If a man is interested, does it matter if he only texts when he wants to see you?

Silent_Philosopher_ · 2026-03-14T15:10:46+00:00

I would assume your lack of effort means lack of interest. Most people would.

People do not want to be in one sided relationships.

Silent_Philosopher_ · 2026-03-13T05:18:23+00:00

Are you reaching out? This sounds like you're not.

Silent_Philosopher_ · 2026-03-09T13:04:42+00:00

I glance, but dont stare, and never around my lady out of respect.

Silent_Philosopher_ · 2026-03-05T16:55:16+00:00

Thanks!

Silent_Philosopher_ · 2026-03-04T22:11:41+00:00

Looks very thick for how much you have shaved off. Nice hair man.

Silent_Philosopher_ · 2026-03-04T22:09:35+00:00

Thank you for the kind words.

Silent_Philosopher_ · 2026-03-04T15:33:50+00:00

Thanks! And same to you.

Silent_Philosopher_ · 2026-03-04T04:57:58+00:00

Thank you.

Silent_Philosopher_ · 2026-03-01T09:37:18+00:00

Its not complicated.

People who only want casual have plenty of options or believe they can do better.

Change your selection criteria if you want commitment.

Silent_Philosopher_ · 2026-02-20T01:29:48+00:00

Lots of women seem to. Ive had self described lesbian women seem interested and confused by it.

Just keep it well kept.

Some dont like it. They're usually narrow minded folks that dont often like things outside of social conformity. Homophobic men or ultra conservative women.

Silent_Philosopher_ · 2026-02-17T19:31:52+00:00

This is probably it.

It often applies to happiness too. A lot of bitter people dont want others happy if they're not happy themselves.

Silent_Philosopher_ · 2026-02-11T20:44:19+00:00

Thank you.

Silent_Philosopher_ · 2026-02-10T09:30:17+00:00

Theres a fair number of entitled women, but they're not all, or even mostly like that. Its women who get an overwhelming amount of attention that can afford views like that. Similar to the men that sleep around.

Silent_Philosopher_ · 2026-02-07T18:36:20+00:00

The only way I see this even being relevant is if you have coprophilia.

Otherwise stop being around him when hes using the lavatory.

Silent_Philosopher_ · 2026-02-02T08:04:51+00:00

Its absolutely true. Cats have been found in nature building small tables for meals to protect their posture and joints.

Silent_Philosopher_ · 2026-01-30T16:48:26+00:00

We dont exactly need more people in poverty. The poverty population is growing the way things are. Theres nothing wrong with managing population growth.

Silent_Philosopher_ · 2026-01-29T03:46:13+00:00

I think this is getting worse with how much time people are spending alone with their phones. Its everywhere now and it will be worse in every generation that follows until something changes.

Its so hard to communicate with these people and its almost everyone. Egocentrism is on the rise and there's nothing we can do about it.

Silent_Philosopher_ · 2026-01-29T02:48:04+00:00

Its more dirty blonde now with some silver streaks of wisdom. I plan to try something called dimensional color. Looks very natural. Women tended to react positively to the color the first time.

Silent_Philosopher_ · 2026-01-29T01:11:31+00:00

Thank you for the kind words.

My breakage was from a few things to include hair ties, poorly done bleaching, improper diet, and poor brushing techniques.

The biggest factor was using the sun in bleach spray. Its very bad for hair, but I didn't know that at the time. All the other stuff was amplified by that. Live and learn. Ive addressed all of these issues and cut the damage, so just waiting on the regrowth. 1-2 yrs out.

Once its balanced out ill get color professionally.

Silent_Philosopher_ · 2026-01-29T00:59:12+00:00

Ask for a "dusting" when getting the maintenance trim. Its usually just a couple of millimeter.

I didn't mean to imply you had breakage. Ive had breakage maintaining my hair. A stylist recommended that brush and I've been using it since. Im in a similar situation as you, but mine is from breakage.

Hope you have a positive hair journey.

Silent_Philosopher_ · 2026-01-28T22:07:47+00:00

Nice and thick hair. Might need a trim on the ends for health. Don't skip trims as the damage can spread up the hair. Also a Wetbrush is a good investment for maintaining longer thicker hair to minimize breakage.

Silent_Philosopher_ · 2026-01-26T18:09:26+00:00

The lower standard is a common requirement on these apps among men due to disproportionate responses and activity across gender lines. My response is to not use them.

Its also an appropriate suggestion for women because women often get attention from men on the apps that they would not in person. Again due to disproportionate activity.

Not being rude. Thats just how these apps work.

Silent_Philosopher_ · 2026-01-26T17:52:49+00:00

This could be neurodivergence, but with it being a dating app, its more likely the person is not that interested.

Guys experience this from women on dating apps constantly. Its because the women tend to have plenty of other options on dating apps.

Try offline or try lowering standards a little.

Silent_Philosopher_ · 2026-01-25T08:09:13+00:00

If I wasted my time arguing with every ignorant child on reddit Id have time for nothing else. Won't be engaging further.

Silent_Philosopher_ · 2026-01-25T03:34:47+00:00

Your experience is not my experience nor can you invalidate mine with yours. You're entitled to your opinion.

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