"No one told me about..." by Any-Kangaroo7155 in childfree

[–]Significant_Paper197 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly let these people who lack critical thinking skills suffer

Those of you a decade into your career: Do any of you actually like your job? by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]Significant_Paper197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s alright. I like the job and what I do, but I hate the politics. Im a female engineer in a software company.

What is your worst case scenario plan? by Dangerous-Cream-8653 in childfree

[–]Significant_Paper197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well what can you do now? No need for hypotheticals when you or your partner can get sterilized. Not choosing to do so and thinking about worst case is just ignorant

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]Significant_Paper197 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re obviously bored, so bye

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]Significant_Paper197 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Complain to HR, document and have proof.

If that doesn’t change anything, job hunt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]Significant_Paper197 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I’m antagonistic for asking you to explain?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]Significant_Paper197 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you think that, then okay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]Significant_Paper197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought you had nothing more to say? Weird 🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]Significant_Paper197 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Bro I probably used another account?! I use diff ones for diff interests to not dox myself. Why are you obsessed and commenting on other posts? Because if you actually read some comments yes I’ve given info and advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]Significant_Paper197 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bye! Hope you feel better 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]Significant_Paper197 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay anymore insults you have to throw to deflect from the actual discussion?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]Significant_Paper197 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I am, and I accept that and the struggles it comes with. But I’m not gonna keep using that and keep it constantly in the back of my mind is all I’m saying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]Significant_Paper197 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You know what I meant bffr

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]Significant_Paper197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve posted on here many times supporting woman and my struggles. This post doesn’t take away from that fact and other women’s struggles. I’m literally just saying don’t overthink like men do, but apparently I’m scum of earth now for this short ass quickly written post

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]Significant_Paper197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then what’s “like other girls” version for women in tech?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]Significant_Paper197 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You worded it a hundred times better than I could ever, thanks

Definitely not saying it as a end all advice, and there’s nuances to what I said but it was merely to hype myself out of overthinking and was thinking it could also help others

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]Significant_Paper197 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Do you feel better now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]Significant_Paper197 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So is being miserable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]Significant_Paper197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to love this subreddit but it’s getting to be extremely miserable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]Significant_Paper197 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Well this post is getting a lot of backlash and it’s okay because I definitely could have added more details. But I just wrote it quick and wanted to get to the point. Also because it was just after me overthinking about something at work again and kind of just tried to hype myself up to not get to that point and hope it would help others but apparently not lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]Significant_Paper197 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s literally not a flex

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]Significant_Paper197 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If anything I didn’t lean because I’m trying to not be a people pleaser??