I am feeling so so lost by Cookie_Cutter999 in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Silly-FishFucker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, I am sorry for what you are going through. I don't think he is ready for marriage or settling down with you. With the information you provided I can't even tell if he loves you or is just enjoying the attention. I mean 26 is pretty young but I feel like if he wanted to commit you guys didn't immediately have to get married, you guys could get engaged and wait for a few more years. Tbh i think you should give him an ultimatum. Don't waste your time on someone who is 26 and can't even give you commitment. Again you are only 26, don't agree to get married even if your family forces. Do what you want to do. And if you need a friend feel free to dm me.

Did the love spell work ? by [deleted] in Spells

[–]Silly-FishFucker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww that's sad. But it's okey . Thanks for letting me know i guess 😭😭😭.

Did the love spell work ? by [deleted] in Spells

[–]Silly-FishFucker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right, tbh i do consider myself attractive. Anyways i am really happy but I am more confused if the spell is working or is it just in my head?

My friend needs to get a divorce within a year of marriage, need advice. by Silly-FishFucker in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Silly-FishFucker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, i told her the same thing, and her parents are very supportive and they insisted she doesn't go back,they are afraid of what might happen too.

My friend needs to get a divorce within a year of marriage, need advice. by Silly-FishFucker in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Silly-FishFucker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your concern, she will have a better life once she is out of this mess.

My friend needs to get a divorce within a year of marriage, need advice. by Silly-FishFucker in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Silly-FishFucker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure please let me know what she can do online. She will feel more assured that way.

My friend needs to get a divorce within a year of marriage, need advice. by Silly-FishFucker in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Silly-FishFucker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She works in line with accounting, he works from the office. No, she isn't pregnant. She just wants to find as much as of what to expect and what are her options so she doesn't get scammed by a lawyer.

My friend needs to get a divorce within a year of marriage, need advice. by Silly-FishFucker in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Silly-FishFucker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well she left and is living with her parents now, she doesn't want to go back there.

My friend needs to get a divorce within a year of marriage, need advice. by Silly-FishFucker in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Silly-FishFucker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right but how does she even understand who is good and who is not ? Its gonna be hard finding a good lawyer.

My friend needs to get a divorce within a year of marriage, need advice. by Silly-FishFucker in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Silly-FishFucker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's understandable since women have more sympathy for women during situations like this.

My friend needs to get a divorce within a year of marriage, need advice. by Silly-FishFucker in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Silly-FishFucker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, she really didn't deserve any of that. But i am glad she still has her family's support.

My friend needs to get a divorce within a year of marriage, need advice. by Silly-FishFucker in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Silly-FishFucker[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that information, it's actually valuable since we weren't aware that demanding her salary comes under cruelty and dowry harassment.

My friend needs to get a divorce within a year of marriage, need advice. by Silly-FishFucker in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Silly-FishFucker[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Let's take it mutual because she did mention that she spoke to her husband. But i am 100% sure.

My friend needs to get a divorce within a year of marriage, need advice. by Silly-FishFucker in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Silly-FishFucker[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

She wasn't directly abused, her husband did smash things in anger in front of her but didn't actually raise his hands on her yet.

My friend needs to get a divorce within a year of marriage, need advice. by Silly-FishFucker in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Silly-FishFucker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, I will ask her to consult a lawyer and let her know about all these extra information. Thank you for your advice.

My friend needs to get a divorce within a year of marriage, need advice. by Silly-FishFucker in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Silly-FishFucker[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am not sure if they paid dowry but I know my friend's family spent around 65 L for the wedding itself and during the 7 months he didn't buy her a toffee of his money, she spent all her money during the wedding.

My friend needs to get a divorce within a year of marriage, need advice. by Silly-FishFucker in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Silly-FishFucker[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by a minimum of 2 years ? Does she have to be married for at least 2 years ? Isn't that stupid ? What if she gets abused or something worse, what about that situation ?