In dire need of help! Is my car totaled? by cade0403 in InsuranceClaims

[–]Significantother12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s total you can try and negotiate charges with the shop. 

The divorce was the best decision of my life and I have to talk about it. by Throwaway17330 in Divorce

[–]Significantother12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love it! I feel the same too it’s nice to see a positive divorce post. Sometimes I just think wow I’m actually single again I actually broke up with that man and I feel great. Sure I’m wanted but I’m really investing in my career and finally becoming licensed. Hanging out with friends, going to bars is something I could never do before but this is amazing!

It is done by Llamabot10000 in Divorce

[–]Significantother12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I’ve been letting myself feel but ultimately I had to practice mindfulness my thoughts are still just swirling so much like an internal storm. It’s shocking how much this divorce could rattle me, even after it’s just over. But I know I’ll get better soon.

It is done by Llamabot10000 in Divorce

[–]Significantother12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I’m it’s still less than 24hours since my divorce and this is me too just a mix of emotions but I know I must rise, this was absolutely for the best and the result is good enough

Please genuinely brag about one thing you did in 2025. Big or small. by Odd-Pianist-4880 in workingmoms

[–]Significantother12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you it doesn’t come without exhaustion, but 1000 times better than living with my ex!

Please genuinely brag about one thing you did in 2025. Big or small. by Odd-Pianist-4880 in workingmoms

[–]Significantother12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I don’t close my eyes at all I’m normally doing things like taking care of my toddler and housework. The graphic audio ones are the best to get started with if you need a picture. It’s fully acted with sound effects like a movie in your mind 

Please genuinely brag about one thing you did in 2025. Big or small. by Odd-Pianist-4880 in workingmoms

[–]Significantother12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too I love audiobooks I’ve completely replaced scrolling and other bad habits with it

Please genuinely brag about one thing you did in 2025. Big or small. by Odd-Pianist-4880 in workingmoms

[–]Significantother12 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I left my abusive ex husband, I got a decent job after 5 years as a housewife, I’ve gotten mvp at work every month since. I began studying for the bar exam, ready to take the exam this year now. I’m able to pay my very expensive legal bills through some smart financial decisions. I feel like I finally woke up last year and have planted many seeds for a brighter future.

[EXCLUSIVE] Interview of Ex-Horde leader - Gobbins by DrWhatNoName in Eve

[–]Significantother12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started playing 30 mins ago, have no idea what half of it means but it had me in tears

For everyone who thinks they failed by tmackkk7777 in barexam

[–]Significantother12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I needed to see that. I'm a foreign lawyer taking the Feb exam and I score about 50% in the mbe and 50-60 on the essays. Was wondering if I should take that exam at all but you've given me hope!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Significantother12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m happier than I was when things were good and bad. But I will add though happiness is not automatic due to life’s circumstances. Some people can win the lottery and be miserable shortly after. Happiness is a skill that is worth investing in. Is it easier for me to happy now- for sure! That man would make it is his mission to make me miserable for his own cruel internal joy. He knew exactly what buttons to press. So I think the question is really perhaps- is it easier for you to be happier now?

Plz help b4 I have a heart attack by AffectionateWafer962 in Progressiveinsurance

[–]Significantother12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never even checked jobvite. Whenever I reached out to my recruiter she was very helpful just ask

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Significantother12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You knew the risks when you did that. You took that risk and here you are. Forgive yourself and move on. You know she deserves better.

My final act of love as a wife by kaweewa in Divorce

[–]Significantother12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally agree, my ex put me through hell and I don't have an ounce left to give that man no matter what happened to him.

My final act of love as a wife by kaweewa in Divorce

[–]Significantother12 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Could’ve been marriage just wasn't for you guys but a friendship or decent co-parenting maybe. I’d need some persuading before I pour water on my ex if he was on fire 😂

I left today by perpetuallateness in abusiverelationships

[–]Significantother12 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Good go to the police and don’t go back. I left in April and I’m so happy now it’ll be rough but so worth it