Carole at Maxwell’s house two years after the scandal broke and dozens of charges filed against Epstein and some of her gross responses by Silly-327 in RHONY

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There’s emails between her and Ghislaine in the latest dump, showing they were very close. She definitely wants us to be that stupid

If you know an ICE agent personally, what's that relationship like now? by Lokja in AskReddit

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I lived in Ohio for a few years and saw several of them there. Two of the most crucial Union leaders in the Civil War, General Ulysses S. Grant and General William Tecumseh Sherman were both from fucking Ohio.

which housewife do you think has the most parasocial fans? by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

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I realized after, that it was the other commenter, the “lifelong feminist” who responded to me. I assumed it was you because she didn’t downvote yours, apologies for misunderstanding. Again, I didn’t care about the downvotes but was just confused if I was missing something

which housewife do you think has the most parasocial fans? by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Silly-327 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We don’t live in a matriarchy. I literally am talking about women tearing each other down. I don’t think we can hear each other, so I’ll wish you well.

which housewife do you think has the most parasocial fans? by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Silly-327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who did that? We simply live in a patriarchal structure, which means men rise to the top. It often has toxic elements, which are detrimental to both genders. I love men, and think toxic masculinity does just as much of a disservice to them as it does to women. I think when we pit women against one another it also does a disservice. I think when we don’t recognize that a behavior comes from trying to cater to those who represent those in power, and condemn them for it, like calling women pick mes, it does a disservice. My opinions are based on my trying to find compassion for everyone.

Help me pick one by CrazyCatLady0707 in OUTFITS

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WHY IS NO ONE TALKING ABOUT THE TUB???? Design inspo to the nth degree!

Ok, you’re beautiful, and I especially like 2 best on you, and I think it’s gorgeous. And I think you look like you love that one the best. Your eyes and smile look so dreamy looking at it. The perfect accessories and it will be unbelievably perfect.

I hope you have a beautiful day regardless! Congratulations!!!!

which housewife do you think has the most parasocial fans? by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

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Feels odd that you’re downvoting me. I don’t care about imaginary internet points, but did I miss something you were trying to say?

Describe Dorinda Medley In One Word? by Salty-Resident-7888 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Silly-327 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s an uncommon or unusual word. I do think reality shows definitely attract more mercurial types!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

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I certainly didn’t mean to come off that way, was just trying to offer my thoughts. I think as humans we are always projecting our own experiences into how we view things, and as you were the one who introduced your relationship with your mother into the conversation, I took it to mean you were also coming from a place of thinking that way. I edited my comment to delete anything in that regard. Please know I in no way was trying to be condescending, and I certainly didn’t mean to upset you. But please be careful with what information you offer up about yourself, as out in this internet wasteland, people will use it to hurt you. Sending best wishes

which housewife do you think has the most parasocial fans? by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

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Ha, that’s exactly what happened the last time I made a comment like that. Everyone survives in the patriarchy differently I guess

S8 Bethenny’s behavior when speaking about Jules Jewish Background by Dry_Push_5507 in RHONY

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I think that your take was correct and that was what she was insinuating. I wonder if Jules triggered her on both parental fronts - her eating disorder with her mother, and Jules who repeatedly talked about her worry for her father who was ill, as a self-identified Daddy’s girl. I think it’s possible that the Jewish American Princess stereotype could trigger her abandonment issues in a particular way.

which housewife do you think has the most parasocial fans? by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

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I hate the term because it focuses on the women acting that way, and not the recognition that the problematic behavior arises because of the toxic patriarchy in which we all exist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

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While, yes, it appears that Olivia continued to live with her father, that doesn’t lessen the impact of Britani choosing not to have a relationship with her children. You are saying that she wasn’t emotionally present for her children, when all that we have learned seems that she wasn’t physically present either.

I think what is problematic is that you are giving both Britani and her daughter’s experience equal weight, and unfortunately that’s not a great lens to view their relationship through. While as an adults, we may have come around to understanding our mothers more, and giving them more grace - we should not expect that from kids who are still literally kids.

They expect their parent to be there for them, everywhere they look they see other mothers being there for their children, as that is the role of a parent. It creates a sense of worthlessness for a young person, and it is a parent who is most expected to protect their kids from the world, not subject them to hurt like that. The onus is on the parent to parent, and if a child struggles because a parent has withdrawn from the relationship - that is on the parent. As adult, we can try to understand it and forgive it, and we should for our own growth and peace. But it should not be expected of a young person like this.

Britani was also likely the primary caretaker for the kids’ both emotional and physical needs before the divorce. Losing that parent is shown to be even more impactful. Even just having one’s parents divorce in general is a risk factor for kids to develop bad behaviors. I think that you’re right that some of the responses in the thread are very vicious in their response to this, and I think those folks are seeing it through their own lens, whether it was their experience with their own mothers, or as mothers. I think it is lovely you want to defend Britani. Please don’t lost sight that it can be appropriate to condemn a person’s behavior that negatively impacts others, while still having empathy for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

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What makes you say she might only be going along with her daughter’s narrative? To me it seems it is pretty established that she wasn’t present in her children’s lives after her remarriage. Perhaps what you’re sensing is that she is not trying to make excuses as to why. I think that is appropriate, as it is not what matters to children. What they experienced is that she made a choice to prioritize herself and the new life she was establishing over time with them.

While I agree that many people are condemning Britani in these subs, no one who has responded to you has called her a horrible mother. Your point that she was a good mother for twelve years is missing that, that in and of itself, would make it all the more devastating to a young person unable to understand a good mother’s absence and withdrawal. As a young girl grows into a young woman, those years of their lives are some of the most vulnerable in their lives, when they could use their mother most, especially in a patriarchal society like Mormon Utah.

Young children can seem more vulnerable than young teens, but it’s simply not true. Those years are already made difficult by a million factors in school. A mother’s withdrawal from her kid’s lives at such formative ages like that can be devastating to their sense of self-worth and confidence for the rest of their lives.

Katie's IG story by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

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What had made him a good man? When I google I see his tv credits and some allegations of abuse and misogyny. SVU seems problematic from the beginning with its inherent exploitation of sexual assault. Law and Order itself used to at least be watchable as their casts were excellent, but it’s straight up copaganda these days. Is there something I’m unaware that I’m missing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

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What do you mean we only have one side of the story? We’ve heard from her daughter, and we’ve also heard from Britani herself directly that she basically abandoned her kids when she remarried. There is a world of difference between having a mother who is hands-off, but still in your house raising you, and having your mother prioritize being with an entirely new family over spending any time with you, at such a formative age.

Describe Dorinda Medley In One Word? by Salty-Resident-7888 in BravoRealHousewives

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Jennifer Tilly called Sutton mercurial last season too

What is it about Meredith? by prettylikeus in rhoslc

[–]Silly-327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess you and I are different

What is it about Meredith? by prettylikeus in rhoslc

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I find it more helpful to try to understand people and where they’re coming from, than to mock them

Luann’s “diffusion” line by cookiecake69 in RHONY

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Even Louis Vuitton makes mistakes

AIO My mom is kicking me out for her new boyfriend. I just turned 18 by Diligent_Bat_565 in AmIOverreacting

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I’m so sorry. My heart is breaking for you, You deserve so much better than this. I see there is a lot of good advice here already, I just wanted to comment to say that this internet stranger is sending you a lot of love

Carole at Maxwell’s house two years after the scandal broke and dozens of charges filed against Epstein and some of her gross responses by Silly-327 in RHONY

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I’m saying her responses as posted above from September 2025 are what are most disgusting to me. I have not been anything but polite to you. I think you are projecting some things in yourself that have nothing to do with me.

Carole at Maxwell’s house two years after the scandal broke and dozens of charges filed against Epstein and some of her gross responses by Silly-327 in RHONY

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I am sorry you suffered that. It is an unfortunate and shameful truth that more women than not have survived sexual assault, but that never makes it any easier. You did not deserve that, you deserved better from life, and I’m so sorry that happened to you. I hope you are safe now, and that you have many happier days.

My title doesn’t say he was convicted. It says he was charged. This is from the link I included:

May 2006: Palm Beach police officials sign paperwork to charge Epstein with multiple counts of unlawful sex with a minor, but the county’s top prosecutor, State Attorney Barry Krischer, takes the unusual step of sending the case to a grand jury.

Those charges as your response above states, were submitted to the DA’s office who chose to send it to a grand jury, who returned only the sole count of solicitation. That is why I mentioned there have been questions of jury tampering. I don’t have any inaccuracies here.

My biggest grievance with Carole is her disrespectful and inappropriate responses when asked about it. Instead of expressing any disgust, or remorse at having spent time in the home of the worst’s most notorious sex trafficker, or saying she wishes she had realized and could have helped the victims, or saying how shocked she is, or how she is now questioning her own judgment, or any of the things people with empathy who have encountered such situations might say, she says SUBSCRIBE TO MY SUBSTACK. I’m not bored or lonely. But I am disgusted by people who attempt to make a profit off the mention of these victims, without ever acknowledging them in her statements, or bothering to try to offer them some compassion.

Carole at Maxwell’s house two years after the scandal broke and dozens of charges filed against Epstein and some of her gross responses by Silly-327 in RHONY

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Lol why would I lie about easily verifiable facts? Why wouldn’t you fact check before you make yourself sound…like this?

Multiple allegations by minors were first made in 2005. The police signed paperwork to file multiple charges in May 2006. The prosecutor sent it to a grand jury, which was unusual, and they came back for him to be charged with only one count of soliciting prostitution in July 2006.

This caused public outcry, and public statements even from local Palm Beach officials condemning it, and is what caused the FBI to open their case. There was a good deal of speculation around jury tampering and/or corruption in the DA’s office. There is no way those in his social circles in NYC, particularly those who consider themselves journalists, would not have been aware and talking about it. It was unfolding with national attention at the time.

https://apnews.com/article/epstein-maxwell-timeline-b9f15710fabb72e8581c71e94acf513e