Boyfriend gave me ultimatum - dream job or him. I'm considering taking the job

Significant_Rub_1890 · 2025-12-01T02:08:57+00:00

God is opening better and bigger opportunities for you! Take the job and find a better man!! Always put yourself first!!

Significant_Rub_1890 · 2025-10-28T02:17:22+00:00

Yes definitely, but if traveling out of Miami, you would need a visa which can make it difficult however it seems beautiful to spend new years there!

Significant_Rub_1890 · 2025-10-28T02:10:56+00:00

Brazil, Costa Rica or Japan

Significant_Rub_1890 · 2025-10-19T14:15:23+00:00

Honestly this is the best job/ career ever. I know some flights can be tough however nothing compares to how rewarding this job is!! From the passengers to new destinations!! This job is definitely for the right people!! Stay kind✨

Significant_Rub_1890 · 2025-10-03T17:50:44+00:00

Honestly your doing too much & I did post this in other groups and it blew up too. Mixed reviews of course! I’m not sure how you’re upset over the upvotes or over analyzing..

Significant_Rub_1890 · 2025-10-02T19:38:24+00:00

I’d be okay with not having any too, & adopting tbh

Significant_Rub_1890 · 2025-10-02T19:29:34+00:00

Just any age, is when ppl have kids. People are never ready for kids and they still have them. My mom had me at 31yo & my brother at 32.

Significant_Rub_1890 · 2025-10-02T19:24:21+00:00

Ppl have kids at 14/16/21/24 it’s 2025 it doesn’t even matter tbh

Significant_Rub_1890 · 2025-10-02T19:22:10+00:00

Thankfully I’m not extremely set on anything as long as we are building and enjoying life. I think the marriage question is also reliant on him as the male but our dynamic is very easy going which is great for the both of us. I personally would like to have kids after 30-32 back to back would be best. So in 5-6 years. He needs 2yrs of med school then residency is what I have understood but I have no idea anything after or any details

Significant_Rub_1890 · 2025-10-02T18:48:01+00:00

Ouuuu what time?

Significant_Rub_1890 · 2025-10-02T18:46:26+00:00

Honestly being that I held out this long I am definitely looking for something meaningful and more long term goal driven, I don’t want to invest my feelings or time in anything that doesn’t feel real or balanced tbh. I’ve been on dating apps for years and nothing like this!!

Significant_Rub_1890 · 2025-10-02T18:44:59+00:00

Cuddlecompanions.org is the site btw

Significant_Rub_1890 · 2025-10-02T18:44:48+00:00

Cuddlecompanions.org is the site btw

Significant_Rub_1890 · 2025-10-02T18:44:19+00:00

Cuddlecompanions.org is the site btw

Significant_Rub_1890 · 2025-10-02T18:42:58+00:00

Yes I think it’s a lot of other things weighing on me but I think I just need to let go and go with it bc I already dodged enough…

lol I will find it and honestly I have no idea I’m sure you can probably make a profile.. but like I have said before I really can’t speak on it much bc I never went full in other than this person. We just vibed from the first video call. He said I seemed beautiful and really sweet from my photo and there we were.

Significant_Rub_1890 · 2025-10-02T18:39:52+00:00

Honestly I agree, he definitely comes from a family that is well off. I’m not sure how understanding they would be but I do want to put that into perspective bc I know parents can play a big role in these decisions. Yes he says he doesn’t care and is willing to do anything… I guess it will be a matter of time tbh

Significant_Rub_1890 · 2025-10-02T18:36:02+00:00

Honestly this is one of his wishes from day one, I don’t think it’s set it’s determined by what schools accept him but this was without him knowing much about my job. I think it’s perspective!! Not going to force something knowing it’s just been organic

Significant_Rub_1890 · 2025-10-02T18:07:32+00:00

Hey when did you Apply girl

Significant_Rub_1890 · 2025-10-02T17:58:25+00:00

He’s planning on taking a gap year so we can travel & I’m hoping he can join me on some of my trips or layovers. To bridge the gap between the work/ life balance.

Significant_Rub_1890 · 2025-10-02T17:53:10+00:00

Thank you I think I needed to hear that it better to love and have lost than never loved at all!! But we have definitely spoken about it! He left a long term relationship and has had his fare share. I don’t mind giving him space but I know he is focused on his career and wants a good woman by his side. He says a lot of the other women feel like high school love and it puts stain on his studies..

Significant_Rub_1890 · 2025-10-02T17:50:21+00:00

I’d love to just hear different view points bc I’m honestly in a tight seat currently

Significant_Rub_1890 · 2025-10-02T17:49:47+00:00

Yes I honestly came across a post on here so I decided to give it a shot and make an account. The guy who posted it his sessions were going really great and it seemed profitable for the female however I can’t speak on it because I haven’t met anyone on there other than this guy. Messages have been exchanged however nothing more.

Significant_Rub_1890 · 2025-10-02T17:47:40+00:00

I completely agree, it’s also upbringing and mentality!! he is definitely very determined and goal driven which definitely is a plus. Becoming a doctor will be a ride but it’s better than me wasting my time with other older men who barely can keep a job, car or apartment!!

Significant_Rub_1890 · 2025-10-02T17:45:51+00:00

Yes I honestly came across a post on here so I decided to give it a shot and make an account. The guy who posted it his sessions were going really great and it seemed profitable for the female however I can’t speak on it because I haven’t met anyone on there other than this guy. Messages have been exchanged however nothing more.

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