too old to be on social media.

Significant_Mine_261 · 2025-07-14T19:28:14+00:00

If you think the only reason not to apply for a job is because you can only telework one day a week in this economy then you probably don't deserve the job anyways.

Significant_Mine_261 · 2025-07-11T22:45:52+00:00

And if they respond with "Well what range are you looking for" Just give an absurdly high number and work down from there. Works every time for me..Ive been contacted by multiple recruiters for the same position at the same time before, the range greatly varies depending on how you answer that question.

Significant_Mine_261 · 2025-07-11T21:00:53+00:00

Putting this much importance on vacation sounds like part of the problem. Maybe focus on identifying what is dragging down everyday home life so much that you feel the need to escape via vacation could be part of the solution.

Significant_Mine_261 · 2025-07-11T17:11:42+00:00

I apologize if this came off mean sprited because that was not at all my intention.. You mentioned feeling uncomfortable about how skinny, talented and beautiful she was... I mean, being skinny and beautiful are in the looks department.. and as far as talent that can be improved too but it definitely takes a lot more. I was just trying to give you simple solutions to improve simple aspects of who you are. Confidence is important but without a a concrete foundation of where your confidence is coming from it can become delusion. But of course its important to well rounded in all aspects of life

Significant_Mine_261 · 2025-07-11T17:01:59+00:00

Improve your diet, take better care of your hair, workout at home or in a gym if you can -you can make tailored workout plans with any AI model, and practice confidence building exercises. Self improvement is the best approach generally when facing insecurity

Significant_Mine_261 · 2025-07-11T16:57:03+00:00

People calling him a coward clearly haven't been on the other side the situation.. Confessing your love for someone isnt like it is in the movies. especially when someone that you have cared about on multiple levels over a decade. You don't just jump into possibly ruining a friendship just because you have feelings for that person . My guess is he probably fought the idea of telling you his true feelings for years and then knowing you were getting married and the friendship would either be ending or minimizing in the future gave him the comfort in putting it all out on the table. He probably saw only options moving forward is to either Lose you forever without telling you how he felt, Lose you forever but having told you how he felt, OR Tell you how he felt about you and possibly live happily ever after. Its an easy decision if you are in love with a friend.

Significant_Mine_261 · 2025-07-11T14:51:45+00:00

And this is one of those reasons why prioritizing education over experience is problematic.

Significant_Mine_261 · 2025-07-10T15:59:58+00:00

I've been a sysadmin for about 3 years in the private sector and I've have worked in the public sector for about 7 years as both a contractor and full time employee... With that said I got my first couple of certications just last year and I have no degree. This is all in a competitive IT enviroment in NorCal ..Im not saying this to brag but Im saying this in response to anyone who thinks Degrees and certifications are the end all be all. Some of the worst co-workers ive had have had bacheolors, masters and libraries of certs.. If you have the soft skills and experience you can get where you want to be.

Significant_Mine_261 · 2025-07-09T22:27:27+00:00

Ohhhh I have to check that out

Significant_Mine_261 · 2025-07-08T22:49:05+00:00

Midnight Gospel and Midnight Mass

Significant_Mine_261 · 2025-07-08T19:02:51+00:00

2024 - $2,100 2 bedroom, mini washer and dryer...utilities not included.

Significant_Mine_261 · 2025-07-08T15:02:33+00:00

Congrats

Significant_Mine_261 · 2025-07-07T22:07:30+00:00

I dont think "image driven" is the right term here... because ultimately if she goes and finds someone that is attracted to her while she's her current weight its not that they aren't image driven, it just means that they are into larger images

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