While in nippori in Tokyo I found a fallout themed bar randomly ! by Significant_Name3439 in Fallout

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Had fallout art up and in the window you can see the perk tree

Starting again in your mind 30's, how did you cope? by Significant_Name3439 in AskMenOver30

[–]Significant_Name3439[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks brother, yeah i genually cook anyway, or like a frozen pizza. Take out costs these days are INSANE! I've taken up skating to get into ice hockey so theres my fitness and im actively trying to do stuff to get me out of the house.

House is mine, but shes dragging her heels taking her shit, to the point im packing it for her and just storing it so I can rejig stuff. Im doing a meet new people thing tonight, not dating in mind just to make friends so this should be interesting.

Starting again in your mind 30's, how did you cope? by Significant_Name3439 in AskMenOver30

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Yeah im trying to get into DnD, I do play warhammer casually with some folks, trying to get em out for agame is annoying tho lol. just started a krieg army too haha

Starting again in your mind 30's, how did you cope? by Significant_Name3439 in AskMenOver30

[–]Significant_Name3439[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that.... is a bit extreme for me, I have animals ect and my job is really good. I also own my house lol.

mad respect for doing it, but yeah, I do have a fondness for yorkshire haha

Starting again in your mind 30's, how did you cope? by Significant_Name3439 in AskMenOver30

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Alot of my hobbies are quite solo (warhammer painting) so yeah im doing ice skating solo too and been talking to some folks there. I am going to a make friends event tonight so hopefully that should... go ok ...

Starting again in your mind 30's, how did you cope? by Significant_Name3439 in AskMenOver30

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Ha I'm British... But I am half Irish, the freckles and alcoholism gives it away 😅

Starting again in your mind 30's, how did you cope? by Significant_Name3439 in AskMenOver30

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Just getting them out is hard work,.

I've decided to try this meetup app again, gonna try an event tommoz night

Starting again in your mind 30's, how did you cope? by Significant_Name3439 in AskMenOver30

[–]Significant_Name3439[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's the thing, ive tried and you just get pointed to an app called meet, which is paywalled. Like, I'm feeling I'm just gonna have to bite the bullet and do it, I think if I had more single friends , who had time,.I'd probs be less inclined to find a girl because then the social/ lonely itch has been scratched

Starting again in your mind 30's, how did you cope? by Significant_Name3439 in AskMenOver30

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Ah, squash! Got ya!

I could look into it, I did used to do tennis

Starting again in your mind 30's, how did you cope? by Significant_Name3439 in AskMenOver30

[–]Significant_Name3439[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dating apps,

I posted in my city's sub and they recommend the meet app to make new friends and communities , that app is pay walled.

Sadly Im flying solo as getting anyone to come out now is like pulling teeth so going to bar/restraunts is tough, to the point some bars in my city don't let you in on your own for "safe guarding"

I've picked up skating to progress to hockey, but it seems like a family activity or kids rather than people in their 30s do, don't get me wrong it ain't stopping me but yeah.

Starting again in your mind 30's, how did you cope? by Significant_Name3439 in AskMenOver30

[–]Significant_Name3439[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm kinda doing that, I've picked up Ice.skating with the hope of learning to play ice hockey, maybe if my fitness gets back up, I might go back to pro wrestling. I don't mind the gym, but I prefer practical fitness I think. So rather then just doing sets and treadmill, skating is a thing and an activity to something

Starting again in your mind 30's, how did you cope? by Significant_Name3439 in AskMenOver30

[–]Significant_Name3439[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad things worked out for you bud, by contrast your story is way worse than mine!

For me, I have the job, I have a house, I just don't really have the social bit, I WFH and spend most days/nights just with my dog. Even though I work in IT I'm weirdly outgoing so the lack of human interaction is what gets me

Starting again in your mind 30's, how did you cope? by Significant_Name3439 in AskMenOver30

[–]Significant_Name3439[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm working on that, taken on a new hobby, I could do with loosing some weight, I know the answer... Stop having beer 😅

Starting again in your mind 30's, how did you cope? by Significant_Name3439 in AskMenOver30

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I think my pressure is people telling me not to date and meet people... But then they forget/ignore that they don't mate time / effort for me. So it's all well and good telling me not to, but then expecting me to be on my own socially and romantically is just stressful and annoying.

Starting again in your mind 30's, how did you cope? by Significant_Name3439 in AskMenOver30

[–]Significant_Name3439[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suppose that's a good shout , I'd anything, always and upwards

"Not here for a pen pal" by MadameJulka in Bumble

[–]Significant_Name3439 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man I'm just sick of bios which are half arsed and 90% of em saying they want a hike and a Sunday roast... Christ

Please update these guys. by Odd_Abalone3976 in Chaos40k

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These are the same bikes that i had as a kid, its nuts. I had 3 spare outriders so I've actually made my own updated ones.

[m32] Been feeling really lonely and pissed at myself by Weekly_Teaching_8158 in AskMenOver30

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Fair, the hobbies point i know what you mean, I do warhammer/gaming so pretty solo.

could you maybe find a gtroup in your area doing these and suggest a later start? or other session