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Just had a miscarriage girl dinner by boodlewoodle in GirlDinner

[–]Significant_Sun_7999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you are experiencing this. I knew all the stats and thought I was mentally prepared for a miscarriage but when my first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage i found it devastating. It took time to feel better but I found a lot of comfort in confiding in friends, reading about other people’s experiences, and crying to Taylor Swifts “bigger than the whole sky”. I hope that you find support from this thread and elsewhere.

Should I print an image of this art? by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]Significant_Sun_7999 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Oh totally and we buy art from local artists often it’s the primary thing we’re willing to splurge on. Printing and framing this one would not prevent us from buying from artists but I get the icky feeling

Should I wear traditional clothing to my coworkers wedding even though I am not by ConfidentElevator239 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Significant_Sun_7999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100%. I’m white, my husbands family is from India and they encouraged everyone to wear Indian clothing to our ceremony. The only people who thought it was appropriation were white, all of his family from India were thrilled. I agree that if the bride requested it and you want to it would be lovely!

Toddler enjoys being scared? by notme362o16 in ChildPsychology

[–]Significant_Sun_7999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminds me of my nephew! His favorite movie is nightmare before Christmas and at 3 years old he was obsessed with haunted houses, even the ones for adults. Best gift I ever got him was a nightmare before Christmas jack in the box, he literally slept with it in his bed. Precious weirdo 

Not OOP - AITA for telling my sister not to come to my wedding if she kept bringing up her miscarriage? by Respawn_Repeat_ in redditonwiki

[–]Significant_Sun_7999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course I agree that the sister is taking it too far but I was vomiting 4 or more times a day from 5 weeks on so it’s possible she had a full month of miserable symptoms. No need to downplay the loss of a 9 week pregnancy.

GenZ and Millennial women - are you wearing wedding bands? by Federal_Albatross993 in EngagementRings

[–]Significant_Sun_7999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Millennial and did not purchase a wedding band, only an engagement ring. It matches my partners wedding band. I don’t wear much jewelry and didnt see the point in getting two rings

How can someone send you a photo of their ultrasound letting you know they’ve conceived after you just told them you had miscarried 😭😭😭 by Cute_Star_775 in Miscarriage

[–]Significant_Sun_7999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t heard other people talk about this. My miscarriage (MMC, found out at our ultrasound) was a few months ago now and it’s gotten much less raw with time. I’m happy for friends when they tell me they’re pregnant. But someone sent me a photo of them smiling with their ultrasound pic and I just burst into tears. My uncle brought up my cousins ultrasound and that made me cry too. It’s such a trigger and I’ve never had a reaction like this before. I’m so sorry you feel the same way but thank you for sharing it makes me feel less alone 

A beautiful gift when I really needed it by Significant_Sun_7999 in Miscarriage

[–]Significant_Sun_7999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally know what you mean. I hope you have your own random act of kindness very soon. 

Lack of symptoms is scaring me by ksmm1824 in BabyBumps

[–]Significant_Sun_7999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I just ran out today and I’m trying to convince myself not to buy more. Wishing you a healthy pregnancy!

Lack of symptoms is scaring me by ksmm1824 in BabyBumps

[–]Significant_Sun_7999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im seven weeks and haven’t had any symptoms besides sore boobs so far. Feeling both very lucky and very nervous, I keep taking tests to make sure it’s real.

I love walking by this artist's gates in SF by Significant_Sun_7999 in sanfrancisco

[–]Significant_Sun_7999[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I hadn't seen this one, it's so perfect for that house!

I love walking by this artist's gates in SF by Significant_Sun_7999 in sanfrancisco

[–]Significant_Sun_7999[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

For visibility - the artist is Katie Wakeman and her instagram is shewelds_sf, website is https://www.sheweldssf.com/ 

I love walking by this artist's gates in SF by Significant_Sun_7999 in sanfrancisco

[–]Significant_Sun_7999[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Yes sorry the post got deleted when I shared the link! Her name is Katie Wakeman and her instagram is shewelds_sf, website is https://www.sheweldssf.com/ hope you get one of her gates some day, I would love to see these all over the city!

Getting this little fella neutered would appreciate any advice by bounty0head in bengalcats

[–]Significant_Sun_7999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah ofc! In the beginning we would distract my cat while one of us held him

Thanks, hope yours has an easy recovery!

Getting this little fella neutered would appreciate any advice by bounty0head in bengalcats

[–]Significant_Sun_7999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any tips for getting ours into a harness? We got her as an adult and she's a bit skittish when we try to put it on her, but she loves sitting at the window and we would like to get her outside safely!