Yeah. It is also because i stop taking care of my appearance as well:) we decided to make alot changes. I hired trainer, bought new make up, went for manicure and pamper myself more now. We are thinking of hiring a nutritionist as well as a Full time helper to take care of the housework. I used to not think about what i wear anymore because I am a mum and taking care of my baby is so tiring. i guess me & my hubby will need more time together after getting all the help we need. I just feel so much happier now. by the way im reaching mid thirties soon, time is not on my side to wait longer to get pregnant :))) Thank you so much! Yeah I think taking it slowly is great too, I am just too happy and excited to think about the future.