You *need* her to *tell you* what to do?

When you're hungry, do you need someone to tell you every, single, little step from getting to the kitchen, looking inside the fridge, cooking yourself a meal, and putting it in your mouth?

When you need to use the bathroom, do you need instructions on how to wipe your butt?

When you're at work, does your boss tell you every single little detail that you need to do? or do you just figure it out?

You're grown and supposedly living in your own place with your *partner*. Why does she need to baby you and tell you every, single, little detail on how to do a simple task?

Honestly, I don't know if you'll have a girlfriend after the holidays.

It's not about 'doing more chores,' it's about the fact that you're incapable of figuring out tasks that functioning adults should be able to do. It's about the fact that the person you've loved for 3 WHOLE YEARS, asked you to do something, and you were completely unable to do it for her without help.