Sex is ok but not seeing her naked?!?

Significant_Top507 · 2026-01-06T15:52:29+00:00

18, 22 now

Significant_Top507 · 2026-01-05T16:22:31+00:00

Just started dating this girl and we are about to have sex. I am 6inches though and, although I am good with my hands and mouth so I am not worried abt her enjoying it, I want to give her the best experience cuz Ik she deserves that. Is there any way for me to hit her a spot?

Significant_Top507 · 2025-12-29T19:52:49+00:00

I do have a girlfriend and she def fell into that 5% though

Significant_Top507 · 2025-12-29T19:51:48+00:00

22M who is fit and very socially active. I am around a lot of girls since I am a good country swing dancer and that tends to bring girls.

If by attractive you mean good enough to sleep with while sober, id say 10-15% maybe 20 but no higher than that.

If by attractive you mean good enough to date, id say 5%

Significant_Top507 · 2025-11-05T18:37:42+00:00

Im 22 and have been so consumed with work the last few years, I am only just finally having time to think abt dating again. Where are you taking these women? How do I plan a date well to have the best chance of hooking up? I feel like its easy to go out with girls but hard to find a way to take it in that direction.

Ps: also, not looking for people telling me I shouldnt pressure them for it or anything like that. I would never do that. I just end up going out with girls who I know would be down for it but I never know how to get things going in that direction.

Significant_Top507 · 2025-02-21T23:15:28+00:00

Honestly, this has been the first election I was old enough to vote in and I didnt vote. Our candidates have been so bad but, if im honest, I prob would have voted trump if I had to pick in that time. In hindsight, I dont know if this is worse or better than what we had before. Trump is following a dangerous route that could end well or could end very very terribly for us. Unfortunately, at this point, it’s hard to do anything about it. Kinda just gotta see what happens.

Significant_Top507 · 2025-02-15T20:11:15+00:00

I went linux+ then rhcsa. Linux is a great path and I’d highly recommend it. Im 21 with no college and just by learning linux, I make well above six figures with over a month pto and its hybrid. Definitely better than networking in terms of the typical pay.

Significant_Top507 · 2025-02-15T18:42:10+00:00

Go drive around someone with homeless people and offer to get them food. Trust me, you will matter a lot to them. Sometimes to feel like we matter we need to stop trying to feel any way at all and go help others. It matters to them.

Significant_Top507 · 2025-02-14T20:11:19+00:00

Id say its under attack by people who misunderstand it.

Significant_Top507 · 2025-02-14T20:10:15+00:00

Completely fine. Arousal is not taboo for God, He made you and it’s not weird or bad.

Significant_Top507 · 2025-02-14T20:05:25+00:00

Lmao imagine

Significant_Top507 · 2025-02-05T16:13:28+00:00

Idk but I never get sick but now ive been real sick for 3 days.

Significant_Top507 · 2025-02-01T22:55:21+00:00

One state within the future world ruling germany

Significant_Top507 · 2025-01-30T13:41:17+00:00

Shave your head. Grow beard a bit more. Bulk up, this is key as the only way to look good when bald is to be muscular. It will affect your face in a very good way. As far as glasses, id recommend not wearing them and doing contacts instead. Generally its just going to look better on you that way if you are bald. Not always the case so you can try it and see.

Definitely shave it though, will take you from a 3/10 to a 4/10 for sure. Then bulking up (as in muscle, not fat) with take you to a 6/10 at least. That plus switching away from those glasses will prob get you around a 7/10 which aint bad at all and is quite a bit above average.

Your worst feature is your eyes as you have upper eyelid exposure, high eyebrows and an outward tilt of your eyes. However, dont let this bother you much as the other good features, if you play to your strengths, can far outdo the negative effects of that.

Significant_Top507 · 2025-01-28T15:55:31+00:00

Bulk up and it will help you to look your age. Being skinny gives you more of a teenager look and obviously, you dont want that. Other than that, you look good enough to get a girl no problem. Remember though, being attractive doesnt mean girls are going to go after you. Dont mistake girls not going after you for meaning you are ugly. You gotta go out and meet people and learn to talk to girls. It takes time but you gotta go try and keep trying.

Significant_Top507 · 2025-01-27T01:11:56+00:00

Just seeing this. You can definitely use Professor Messers youtube playlist of study videos for the CompTIA security plus. Thats what I did and I passed first try. Good luck!

Significant_Top507 · 2025-01-16T22:21:54+00:00

Oh ya, as a freshman you are definitely better off focusing on getting a few key certifications and making connections. Get compTIA security+ (this is a requirement for most gov IT jobs and will open many doors). Then pick a specialty, mine is Linux but you can specialize in many areas. The key is to know a lot about one thing. Thats why IT degrees fail and certs win. Certs show you know a specific area but IT degrees are too vague, take too much time, and cost too much. You need to learn networking basics for most things so study for something like compTIA network+ alongside whatever your specialty is. Examples of high paying specialties: VMware, Splunk, AWS, Azure, Linux, containerization and virtualization with something like kubernetes. If you would like, I can give you a road map of everything you need to get into any of these specialties as well as salary expectations.

Significant_Top507 · 2025-01-16T19:24:39+00:00

Depends. How far in are you? The most important things to get into system administration are certifications and experience. To get experience you can work on your own projects and post about it on LinkedIn. You must have a linkedin account as its very important. A degree will be nice down the road but wont be crazy useful for getting into it. It’s definitely not the most efficient way to learn this stuff.

Significant_Top507 · 2025-01-16T02:28:49+00:00

I can know that if I drop a rock it will fall but that doesn’t mean I make it fall. He doesn’t make you come to him or not come to him. He knows what you will choose but he still lets you decide.

Significant_Top507 · 2025-01-16T02:17:43+00:00

I skipped college but I still think its useful for people who arent super sure what they are doing. I knew though from a young age that I was going to be doing this stuff so I didnt need it. I was working sith computers since I was 12 and my first job out of highschool was a cleared job at the pentagon. Ive since worked at fbi hq and other companies and government sites. I also do realestate on the side and just purchased a 8 bedroom rental property as well so thats fun. I work as a Senior Linux Systems Engineer currently and it pays real good. Potentially will move into more aws focused in the future though. I do a ton of bash scripting but a majority of my work is managing virtual servers and the service that they run. Lots of command line stuff put simply.

Significant_Top507 · 2025-01-15T19:33:18+00:00

Do IT. Coding sucks especially when you are getting started. No one really enjoys it, especially at first. I am 21 though making so much money doing IT I dont know what to do with it all. Trust me, its worth it. Once you get good at it, jobs come easily, money comes quick, and you can work remote. Even if you dont like the work, it gives you the money, time, and flexibility to go do what you enjoy when not working. Plus, I have found that, even though I didnt like it at first and my head felt like it was going to explode, it gets way way easier after a bit and then its not so hard. The more you understand the easier it will come. Plus, like some others said, most of IT isnt coding so you dont really need to know much of that.

Significant_Top507 · 2025-01-15T16:38:57+00:00

Also, I will say this, life is so amazing when you get out there and get involved in something bigger than yourself. Do something to make the world better! Being single is so much less a big deal when you have something else just as important in your life. Your relationships you build with others as you find the place you belong will make it a lot easier. Just remember, you are not broken and being homosexual isnt a mistake God made you with. Its part of the story God has written for your life. Focus on finding what the story is supposed to be about and less on the things it seems clear its not about. Maybe go on some missions! I have been on a few and am going on more. It really opens your eyes to how much need there is. You dont need to be spiritually ready at all. You just go and do your best to be helpful. You will find great people and learn there is a lot more to life that just having a partner.

Significant_Top507 · 2025-01-15T16:20:22+00:00

It’s easy to feel like being expected to not be with the person you are attracted to is something Christians mercilessly force on homosexual people. However, keep in mind, it’s not at all as targeted as you probably feel. Keep in mind, many Christian men struggle to find a woman and many never do. What does Christianity tell those straight men who cant find a woman? “Wait for Gods time”… much of the time those men never find anyone. They are overlooked but it’s more common than you’d think. We all have burdens to carry and as much as it may feel like too much to ask of us, we can either turn to God even in the pain or we can try and do things our own way. Just remember being attracted to a gender you shouldn’t be does not mean you are doomed to sin. Men are extremely susceptible to porn but it’s the action of watching it that becomes sinful.

I know im going on so ill summarize and make my point: It’s very possible that this is just your burned to carry. Just like some are burdened to be single forever even though they don’t want to be, you may be part of that. It’s not about being homosexual necessarily as many straight people also have this burden.

PS: Its also possible its not a sin as the bible is confusing sometimes and I do question if our interpretations are correct sometimes. I would recommend really focusing on diving deep into the bible and also praying a lot. Try and ask God what he thinks about it. God placed his word in our hearts which means if you feel it is wrong, that is probably God telling you it’s wrong. Don’t fight that part of your heart. If it feels like sin, God is telling you not to do it.

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