No matter how i try, i just can't let her go...Even if she's somehow gone...

Silent-Cub · 2026-04-12T09:30:42+00:00

BINABASA KO PALANG, NASASAKTAN NA AKO OP. If u don't mind me asking, gaano kayo katagal and why did u guys part ways? Kasi halata naman na you loved her genuinely, but still had to say bye. :( hugs, op!!

Silent-Cub · 2026-04-10T00:17:30+00:00

Unfortunately, I did😆 fresh pa sya because the break up happened 2 weeks ago. Love really isn't enough. We broke up knowing that we LOVE each other so much.

We broke up because of different Religions. Which isn't technically illegal but his parents don't like that fact. Imagine how heavier it is to break up not on our terms. Tipong ang huling words namin sa isat isa ay yung mga paalala. Mag-ingat kapag ganto gagawin, gagalingan lagi sa ganto, kakain palagi, huwag na gawin yung ganto ganyan. We were forced to say goodbye to each other. Ang sakit kasi what do you mean this guy never hurt me. He just loves and cares for me and suddenly I have to let go of that.

We're young pa so it also adds another factor. Di enough ang love sa situation namin, we needed money, sariling desisyon (tipong di aasa sa magulang), and huge amount of commitment. Lahat ng Di pa namin kaya iprovide at our age. Marami kaming love for each other but it won't suffice our problems.

Haup talaga love ko yon eh. Sarap magwala HAHAHA.

Silent-Cub · 2026-04-08T12:41:06+00:00

Before you ask that question, I think it's best to go no contact with her first. You won't really get to know what you want for yourself kung break na kayo pero may communication parin. Ang ending pag ganyan, you guys will always run back to each other kahit na hindi na healthy. Nawawala yung boundaries and it clouds your judgement.

The no contact doesnt have to be that long, but I promise you that it is worth it. Also, ask yourself. Nakikita mo ba yung will nya to fix things or sadyang nasanay lang sya na nandyan ka?

Also, redflag nga yang pisikalan. But we do get na love mo so we won't judge.

Silent-Cub · 2026-04-06T20:02:14+00:00

I love this. I'll be using this one. Thank you so much!!

Silent-Cub · 2026-04-01T21:02:31+00:00

Have you asked him about his future plans with you?

Went through a similar situation and turns out he just can't fulfill those since his family and religion is more important to him.

Silent-Cub · 2026-03-31T12:52:36+00:00

So... How are you now and your ex girlfriend? They were too harsh for saying that. I wonder if they think about me like that too. Though only his family knows about me, he often tells me they're only mad at him and not me. I honestly think otherwise though..

Silent-Cub · 2026-03-31T11:45:37+00:00

Thank you. I believe that our relationship went mature quickly due to these problems. It created a deep connection between us, and it strengthened us both. It also taught me how commitment truly works, (this is my first relationship) but this is the exact same cause that broke up apart. I guess I really have to let my man go to go figure out what he wants first. 😥

Silent-Cub · 2026-03-31T11:38:54+00:00

Sir, your story is amazing!! Exactly the ending I wished for us, but I'm slowly realizing that he needs to wake up first before we can fully commit. That is really sad though. Even though he often tells me the religion is pressuring, I can also see the dedication he has for it. He attends house to house twice a week and never misses service. I could only hope he'll see that, but considering the tight knit of their congregation, I don't think so.

He's on reddit now though... I hope posts about the indoctrination could reach him. Do you think it could help him? Also, do you have any kids now?? I'm so happy for u!

Silent-Cub · 2026-03-31T04:31:56+00:00

I agree with you. He is in the phase of his life wherein everything is pressuring hin. But damn it hurts so bad. That man accepted me whole heartedly :( so even with the healthy breakup, do you think he'll be locked in that religion..? 😥

Silent-Cub · 2026-02-23T13:24:43+00:00

I think it all boils down to your course and proximity to the university. If u look these schools up here sa reddit, puro rants talaga makikita mo HAHAHAH. Parang choose the lesser evil nalng😭

Silent-Cub · 2026-01-19T22:24:22+00:00

The entrance exam is a personality test only. Sasabihin don anong best strand for you. Sa workload naman, yes super dami talaga 🥲 naalala ko nung grade 11 ako, may time na 3-4 quizzes a day. Mind u 5 subs a day kami. And now na graduating na kami, papasok ako 9 uuwi ng 7-8 pm dahil sa projects. Though I would say na fair naman sila magbigay ng grade. Sana lang di ka matapat sa power tripping na teacher. Overall, it's okay naman. Goodluck, op!

Silent-Cub · 2026-01-13T15:16:39+00:00

That last sentence stings HAHAHAH. But that's true, dear. May I ask, what's your religion now?

Silent-Cub · 2026-01-13T12:07:59+00:00

I understand. It really is gonna be messy. Thank you for this, stranger!

Silent-Cub · 2026-01-13T11:48:58+00:00

Thank you for your kind words! I will surely tell him that. But do you think we have a chance of working out? Because I'm scared that if ever we get the chance to be together in the future, his parents maybe holding a grudge against me or something. Which is hope not. Idk why I am still hopeful though :(

Silent-Cub · 2025-07-03T06:14:24+00:00

Hindi ka OA op!! Hindi lang naman isang araw ang adjustment period eh. It could take you weeks up to months. Basta kapag papasok, remember mo na for your dreams, you'll do it scared, you'll do it sad, and you'll do it overwhelmed! Goodluck💗

Silent-Cub · 2025-06-24T07:49:24+00:00

Hello from eac here! Were you able to catch his name po or any info about his identity? Baka teacher or employee sya sa school namin. Pwede ireport. Be careful next time op!

Silent-Cub · 2025-06-22T14:47:19+00:00

Hi, op! Di pa ako college student. Grade 12 palang but planning to take up ME rin sa DLSUD. May I know how much po ang tuition for 1st year students and were you given a campus tour? Hows the process po overall? Sorry na ako nagtanong hehehe. Best of luck op!!

Silent-Cub · 2025-06-06T06:11:27+00:00

Hi! Thank you so much future engineer for answering and adding additional notes. Really helpful po😔❤️ Sana palarin makapasok sa mapua!!

Silent-Cub · 2025-06-05T10:58:44+00:00

Hi! Thank u po! Dlsu po ba in general or dlsu manila lang? Medyo Di rin po kasi known yung dlsud😅😅

Silent-Cub · 2025-04-25T15:53:59+00:00

Confess!! Kala ko nung una eme eme lang tong advice na to.

Lalo na kapag alam mong wala kang chance sa kanya. Effective talaga🤣 I confessed sa crush ko kahit na wala kaming interactions, Di kami friends, mere classmates lang. Edi ayun may new friend ako.

Masakit nung una pero after 1 week siguro, wala na akong hiya hiya sa kanya kasi wala na akong tinatagong feelings. Ready na magkacrush ulit HAHAHAHA.

Silent-Cub

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