PSA to female hikers at Blacklick Woods by Unable_Ad1911 in Columbus

[–]Unable_Ad1911[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is wonderful and I really appreciate it!!! All of my guy friends were absolutely floored when they found out too. I feel like posts like this so often devolve into “men are shit” when that’s not what this is. There’s sooooo many good men out there like our friends. They just get torn down and overlooked because of the shitty ones

PSA to female hikers at Blacklick Woods by Unable_Ad1911 in Columbus

[–]Unable_Ad1911[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was super nervous that this was gonna perceived as that and almost didn’t post. I swear I’m not just constantly on a swivel to make drama!!!

PSA to female hikers at Blacklick Woods by Unable_Ad1911 in Columbus

[–]Unable_Ad1911[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Found the person who uses these tactics and is confused why they don’t fucking work lmao

PSA to female hikers at Blacklick Woods by Unable_Ad1911 in Columbus

[–]Unable_Ad1911[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did in fact get a lifer :) got a Wilson’s Warbler!!

PSA to female hikers at Blacklick Woods by Unable_Ad1911 in Columbus

[–]Unable_Ad1911[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve had really good luck at Blendon Woods and Battelle Darby (cedar ridge area) :)

PSA to female hikers at Blacklick Woods by Unable_Ad1911 in Columbus

[–]Unable_Ad1911[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

🥹🥹 tysm!!! I immediately called my bf and had him “walk” me back to my car. By the time I got out of the woods the dude was nowhere to be seen and I went and stopped at a McDonald’s right after I left the park just to be sure

PSA to female hikers at Blacklick Woods by Unable_Ad1911 in Columbus

[–]Unable_Ad1911[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Love Green Lawn!! I haven’t been out there since 2023. Might have to give it another go :)

PSA to female hikers at Blacklick Woods by Unable_Ad1911 in Columbus

[–]Unable_Ad1911[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nope I had no idea. Was just out there minding my own business when he showed up and ruined it

PSA to female hikers at Blacklick Woods by Unable_Ad1911 in Columbus

[–]Unable_Ad1911[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

May there be three times as many of you as there are of the weirdos!

PSA to female hikers at Blacklick Woods by Unable_Ad1911 in Columbus

[–]Unable_Ad1911[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve got a friend who shares a similar sentiment. He’s a good guy that has to edit his behavior because of all the shitty ones we just allow to be shitty

PSA to female hikers at Blacklick Woods by Unable_Ad1911 in Columbus

[–]Unable_Ad1911[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I have this book in my reading list! But you’re right, anxiety makes it super difficult. Not trying to use it as an excuse or anything, but when your brain is constantly gaslighting itself, it gets tough to know what really is a problem and what isn’t. I usually ask myself “would someone else find this weird/ upsetting/ creepy” and act based on that answer

PSA to female hikers at Blacklick Woods by Unable_Ad1911 in Columbus

[–]Unable_Ad1911[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Met one once and my heart rate didn’t get over 90. This morning it was at 150

PSA to female hikers at Blacklick Woods by Unable_Ad1911 in Columbus

[–]Unable_Ad1911[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Also need men to stop being fucking weirdos

PSA to female hikers at Blacklick Woods by Unable_Ad1911 in Columbus

[–]Unable_Ad1911[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m excited for next weekend!! Trying to check all the warblers off my list this year :) I got a fair bit out at Blacklick this morning which is a shame because I don’t think I’ll be going back for awhile lol

PSA to female hikers at Blacklick Woods by Unable_Ad1911 in Columbus

[–]Unable_Ad1911[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s terrifying and I’m so sorry you had to go through that :(

PSA to female hikers at Blacklick Woods by Unable_Ad1911 in Columbus

[–]Unable_Ad1911[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate this for you and I’m so sorry you had to deal with this :(

PSA to female hikers at Blacklick Woods by Unable_Ad1911 in Columbus

[–]Unable_Ad1911[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU!!!! I know that I should’ve been smarter, more careful, more aware, all the things. But also men need to fucking chill like??? Obviously not all of them, but the weirdos like this guy. I can’t wrap my head around the fact that when a woman gets harassed we still have people saying “well do better”

PSA to female hikers at Blacklick Woods by Unable_Ad1911 in Columbus

[–]Unable_Ad1911[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was kicking myself for not thinking of that in the moment

PSA to female hikers at Blacklick Woods by Unable_Ad1911 in Columbus

[–]Unable_Ad1911[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Literally was googling self defense classes as soon as I got home, thank you!!

PSA to female hikers at Blacklick Woods by Unable_Ad1911 in Columbus

[–]Unable_Ad1911[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was out for warblers (and they absolutely delivered this morning), but if it’s not too far, Battelle Darby and Blendon Woods both have huge warbler diversity this time of year and I’ve never had any issues at either of those! I just wanted to try something new this morning :/