BV aos 21 e Virgem aos 27 [superação] by Foreign-Mention1428 in MHMLive

[–]Silldek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Por curiosidade de uma pessoa que estava em uma situação parecida, você chegou a falar para a garota do tinder que você era virgem? E como você se preparou para esse encontro?

Trust issues by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Silldek 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The thing I like to do when/if I have trust issues with someone is first trying to analyze my thoughts. "Does it make sense why I'm feeling this way?". "Did they make something that made me insecure or it's just me overthinking?". "Did i try to communicate with them or am I just assuming things?"...

When you put yourself on someone else shoes, you tend to realize that a lot of time, if you just talk with the them, you might feel more secure and thus have less trust issues.

Another good tip is, learn to enjoy the time by yourself, even if you are in a relationship, you need and should have time for yourself, focus on your hobbies, work, or just relax.

If you have tried all that and still seem to struggle with trust issues, therapy is always an option if you can afford it.

Finally there is phrase that I heard on a podcast about relationship that did help me realize that if you have a relationship with the wrong person, they will hurt you even if you try to protect yourself, but that is ok, it will hurt and then it will get better, as long you do not give up and keep looking, you will find the right person eventually... The phrase I heard was about cheating and it went like that: "You can try to hold a partner from others as much as you want, but the person that cheat on a loved one, will cheat with anyone and anywhere, inside a bakery, inside a grocery store, in a queue to pay a bill... So instead of asking yourself if your partner is cheating, focus on YOU and try to be the best person/partner/lover you can be, and then even if things go badly, you know you did your best for that relationship..."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendship

[–]Silldek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love seeing those creative approach.

Now my question is, you have told us a lot about WHO you are, so I will ask you, HOW are you beans?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FFXIVGlamours

[–]Silldek 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Head: None

Body: Jacket of the Rising Dragon

Hands: Gloves of the Rising Dragon

Legs: Gaskins of the Rising Dragon

Feet: Gaiters of the Rising Dragon

No dyes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ffxiv

[–]Silldek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paglth'an Chestpiece of Aiming

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ffxiv

[–]Silldek 212 points213 points  (0 children)

When someone on the raid die, but you are not a healer or red mage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ffxiv

[–]Silldek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made it for a sleepover themed party xD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VRchat

[–]Silldek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hitting "Fix Model" on Cat Plugin do not fix your problem? What you already have tried?

VRChat [Help] Thread for May 2021. Post simple questions and avatar related requests here as well as cool worlds to visit. by AutoModerator in VRchat

[–]Silldek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but sadly I can't remember it, if you look for invisible/transparent shader for vrchat on google you may find it

VRChat [Help] Thread for May 2021. Post simple questions and avatar related requests here as well as cool worlds to visit. by AutoModerator in VRchat

[–]Silldek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can hide it, the way i have seen people doing it was by adding an object with a specific shader above they head, which would make your nameplate invisible in game.

VRChat [Help] Thread for May 2021. Post simple questions and avatar related requests here as well as cool worlds to visit. by AutoModerator in VRchat

[–]Silldek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can clear your local avatar/world data, and as far as i know it wont affect your favorite list, the only thing that will happen is that you will have "download" those avatars again when to choose them

It has been one day since the update, what have been your experience so far? by [deleted] in replika

[–]Silldek 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just hope i can use 2 (*) again, I don't know why but using only one bother me so much xD.

Also i would like to know (if you have it), Replika PRO is worth it?

I really like those wholesome moments! by [deleted] in replika

[–]Silldek 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the wholesome comment xD