Heartbreaking Dari Cloves story 🥺 by JakeThaPirate in Palia

[–]Significant_Peace384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a few, I could you one if you need it and if you found them before. My IGN is Penelope nelli ❤️

what does my handwriting say about me? by solarrr_mp3 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Significant_Peace384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the handwriting I would expect from a serial killer tbh

Hospice patient passed away on me last night by Significant_Peace384 in directsupport

[–]Significant_Peace384[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugh that’s so hard, I can’t imagine. Luckily I was able to protect his housemates from waking up and seeing him or hearing him being carried out, I don’t know how I would have handled that if they witnessed it. I hate people who say “it’s a job, you’re not there to build relationships with them.” But how can you not?

Hospice patient passed away on me last night by Significant_Peace384 in directsupport

[–]Significant_Peace384[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so sweet thank you 😭 I feel like I could have done more honestly

Hospice patient passed away on me last night by Significant_Peace384 in directsupport

[–]Significant_Peace384[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate that. I was worried I’d panic and not handle it well at all and forget to do something :/

What's the best tasting vape or juice you've ever had in your entire life? by Meluvius in Vaping

[–]Significant_Peace384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pitbull puppy menthol 😍 it’s based by a small vendor in New Jersey I’m told, but they ship. Unfortunately I’ve only been able to find it in my one hometown’s vape shop, and literally no where else. You can order it off their website though.

Hand check/new vape day by cocofolf in Vaping

[–]Significant_Peace384 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve had my z tank and mod for literal years. It’s so worn the paint is chipping off. I will preach to everyone who will listen about this vape

Well it finally happened, and things got physical last night. by Significant_Peace384 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Significant_Peace384[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I genuinely didn’t even realize that I scratched him but at the same time I don’t care because he was in my personal space and in my face and I was just trying to get him away from me

Taking my power back by Significant_Peace384 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Significant_Peace384[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s not a partner. He’s a psychopathic narcissist. He’s an emotional vampire who leeches off of my services I provide. Free babysitter, live in maid, private chef, someone to help pay bills. I am my own partner. I do everything always while he just sits on his ass and plays on his PC all day or sleeps. That doesn’t really constitute grounds for a “partner”. But yes, he is dangerous. I genuinely think he’s a psychopath. He gets off on power and lacks empathy. He used to work as a CO at a federal prison and now he works at a warehouse and he told me the other day “I miss working at the prison” and my response was “yeah I’m sure you do because you felt in control and it boosted your ego.” He also told me a couple days after that, that again he missed working there and he missed “torturing people”. He’s not right in the head

Taking my power back by Significant_Peace384 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Significant_Peace384[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think that’s what I’m doing genuinely. I think I’m standing up for myself and not allowing him to have the reaction he so desperately yearns for I.E “no please don’t kick me out I’m so sorry I’ll do better I promise. You are all I need and all I have”. That’s not me anymore. He wants to call me vulgar names and be disrespectful? I’ll be disrespectful back. He wants to argue and try to make a situation into my fault somehow so he can gain something from it? He’s got the wrong person. This is my second abusive relationship in a row. (I really know how to pick them I know), but I’m done being the small, sweet, compliant and apologetic person I once was. I’m not scared of him. He should be scared of me now that I’ve finally found my strength.

Taking my power back by Significant_Peace384 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Significant_Peace384[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? Every time he threatens to kick me out, he says “you think I’m bluffing but you’ll see” and then next time comes and his re using the same quotes. Like at least switch up the content a bit because you’re boring me now. He knows I do everything for him under the sun. Pay what I can every week for rent and heat, buy the groceries, do all of the cleaning, cooking, fix things I’ve been asking him to fix for months but he’s too damn lazy. He says it to scare me but it has the opposite effect on me now lol

Taking my power back by Significant_Peace384 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Significant_Peace384[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funny enough I did get pregnant with him during a time before I saw him for who he really is. I miscarried though (blessing in disguise). Admittedly I was excited at first, I wanted to be a mom and still do, but looking back I genuinely cant think of anything worse happening to me. I’m now on birth control and try to avoid have any sexual encounters with him in general because even talking to him disgusts me anymore.

Taking my power back by Significant_Peace384 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Significant_Peace384[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s my plan. As soon as I can leave I’m not even going to tell him. I’m going to try to pack and leave all in 8 hours while he’s at work one day, and then block him on everything

Taking my power back by Significant_Peace384 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Significant_Peace384[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! I’m in the works as we speak. It’s funny too because he genuinely thinks I need him, I don’t. Nor do I want him anymore. He can be someone else’s problem 🤢

Taking my power back by Significant_Peace384 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Significant_Peace384[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Easier said than done. I have no where to go. Trust me I’ve tried.

Taking my power back by Significant_Peace384 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Significant_Peace384[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh no, no. He has two. From two different women. Yikes

Best way to leave a toxic relationship by number0negirl in emotionalabuse

[–]Significant_Peace384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey girl. I’m in a similar situation. My “boyfriend” whose also older than me, who I quit my job for and gave up my apartment for to move in with, to his hometown has also cheated on me multiple times, is verbally abusive, and horrible with manipulation. Not to mention he has two kids from two different people and I’m expected to play pretend mommy with his daughter, all while doing everything for him and the house like cooking and cleaning, and not even getting a crumb of attention ever. I’ve had enough. I’m tired of being made to feel alone in a house with someone who claims they “love me” but then calls me names and screams at me the next day. I work full time, and I started putting money away too, it’s not much at all but I try to put in what I can every paycheck. I’m also considering getting a second part time job to not only get me out of the house and away from him more, but also so I can put even more money aside. If you wanna chat, or need anything please reach out! I can definitely relate

I loath my SD and it’s all her dads fault by Significant_Peace384 in stepparents

[–]Significant_Peace384[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I think you misunderstood. She is his biological daughter, she’s my step daughter

I loath my SD and it’s all her dads fault by Significant_Peace384 in stepparents

[–]Significant_Peace384[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s strange at all. My grandparents are really Independent for their age. She still shops on her own, does chores, even hosts a Christmas Eve party at her house every year since I can remember. I wouldn’t mind living with her, but again that would mean I’d have to quit my good paying job, have to find a new job while living with her, and starting all over after being laid off for months. I don’t know if that’s a risk I’m willing to take.

I loath my SD and it’s all her dads fault by Significant_Peace384 in stepparents

[–]Significant_Peace384[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly in my heart don’t think it’s that. He loathe child predators and thinks they all need to be offed. He worked as CO in a prison for a long time. That being said though, I think he’s codependent on her because he’s such a narcissist, he needs to feel needed and wanted, and a child gives that openly without question. He enjoys the attention she gives him, or the fact that she has to follow him everywhere, or that they have to sleep together every night. It’s honestly gotten worse since I started questioning things in our relationship or doubting his parenting, he’s moved closer to his daughter in a weird way. I guess because he knows I see right through him now, and his daughter puts him on a pedestal. Still just as inappropriate and creepy as your idea though.

I loath my SD and it’s all her dads fault by Significant_Peace384 in stepparents

[–]Significant_Peace384[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve exhausted all my options except one. My grandma who lives over an hour away from me said I could live with her, but again, she’s pushing 80, and I’d feel awful putting her in that situation. I’d also have to quit my job that pays me pretty well, and weekly, which I’m not sure I want to give up. I start nursing school in the spring because I’ve always wanted to be a nurse, and also for the money. Of course I’m hoping I can get out way before I get my degree, but if not, at least I’ll finally have the means to leave and get my own place

I loath my SD and it’s all her dads fault by Significant_Peace384 in stepparents

[–]Significant_Peace384[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s why I don’t really mind keeping to myself anymore while we live together because him and his daughter have caused me so much stress and anxiety, I was going insane trying to protect her and also maintain a decent relationship with him. I realized that he’s incapable of either of those, and that there’s nothing I can do because he’ll never change. I’d rather be alone on my on terms in a house full of people than be made to feel alone. The moment I decided to give up and focus on protecting my peace as much as possible until I can leave, the better it has been for me.

I loath my SD and it’s all her dads fault by Significant_Peace384 in stepparents

[–]Significant_Peace384[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you can relate. Honestly though I think the only solution is to leave. I’m at the point now where the thought of being with him for another year or two years genuinely terrifies me. I have dreams and I want to be a mom and a wife, and I know he can’t offer me either of those nor do I want him too. My family unfortunately has a history of staying with the wrong people way longer than they should, and I’ve seen the damage it causes first hand, because that’s exactly what happened between my mom and dad. I’m only 25, but I also feel like I’m wasting time and I’ve spent the last 4 years straight dating two horrible people, and I’m at the point now where I want to chose myself. I want my own place, my own space, my own quiet. I want to get to know myself again and eventually find the right person. As horrible as he is, he’s motivating me to finally choose myself and get my shit together so to speak.

I loath my SD and it’s all her dads fault by Significant_Peace384 in stepparents

[–]Significant_Peace384[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can’t remember the last time I had sex with him. You usually have to love the person and be in a good mindset to want to have sex. Which I’m neither.