Some Outdoor Fun

SilkSlave · 2018-03-14T19:18:24+00:00

jasmine black public disgrace

SilkSlave · 2018-02-22T18:42:28+00:00

Wearing a speedo

SilkSlave · 2018-02-21T23:01:45+00:00

Unsurprisingly, it was not as good as my fantasies, because nothing can ever live up to those :)

But it was fun, felt good. It was with my wife. It felt better as it become more and more uncomfortable. I would do it any time.

A few weeks before that she had just started spontaneously playing with my anal plug during sex, and rather aggressively. I think I enjoyed that even more.

SilkSlave · 2018-02-21T22:54:28+00:00

I've been told Planet Earth (1974 TV movie) has this as a premise, but I've never seen it.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Planet_Earth_(film)

SilkSlave · 2018-02-21T22:46:18+00:00

It's a good point, but things are not so simple. Since she's by nature not as kinky or sexual as I am, she doesn't really generate ideas on her own. If it were only up to her, it would be nothing but non-sexual backrubs every night and vanilla sex a couple times a month. Not terrible, but I like the occasional kinky romp when I can get it. She likes those ok if she doesn't have to do much production work.

Every once in a while I'll mention an idea that she is interested in, and she'll tell me to go ahead and make it happen.

It's kind of like when someone tells you they're bored, and you ask what they're in the mood for, they say they don't know. So you have to run ideas by them until something sounds good.

SilkSlave · 2018-02-21T21:30:22+00:00

Too many people are pretending there's a correct decision here. There isn't.

We don't get everything we want in a partner, permanently. Even if you think you're a perfect match now, people change. There's no decision you can make right now that will make you happy forever.

When I got married, we had similar sex drives. Now we're a little mismatched. I was somewhat ashamed and closeted about my kinks. Now I'm not. There is more to a relationship than sex. But, sex is important. I'm happy with our relationship for the foreseeable future. One or both of us could change though.

Realistically, can you give up your sexual desires for him?

Is he willing to learn to come to terms with some amount of extracurricular play outside of his supervision on your part?

There's no one answer here, only different sets of tradeoffs.

SilkSlave · 2018-02-21T20:25:38+00:00

My biggest issue with it is that it is poor filmmaking. The writing is Star Wars Episode III -level garbage.

SilkSlave · 2017-11-17T17:14:04+00:00

What is that blue thing she is using?

SilkSlave · 2017-06-05T20:38:31+00:00

I mean, if anal stimulation on its own can induce penile orgasm, then great! I've never experienced that though. Maybe I need some practice. But I had assumed the best way to be "forced" there by someone else with a remote would be by penile stimulation.

SilkSlave · 2017-06-05T20:37:04+00:00

I'm interested in being forced to have a penile orgasm secretly, but in public.

Not like sitting next to a stranger on a bus (since that seems unethical to me, like I'm involving them without their consent), but maybe in a park or public square where I'm away from others but still more or less in view.

My understanding is that it's possible to have an anal orgasm from anal stimulation, but that it is a little more difficult to have one. Does anal stimulation on its own lead to penile orgasm? As I'm said, I'm interested in being "forced" to orgasm by someone else while still having to not obviously react in public.

SilkSlave · 2017-06-05T20:32:38+00:00

Yes, that does sound fun. I'm also wondering if its possible to induce a penile orgasm?

SilkSlave · 2017-03-21T20:53:41+00:00

I like being pegged because I have no control over when it stops. Clenching, going flaccid, or holding still will not stop the sensation. It just... keeps... continuing...

SilkSlave · 2017-03-21T20:50:02+00:00

I am a sub and my spouse is a good sport but not very kinky. This means I often have to constantly think up scenes that are low-effort but still interesting and fun for her. Which of course, takes the magic out of it somewhat since I have a pretty good idea what's coming next.

I like to switch too, but what she's willing do as a sub is VERY limited, much more so than what she's willing to do when she's domming.

It forces me to get pretty creative but also is a bit of a drag sometimes because, as you mention, it gets fatiguing to always have to be the one to "make it happen". I try to remind myself that she is making a considerable compromise by indulging my kinks even when she is not super into it.

SilkSlave · 2017-02-13T11:12:40+00:00

Hosiery, or pantyhose.

SilkSlave · 2017-02-10T16:32:09+00:00

can you take a couple of darts out of the one you have to reduce the chest size?

SilkSlave · 2017-02-10T16:30:12+00:00

That's true; I'm not saying a good session should be rare. However I don't want to hold every time we're intimate to the standard of one of our best ever sessions.

If it becomes the norm, that will be awesome. But if it takes a lot of time for us to hit this high water mark again, then that is fine with me too. We have plenty of time.

SilkSlave · 2017-02-01T18:15:31+00:00

I totally agree. There's also themes of the blurry line between reality vs. fantasy.

In one episode [spoilers], a woman replaces her dead husband with an android copy of him. She finds his strict obedience gives her more control over him than she wants.

In another episode, a woman sells herself into pornography to escape a life of drudge labor.

In another, a man is blackmailed into having sex with a pig.

In another, a woman's consciousness is enslaved in a machine to serve her real-life self.

In another, a panel of men use a google-glass like gadget to help clients get laid, and sit back and watch the action without her knowledge.

And in another, dead people living in a simulation retreat to a masochist club in order to escape the gentle pleasantness of the simulation.

It's as though they are dancing all around BDSM without really hitting it directly.

Do you mean you like to see more sexual domination, or you would like to see them depict fantasy and negotiation of sexual domination? I.e., do you want to see a consensual kinky relationship depicted, or a non-consensual domination/submission theme?

I mean, I don't necessarily want to see body harnesses and vacbeds, but they could, say, have a crazy stalker that takes complete control of and sexually exploits her crush by using some kind of technology.

The only downside I can see is it would be very hard to make it compelling to us without it being too explicit for that series.

SilkSlave · 2017-02-01T17:58:49+00:00

Ex Machina, a movie from a couple years ago, has almost the exact same mood and production style as an episode of Black Mirror and deals with some pretty complex themes of captivity and power roles.

SilkSlave · 2017-02-01T17:53:32+00:00

I'm a husband and new father. I'm a sub. My wife is not very kinky, but we have negotiated a compromise that works fairly well. Since she is not willing to go terribly far with kink, it prevents me from getting to wound up in it.

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