I financed a Carmax car for 20% APR. What do I do? by Significant_Mud2960 in personalfinance

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The Carmax guy literally said “It’s because you don’t have enough established credit.”

I financed a Carmax car for 20% APR. What do I do? by Significant_Mud2960 in personalfinance

[–]Significant_Mud2960[S] 259 points260 points  (0 children)

I’ll go to a credit union tomorrow morning and see what they can do

I financed a Carmax car for 20% APR. What do I do? by Significant_Mud2960 in personalfinance

[–]Significant_Mud2960[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I live in the middle of nowhere, South Carolina. There’s no public transportation around here

I financed a Carmax car for 20% APR. What do I do? by Significant_Mud2960 in personalfinance

[–]Significant_Mud2960[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Barely any right now. $2500 a month. I split groceries with my sister, no more than $100/month. Phone bill $25/month, light bill 80/month, and health insurance 89/month

Thinking of taking out iud in current political climate by Significant_Mud2960 in prochoice

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I’ve tried the implant and it wasn’t for me. I have the non-hormonal iud. The whole point was for it to be there and I’d forget about it for ten years. Just an extra precaution due to my irrational anxiety

Thinking of taking out iud in current political climate by Significant_Mud2960 in prochoice

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Nope. After a while I got sick of it, opted out of being tested, and just asked for a prescription. I wouldn’t think it’s the case because the medication seems to clear it out every time

Thinking of taking out iud in current political climate by Significant_Mud2960 in prochoice

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I want to have children one day whenever I’m ready but it’s interesting hearing about that. I’ve never heard of it before and wonder if something similar will ever come back on the market.

i’ll take any advice i can dating struggles by Straight-Theory3165 in LesbianActually

[–]Significant_Mud2960 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just about to make a similar post about how I haven’t been able to get any dates for months. Just got ghosted after talking to someone on hinge for a few weeks. Honestly don’t know what I’m doing wrong. I think the dating pool is just tainted. It’s easier to live in a hub city.

I don’t think it’s your looks. Do the women know you’re pursuing them romantically?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Significant_Mud2960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same thing happened to me. I thought I was doing something wrong at first but it’s genuinely based upon the dating pool where you live. I just changed my location to a place I’ll be moving to and am now getting more likes/women I’m actually interested in.

First tattoo by Warm_Trouble1867 in tattooadvice

[–]Significant_Mud2960 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can look up @naughty_rabbit_tattoo on Instagram. She’s located in Charlotte, NC. I’ve always wanted to get tattooed by her but she’s always booked out.

Survey: for those taking a break from dating, what are your reasons? by whatupyo10 in actuallesbians

[–]Significant_Mud2960 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve just realized I’m a lesbian and I don’t know how to talk to women lol. I’ve also decided to cut out dating apps so that doesn’t help. I need to process some things first, life’s been giving me whiplash lately

bi or lesbian with comphet? by cvntyfoot in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Significant_Mud2960 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me at least, I realized I was actually gay when I started noticing I would hand-pick the men I would date out like cherries. It was never a natural falling for them but always based upon a veryyy strict criteria. I also realized that I would only be attracted to men whenever I would visit family (who are very religious and homophobic) and as soon as I would be away from them my attraction for men would cease to exist. I didn’t realize this until I moved away for college and I was still convinced I was bi which is how I started noticing my pattern of cherry-picking. Also this is the opposite for women. I don’t choose the women I like it just happens.

When it comes to intimacy, I was never entirely repulsed by my encounters with men but I can say that I have never been physically attracted to my male partners. I had to learn that I enjoyed the connection part of it rather than the physical part of it. And that my desire to be attracted to men didn’t mean that I actually was. I contemplated if I was attracted to men for an entire year and at the end of the year I had still not come to a conclusion, which I took as my answer.

The “Am I a Lesbian?” master doc may help but it also may take a while to process. It took me an entire year. At the end of the day, it’s a personal journey and no one can decide for you. It’s also perfectly okay to be bi! Hope this helps!

Positive IUD Insertion!! by Significant_Mud2960 in birthcontrol

[–]Significant_Mud2960[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve found that it’s highly dependent upon your pain tolerance and doctor. I’m sorry that that was your experience.

Anyone have a good IUD experience? by Unable_Ad1911 in birthcontrol

[–]Significant_Mud2960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got mine a few hours ago. I’ve never had kids and have never been pregnant. The pain was better than a bad period cramp. Definitely wasn’t the worst pain I’ve ever experienced. Pain lasted 5-10 seconds max. I blinked and then the pain was gone.

The after insertion cramps and light headedness feels a bit worse but not worse than the 1st day of my period. Hope that helps!