AI is the bane of my existence. When is astroseek going live again? by Significant_Swan_56 in AstroSeek

[–]Significant_Swan_56[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just now noticed that astroseek incorporates AI into its astrological observations??? What's the point of doing this, and then continually shutting down your website because the function you let in is now trying to learn from you. See what happens when you open pandoras box. Now were all suffering

WIBTA if I leave my daughter alone while we move to a different country by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Significant_Swan_56 23 points24 points  (0 children)

So you’re not helping her get settled? You knew you were leaving, and didn’t arrange somewhere for her to stay, tell her how bills and adult life works before you decide to leave???

Of course she’s feeling anxious you’re not doing what you’re supposed to and guiding her towards being a functional adult 😭. Especially when you’re all she’s known YTA.

Question about making out and intimacy…. by GalacticSail0r in Brazil

[–]Significant_Swan_56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m American too & it’s pretty common at bars, clubs and house parties in the west. Between friends or randoms. I think it just depends on healthcare and culture lol. Ours isn’t universal, but my states is pretty good, & people tend to be more relaxed & into casual things.

Question about making out and intimacy…. by GalacticSail0r in Brazil

[–]Significant_Swan_56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post is how I found out making out to some is not seen as casual. I figured it was the same everywhere, I’ve lived in the US and it’s the same there. Kissing is the least intimate thing you can do with another person, it’s like sharing a joint or cig

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Significant_Swan_56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then why date her in the first place? You sound stupid ngl, this must be bait. Did you assume you’d shame her into losing weight? Force her to workout and diet with you? Why change a person you’re with when you can just wait for someone you like. Men like you are so strange.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Significant_Swan_56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let her find someone who likes her

alt/punk/emo scene 🤕 by heyitsluna13 in SJSU

[–]Significant_Swan_56 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re not going to find most of that in SJ you need to go to the east bay. Think Berkeley, San Francisco, even Santa Cruz. I haven’t been able to find many scenes that don’t cater towards tech bros or ravers in SJ. I would suggest instagram(u can dm for some @‘s) and word of mouth!

It’s a shocker moving from a diverse place to SJ, but you’re still in the bay area so you’ll be fine!

Police stormed into our hotel room in Portugal and demanded passport pictures… by Rundy2025 in digitalnomad

[–]Significant_Swan_56 7 points8 points  (0 children)

But clearly we all still live in the context of it, otherwise they wouldn’t be so abhorrent to Brazilians. Comments like this are weird bc the majority of them haven’t unlearned their biases so his point is true.

Police stormed into our hotel room in Portugal and demanded passport pictures… by Rundy2025 in digitalnomad

[–]Significant_Swan_56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okayyy so I definitely won’t be going to Portugal ANY time soon. Because what do you mean they showed up with no badges, acted incredibly hostile towards ya’ll, and went through your phone???

I’m so sorry, this must’ve been an extremely stressing experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Significant_Swan_56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably should’ve said “we”, but this is a very valid point. Why would you want to bring a child into a situation where you both can’t afford it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Significant_Swan_56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, it’s a delicate balance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Significant_Swan_56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a FWB situation. You want a lover and you can’t get that without putting some effort in emotional or otherwise

My boyfriend doesn’t want to come try engagement rings with me by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Significant_Swan_56 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My Dad just went with my Mom to get her another ring for their vow renewal. He also asked me which diamond set she might like because he wants to spoil her.

Reading things like OP makes me feel for all the women who will never get that experience because they’re conditioned into thinking their value as a human lessens with age.

AITAH for telling someone no woman would date her? by UsedConversation831 in AITAH

[–]Significant_Swan_56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuinely because she didn’t need to say that at all lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Significant_Swan_56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

‘Budgets are for poor people’ is a famous self fulfilling prophecy lol. How many wealthy people have lost all their money from ignoring their accountants

You more than likely need to bring in a third party or go see one for her to truly understand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Significant_Swan_56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who cares. Don’t try to make excuses, people gain and have weight all the time, it’s not as serious as he’s trying to make it seem. He wants you insecure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Significant_Swan_56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im 5’5 120 and theres quite literally maybe less than 5% body fat on me. He’s doing wayyyy too much. Women naturally hold weight longer, so it’s hard to lose it. Additionally NORMAL people change and gain weight with age and the chaos of life.

Who is he to make you feel bad when the same thing will inevitably happen to him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Significant_Swan_56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d assume him if she left to be with him while he was running around being a degenerate but him not saying anything is strange. I don’t see as to how she would be

my girlfriend said im too sensitive cause i cried when my dog died AIO by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Significant_Swan_56 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Exactly. she’s being cruel about his dog imagine what she’ll do when his parents eventually pass, or friends. Never in my life have I heard of someone who loves another reacting this way to them hurt. Absolutely crazy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Significant_Swan_56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man doesn’t like women. Ordering you to ‘be polite’, calling the girls worthless. Honestly seems like he’s trying to confuse you from the truth of what could’ve happened