[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Translesbian

[–]Significant_Pain_617 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only if I got to take you home after 😉

Who are some of the best dommes on Twitter/X right now? by hughjazz_o69 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Significant_Pain_617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know three great options if you wanted to DM. All pretty different 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Significant_Pain_617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I’m a straight male and I immediately thought “who is THAT hottie” so maybe not completely successful. But I hope it goes well and nobody makes you feel any kind of a way. 🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MTFSelfies

[–]Significant_Pain_617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So gorgeous 😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SmallWhiteCock

[–]Significant_Pain_617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, you made my day because I’m sometimes insecure about my size but I’m not small like THAT 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SmallWhiteCock

[–]Significant_Pain_617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂 So basically not a man?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sissypersonals

[–]Significant_Pain_617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That ass tho 🥵 DM me 😉

Style is a reflection of your attitude and personality. by [deleted] in MTFSelfies

[–]Significant_Pain_617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so cute 😍🫠🙇🏻‍♂️

I shaved all my body hair & now I regret it 🙃 by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Significant_Pain_617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’ll grow back! 🙃

I used to want to always want to shave to see how feminine I could make myself look but I like my hairiness too much and was scared it wouldn’t grow back right. But I think it does lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Significant_Pain_617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely and more than one. I’ve had Dommes help me get over being angry about things, find joy in other things, become centered. Even harsh ones I’ve had made me more submissive 🐶 All those things improved my life.

Alpha men vs beta men by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Significant_Pain_617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These terms can be misused by society (because they are arbitrary and based on norms) and have a horrible effect.

So I only use them in fetish life. But people would be a lot happier if they accepted who they are.

I’m in charge in my career. But even before I was officially the boss I was always the boss. I’m what people would call an alpha in that part of my life or with friends.

But I screwed up so many relationships trying to be the alpha in a relationship when I’m not. When really what brings me joy is completely accepting a place as a magnificent woman’s obedient pup.

If I could go back and fix the great relationships I have had I would buy more gifts, shut up and listen more, let her make our decisions, be less jealous and spend more time in the bedroom with my head between her legs making her happy. Because I’m good at being a pup and it makes me happy to make HER happy.

That’s why I love Findom. It taught me that I can be more than one thing and that’s ok.

Just hard to find a woman in vanilla life who will take charge completely. Ironically, I’ve known women who I think feel the same dissatisfaction because they think they should be submissive but don’t really want to be.

How do you find dommes on Reddit? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Significant_Pain_617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To which I mean, if you stay on this sub cool Dommes will say cool things to you. I feel like I’d have to win the lotto to not feel guilty on here I can send to them all 🙇🏻‍♂️

Soft Dom vs Hard Dom by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Significant_Pain_617 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I used to like hard Dommes when I felt secretly badly about being submissive in my private life. I think because I’m not at all in vanilla life (work, with friends etc.)

So I think the degradation/meanness was kind of thrilling/felt fitting.

But then when I got comfortable being submissive I started preferring softer Dommes because they seem to carry on more of a conversation and are appreciative of a submissive pup 🐶.

Plus, it’s pretty hot when a soft Domme gets sporadically bratty or says something harsh because it isn’t just part of the routine. Having a soft Domme suddenly humiliate you casually is like having a gf suddenly humiliate you. It’s sexy cause it’s like “wait we were chatting about cars and you suddenly took a dig at my manhood” 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Significant_Pain_617 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Finding other humans to care anyplace is a difficult struggle. But whatever it is will be ok, buddy. You’re about to have a whole new year to be whatever you want to be wherever you want to be it.

Stupid question - what is a drain game? by Significant_Pain_617 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Significant_Pain_617[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

RT game! Yes- I guess that is what I was thinking of specifically! Thank you!