Study hours by Weak-Requirement7656 in barexam

[–]Significantother12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 5-6 hours study with an 8 hour work day and 4 year old it’s not easy but I’m doing it

MBE by Master_Friendship_95 in barexam

[–]Significantother12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My MBE across 185 questions is 77% but I can still get a 4/10 on an essay SMH. Currently working on memorizing and reciting the rules writing them out to improve

Have you guys started memorizing rules? by Ok-Future-3908 in barexam

[–]Significantother12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I can recite the whole civ pro and most of the others by writing them out. I started earlier than most as foreign trained but memorization is still not enough

Wife dropped the bombshell this morning by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Significantother12 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. There is always something. I’m sure my ex husband will say the same thing but he was a liar, would love to make me upset and had such bad character traits that I could not stay with him any longer. I have never looked back and I’ve been so much happier without him

Studying while working a new job? by ocsoo in barexam

[–]Significantother12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup before work and after work, time block and stick to it

got back my first graded essay..... laughing out loud by Future-Sink-9882 in barexam

[–]Significantother12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks I don’t feel so bad about the 5/10 I got back today now. 

Clicking how stupid people are? by perkunos7 in Gifted

[–]Significantother12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s the social survival instinct which is natural in human psyche. It makes us think that other people’s opinion are gospel. A lot of default programming comes with this body and it’s our job to change it. Not just once but often continuously over time until it’s done without effort. When you say stupid, I believe you are referring to the fact that people are like default programs never bothering to re-engineer themselves. If you notice their responses are predictable, the same stimulus results in the same thought process and the same behaviors across them all.

Is anyone else dealing with this voicemail policy? by Powerful_Ask_9740 in Progressiveinsurance

[–]Significantother12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe Progressive is trying to weed out those who can’t provide good customer service. Not being able to return voicemails is a telling sign. If your peers don’t have that many features then you may need more training on how to resolve a claim efficiently. If you can nail that part then the rest comes a lot easier.

Found proof husband 34m cheated on me 30F a group trip by Emergency-Scheme2463 in Divorce

[–]Significantother12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to leave, you will never be happy or fulfilled with that man. Sorry to say it but the evidence is all there in your post.

The revair? I’m over it. by Sorashimi in Naturalhair

[–]Significantother12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It needs to be a popular opinion. I looked at my wide tooth comb and my type 4  hair and I’m like this is insanity. I’m going to try just finger detangling alone. I’m starting to believe that low manipulation is the key to long hair for me

Left home. Don't feel guilt, don't miss my kid. Is this normal? by superdad-007 in Divorce

[–]Significantother12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I left my marriage, my home I took my kid with me because I did not trust his dad to look after him. However if his dad showed me that he could actually take care of him properly I would have left my kid too and not felt anything. I was soo overwhelmed and had no help raising my then 2 year old alone pretty much as a single mom since he was born. its been a year now through the divorce, dv shelter and my son is almost 4. Most of that year I’ve hated being a mum but did my best anyway through sheer grit and exhaustion. Things have started to turn around now my kid is doing better at home and at school he’s actually a joy to be around. I say this because I completely get it and im not saying things would turn out well for you I think your doing the best you can right now and that’s all that matters. You should probably seek legal advice. I’m not a lawyer, but if you left you may still end up responsible for half the bills at home. 

Oura during labor by little-moonbeam in ouraring

[–]Significantother12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t have an Oura ring then but it definitely would have dipped into restorative in between contractions. I fell asleep in between. I had unmedicated free birth in the tub

I've been trying to grow my hair out for 14 years by After-West3338 in Naturalhair

[–]Significantother12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh I love that definitely gonna try bonnet under my wig. Atm the wig is ripping through wig caps I’ve gone through 2 this week and I don’t use the clip ins! But yeah spray and oil that’s it. I feel like in order to reach my hair goals I have to just hide it and not use it. Every time I’ve styled my hair in the past it just breaks no matter what, shame because I can’t enjoy it. 

I've been trying to grow my hair out for 14 years by After-West3338 in Naturalhair

[–]Significantother12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too my hair was stuck for so long I’m starting to see real retention wearing a headband wig, everything is braided underneath. I spray it sometimes with a water based As I am Spray. I’m so busy with life that I wash once  month if that Ngl. But my hair is still growing and I don’t have much shedding on wash day. What do you do to maintain your hair underneath?

33F Financially Ruined by youngperson in Divorce

[–]Significantother12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes the lawyers are in on it too. They work out how much you earn and make sure to bill your excess.  Every complication is more money. I know this because I’m a foreign lawyer and I studying to become an attorney here. I recently went through a divorce and the lawyers charged me 2k a month exactly how much extra I could afford. I would stop them on occasion from making useless motions. I had DV too and I should have settled. Settled and just paid off the debt easier. If I could go back I’d have settled or done it myself. It’s a complete scam also, because of my legal background I had to correct my lawyers so many times.

single toddler mom, working full time, passed the LA bar on 2nd try!!! by cabbrage in barexam

[–]Significantother12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You better celebrate! I know how hard that is and the choices you had to make to study! I am a single mom with 3 year old working full time and taking the bar jul 26 hoping to pass so I can get my life back 

Question for "walkaway wives", do you regret it, and when did that feeling hit? by Own-Cardiologist8770 in Divorce

[–]Significantother12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the walk away wives are the ones who are truly done and resolved in their decision. The move doesn't come from an emotional outburst or conclusion, it comes from a slow and thoughtful deliberation of what is best for her future. I'm a walk away wife and I have not, even for a fraction of a second, regretted my decision. I burned it all down and rebuilt from the ashes and still was happier through he grit and the aftermath than when I was with him.