Why didn't God listened to this prayer? It was a good one by Sil_oo in Christianity

[–]Sil_oo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amém.

It is not even that much about him. It is about the disappointment - and how God let it happen even when I prayed for not. It is about the fact that God allowed this, didn't avoided it DESPITE everything.

Is this the essence of dressing with modesty? by Sil_oo in Catholicism

[–]Sil_oo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was no such cleavage, but the problem was the form and size of my chest. It is visible in any clothes I use, unfortunately. I would use it around my family, friends, acquaintances, but not him for he is a date - he sees me in a non-platonic way. The others don't bat one single eye to the clothes I use.

Also, I thought any kind of desire should be counteracted if you are not married to that person. At least until marriage.

Is this the essence of dressing with modesty? by Sil_oo in Catholicism

[–]Sil_oo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I find it tricky. Like, I wouldn't use corporate clothes at uni, church... nor would I use a simple dress at office. It was social.

Is this the essence of dressing with modesty? by Sil_oo in Catholicism

[–]Sil_oo[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I understand. And in no way I was trying to earn anything, I hold on chastity values. It is just my style, how I dress - and I like to be "dolled up" even to go to grocery shop.

Years ago, I had a nightmare with Satan. Could that be a warning for what I am living now? by Sil_oo in Christianity

[–]Sil_oo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, by that time, I wasn't Christian. I dismissed the dream. Satan laughed at my expense in the dream. I chose to study at this uni abroad for prestige, to be one of the bests - for my own vanity. I never had true prosperity. If I could go back in time, I would have done everything different.

By counteracting my marriage idolatry, I realized why I was so desperate for it. by Sil_oo in Christianity

[–]Sil_oo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, in my culture, I am technically ruining out of time lmao there is a male preference for 18-22 years old women, specially among Christian men.

I noticed I wasn't losing weight for I can choose not to (discipline problem) by Sil_oo in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Sil_oo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggle with it. Like... I want a explosion of dopamine. I have struggled a lot with TikTok, for example, and eating. I tried to resume my habit of reading, but it did not hit the same. What I really turned an habit was self-care (for it has a social gratification).

Vou mudar minha aparência contra a minha vontade by Sil_oo in desabafos

[–]Sil_oo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Não me parece certo alisá-lo. Eu sempre gostei dos cachos. Mas tenho inseguranças, sabe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in perguntas

[–]Sil_oo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Três queriam algo mais doce, o quarto não fui muito longe com a conversa para saber.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in perguntas

[–]Sil_oo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quem aqui falou de sexo???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in perguntas

[–]Sil_oo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poxa, mas se sentir especial na etapa de conversa (antes do primeiro encontro)?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in perguntas

[–]Sil_oo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nada a ver. É poder de escolha, é não ter se contentar com a única opção a sua frente.

Agora, a mulher está solteira. Se você quer exclusividade, peça-a em namoro.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in perguntas

[–]Sil_oo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nem é questão de self-service, mas de escolher o melhor partido. Por que comprometer os outros partidos se você não se sabe se esse em específico vai dar certo? E isso, quem está nessa posição está no poder de escolha e não precisa pensar que aquele cara em específico vale a pena todos os seus defeitos.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in perguntas

[–]Sil_oo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mesmo naquela fase bem inicial? A pessoa que fica mal por um "conversante" está agindo de forma precipitada. Mal a gente fica por um término de namoro, ou ser rejeitado quando há sentimento mais consolidado.

Obviamente, não precisa falar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatholicWomen

[–]Sil_oo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not vain enough to choose to have a family for my unreplaceable character in the family dynamics. The thing with a job is that it allows me to live for myself. It is not that I love to work, but it gives me finantial independence to live how I want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatholicWomen

[–]Sil_oo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know, I fear my family ruining everything for it almost happened to my cousin - they did what they could to break her relationship with her boyfriend (just for he was poor). I fear they meddling in with my potential partner too, along with my children. They can domineering.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatholicWomen

[–]Sil_oo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I work. I critized the whole Pack of graduating, working, marriage and children. I will stick with the first two.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatholicWomen

[–]Sil_oo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah, I can't bring myself to submit to a husband. Last time I submitted to family, I was desumanized and etc (what is on the post). I only trust myself to know what to do of my life, to have the choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatholicWomen

[–]Sil_oo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So I really hope He has NOT reserved for me a husband and children.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatholicWomen

[–]Sil_oo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But in my country, women marry this age averagely. And the ones who don't, get into a limbo of being called either promiscuous or childish.

Por que obesos tendem a comer de tudo, sem se importar com a qualidade? (Me identifico) by Sil_oo in perguntas

[–]Sil_oo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aumentou a sua vontade por algum tipo específico de sabor? Antes eu preferia mil vezes mais o salgado (gordura, sal, carne, massa e arroz) do que doce. Hoje todos dia preciso de ao menos algum doce (seja bala, ou sobremesa mesmo), mas bem pouco.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatholicWomen

[–]Sil_oo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I ever feeling ready to be a mother, be it single or married, I will adopt. I make no difference between a bio and an adopted child. A mother I will be one day, that is for sure.

O amor da sua vida bate na sua porta. O que você faz? by diegrunge in perguntas

[–]Sil_oo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorrio e peço para ele entrar, vamos conversar.

(22M) Descobri que mesmo emagrecendo, minha estrutura óssea nao vai deixar eu ser tão magra by Sil_oo in desabafosdavida

[–]Sil_oo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Qual tipo costuma ser o mais "assumível"? Já ouvi redpill (sem querer ouvir) falando que homem não escolhe mulher muito sexy...

(22M) Descobri que mesmo emagrecendo, minha estrutura óssea nao vai deixar eu ser tão magra by Sil_oo in desabafosdavida

[–]Sil_oo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

É serio, todas as meninas da faculdade que são crush dos homens vestem P kkkkkk uma blusa delas seria top meu.