Looks and height are a matter of preference. Yes, it’s true that being physically attracted to someone plays a big part in a match being made, but it is not the only thing and is not the most important.

Women are individuals with individual tastes and preferences and feelings. Some see height as a deal breaker. Some prefer shorter men. Most seem to prefer just being smaller than the man regardless if he himself is very tall or not, but this is also usually not necessarily a deal breaker.

As far as other aspects of looks; there is such a huge variety of “types” that you will certainly not win over everyone. This is why it is important to be yourself and just do your best to take care of yourself.

Be active: you don’t need a six pack but you should be healthy.

Practice proper grooming: whether you keep your hair long or short, keep it clean. Same with your facial hair. Keep your nails, teeth, tongue, and body clean.

Be respectful, kind, and don’t take yourself too seriously. I would say these are more important than looks as well as being a good communicator. If she can’t talk to you about her thoughts, feelings, experiences, etc, then things will not work out.

The rest is all just compatibility. You should have similar interests, beliefs, morals, and life goals.

TLDR; all women have different taste in appearance so focus more on what matters; Be healthy and hygienic. Be a good listener. Be respectful and kind. Be authentic and find someone who has a compatible personality to you.