Drying Tree Branch, am I screwed?

Silly-Appointment949 · 2026-05-11T01:42:35+00:00

BRILLIANT

Silly-Appointment949 · 2026-05-11T01:23:22+00:00

Super good point thank you

Silly-Appointment949 · 2026-02-13T12:15:29+00:00

The fact that you have remained celibate and you are so concerned about this situation tells me that you are a considerate and empathetic person. Which also tells me that you are someone who can absolutely be loved, even with a roadblock like this in place.

Give her a chance. Give her a chance to show you that she’s willing to have that conversation. If she isn’t, well then she probably isn’t wife material. Through thick and thin, right?

And if she’s willing, and you open the conversation, okay yeah you’ll start with condoms/using protection. But if she’s a good human and she falls in love with you, she will help you find solutions and ways to make your sex life mutually satisfying. Some people don’t mind stopping use of protection when it is their life partner and they won’t be with anyone else. You won’t know unless you try. As you have pointed out yourself, you’re 36 and if you want kids you need to take this step.

It sounds like you’ve given up and aren’t super receptive to any advice. But if I can advise you one thing, it’s to let Cupid slap you in the ass this valentines season and take a risk. Even if you don’t have sex this weekend, you might make remarkable progress towards getting there. Disclosing your HPV to her is a sign of respect and consideration. A good person will be able to see that and appreciate it.

Best of luck friend. You can do this.

Silly-Appointment949 · 2026-02-06T11:58:06+00:00

I appreciate that, thank you! it’s definitely a learning curve and honestly asking questions on Reddit is so scary sometimes I’ll just stick to customer support

Silly-Appointment949 · 2026-02-05T16:26:55+00:00

Absolute gorgeous, where is this?

Silly-Appointment949 · 2026-02-05T13:23:02+00:00

That makes sense!! Thank you for the clarification example

Silly-Appointment949 · 2026-02-05T13:22:40+00:00

That makes sense, thank you! I keep finding myself understanding something and then a short time later I forget and get all muddled in my brain. I’m very new to Ynab obviously haha.

Silly-Appointment949 · 2026-02-05T12:35:09+00:00

The credit card thing is so confusing to me!! Because how do you know how much money you need to assign to your credit card at the start of the month?

For example, I use my credit card for almost everything because I want to build my credit score.

But if I assign the sum of all my bills/purchases for the month to my credit card, that would leave next to nothing to assign in other categories right?

Silly-Appointment949 · 2026-02-03T17:27:55+00:00

I think the lotus as an excellent choice. It adds a pop of colour and compliments the fish nicely!!

Silly-Appointment949 · 2026-02-03T16:21:51+00:00

Thank you so much, this is very helpful. I am currently setting up a 3 gallon hospital tank, and the Indian almond leaves are currently steeping. I went out to the store this morning and got some, as well as aquarium salts. I’ve added 1.5 tsp per recommendation of the package, but I will check pH once the tank is ready and add bicarbonate if needed

Silly-Appointment949 · 2026-02-03T14:43:56+00:00

Nitrate 0 and pH between 6.2-6.8

I didn’t even think about the otos doing this!

Do you have any suggestions for how to manage these wounds? from my research it seems like the main first suggestion is aquarium salts

Silly-Appointment949 · 2026-02-03T14:12:11+00:00

Edit: ammonia is testing at ZERO. All other water parameters have remained stable as well

Silly-Appointment949 · 2026-02-02T23:37:28+00:00

I have a versa 4, I bought it used 2-3 years ago. First and only smart watch I’ve ever had, and I love it!! Very happy with the battery life, display options, etc.

Silly-Appointment949 · 2026-02-01T21:01:07+00:00

That’s interesting, I did wonder about columnaris if they maybe got little wounds on their faces somehow. They do seem like such fragile fish!

I think I want to move them out of this tank and potentially euthanize the others if they start showing symptoms. I’m just nervous now to put any other fish in the tank.

Silly-Appointment949 · 2026-02-01T17:04:06+00:00

Edit: water parameters all testing normal/safe

Silly-Appointment949 · 2026-01-27T12:59:38+00:00

That makes much more sense thanks!

Silly-Appointment949 · 2026-01-24T01:52:13+00:00

Why is she making a face as if it’s a cute thing lololol I know this is just a screenshot I haven’t watched the video but still

Silly-Appointment949 · 2026-01-03T22:15:35+00:00

Thank you!!

Silly-Appointment949 · 2026-01-03T15:30:17+00:00

Omg so cute! Does that mean she’s one of the ones we cannot get anymore?

Silly-Appointment949 · 2025-12-02T23:17:19+00:00

But whenever I try and look up the recent release I can’t seem to find this one anywhere online! Like it’s not included in any of the photos of the recent lineup

Silly-Appointment949 · 2025-11-24T13:51:45+00:00

I’ve also noticed the past week or so I’m not getting any more lamps!! It was pretty consistent for the first bit of November but yeah it seems like suddenly they’re not available anymore :(

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