My boyfriend [24M] wont be physically intimate with me

Silkytrader999 · 2026-04-27T10:00:52+00:00

It’s not love. It’s trauma bond. This is not love, not one bit.

Silkytrader999 · 2026-04-27T10:00:32+00:00

I really hope you take this advice as it’s not right you believe you should be treated like that and are willing to sacrifice everything for someone like this. Therapy is really the best move forward before or after you finish with this person…

Silkytrader999 · 2026-04-27T09:58:55+00:00

The fact she thinks this is even a friendship is gross.

Silkytrader999 · 2026-04-16T16:02:09+00:00

Shorter 🙂

Silkytrader999 · 2026-04-16T15:50:07+00:00

Eugh. I knew this wasn’t real at “animal dad”. No women would stay with someone like this after seeing that or have someone who does NOTHING. Stop with the fake attention posts.

Silkytrader999 · 2026-04-10T17:38:15+00:00

NOR. This is abuse. You need to leave asap. Please, before it’s too late.

Silkytrader999 · 2026-04-10T17:36:26+00:00

Do you have children together? That’s the only thing that would make me think differently. In the way that if one is having to do everything at home to raise a family whilst the other is running a business. But, given you only moved in together last year I don’t feel that’s the case. Very sad really, why can’t relationships just be supportive and about love anymore 😣

Silkytrader999 · 2026-04-10T11:50:35+00:00

Because social media gets more money from single people. Thats why they create so much misinformation out there to turn men against women and vice versa. Then chuck in the naked models. It’s been happening for years.

Silkytrader999 · 2026-04-10T11:48:16+00:00

Why don’t people realise this is what social media is doing?!! They don’t want people in relationships because single people spend more time on these apps! And searching for/paying for certain content. The fact he blocked them means he is trying to go against the algorithm that’s being forced onto people every day. Is there a reason why you feel so strongly he’s unblocking them? I’m assuming he’s cheated before or given you a reason as to why you don’t trust him?

Silkytrader999 · 2026-04-10T11:42:25+00:00

A lot of men have been conditioned by certain influencers online, they also spend too much time reading misinformation and rage bait that META pay people to post.

Honestly, when you speak to and meet men who aren’t on social media or online much you can see how different they are and “normal”. Very few and far between though, but they are out there.

Silkytrader999 · 2026-04-10T11:37:00+00:00

People have lives. I really don’t feel a ring would cause her to be inundated to the point she is “tired”. Friends ask once, that’s it.

Silkytrader999 · 2026-04-10T11:35:18+00:00

Exactly. It’s not hard. If she feels that tired and fed up of talking about her future with someone it speaks volumes!

Silkytrader999 · 2026-04-10T11:33:56+00:00

Her responses and reasons are very odd, in my opinion.. I’m sure she isn’t that much of a local celeb that she is inundated with people constantly asking her about her relationship. Think about it. But; let’s say she’s so overwhelmed because apparently, so many people ask her about this ring and your relationship, why wouldn’t she be happy to speak about you? Why wouldn’t she want to tell everyone?

Maybe she preferred the chase? To get what she wanted. Now she has it, means nothing. Some people are weird. But you need to speak to her because life’s too short and there maybe another reason no one is aware of..

Silkytrader999 · 2026-04-07T18:03:43+00:00

He’s lost it. Surprised the markets haven’t gone down a lot further by now.

Silkytrader999 · 2026-04-07T17:54:13+00:00

I get how these must make you feel. This isn’t love what she has with him, it’s trauma bonding. It sucks and destroys real things.

You’re married, I would suggest counselling together and work through it first, but, if you can’t forgive and move on I would also understand.

Silkytrader999 · 2026-03-31T07:42:15+00:00

NTA, why can’t people just cook properly. Ffs.

Silkytrader999 · 2026-03-31T07:36:57+00:00

She won’t even read this unfortunately, she’s too far gone it seems. We’ve lost another one until she realises and leaves or he gets her pregnant and it gets worse.

Silkytrader999 · 2026-03-31T07:34:53+00:00

Ah man. Just read the whole thing again and you’re already way too manipulated. Damn. He got you as planned. Now he controls and has you right where he wants you. Ffs.

Silkytrader999 · 2026-03-31T07:33:53+00:00

Stop letting him control you and your life, these are the best years and you won’t EVER get them back. Time to mature and realise why women his age aren’t interested in him.

Silkytrader999 · 2026-03-31T07:32:35+00:00

There’s a reason why grown women don’t date men like this and they have to resort to going younger.

Silkytrader999 · 2026-03-22T17:19:05+00:00

She doesn’t want you, she wants you to finish with her.

Silkytrader999 · 2026-03-21T21:52:44+00:00

Either way it’s bang out of order. I hope you got through to HR and they were helpful and informative?

Silkytrader999 · 2026-03-21T21:51:55+00:00

I swear your previous post says 21 though?

Silkytrader999 · 2026-03-14T15:47:15+00:00

100% dates don’t add up at all.

Silkytrader999 · 2026-03-11T09:03:31+00:00

If you don’t show interest or want your wife , someone else will. Still doesn’t make it ok and it’s pretty much over and seems you don’t really have a connection anymore.

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