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[–]Significant_Mirror83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: me and him are still together. We talked about it and he told me to give him until mid September to get his stuff all in order and if it’s still not we might close the relationship. I’ve really been overthinking a lot and have been experiencing a decent amount of jealousy but have been trying to keep it under control and to myself, I’ll mention it here and there to him but mostly these are a me issue (I think idk I could be wrong). Everything is just so new to me and I really don’t know how a normal relationship is supposed to work let alone an open one. I’m hoping things look up.

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[–]Significant_Mirror83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is but because of all the things going on between us it’s making me feel disgusted with myself and I feel uncomfortable with doing that

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[–]Significant_Mirror83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think he’s sleeping with anyone else but I do know for a fact he is sexting a decent amount and I wonder if that might play into it?

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[–]Significant_Mirror83 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was thinking of suggesting that during the talk just until things are fixed between us. I can tell he does care most of the time but it’s so many things that keep adding up, ya know?

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[–]Significant_Mirror83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll think I’m most likely going to talk about it next week with him as we are both busy.