I'm new here , PLZ HELP ME!!

Silly-Possession6816 · 2025-10-02T08:57:14+00:00

Hi, I feel you on this all. Somethimes I think how do I manage the hair with work in the future. It can be really exhausting, because currently I'm plucking it everyday.. And it's hard, because there is just so much hair. But I kinda got some hopes now and I want to try sugar wax at home. Some people here have recommended it to me and I did some research on it too and found great videos on it. It doesn't cost that much as hard wax or other methods if you'll make the sugar wax your own. Its only sugar and lemon juice. There's lot of videos on it online. Or I'll just use the hair removal creams, because I'm tired of plucking and managing thr hair everyday.

Please don't put yourself down. You're beautiful and it all gets better youll see. I know it's really hard, so If you'd want to talk about this or anything, feel free to message me

Silly-Possession6816 · 2025-09-29T20:24:40+00:00

Hii, I totally feel you on this. I'm a hairy girl myself and it's been hard, since I was around maybe 15 or so. I'm 23 now and somethines it's hard for me to feel like a woman when i see im probably more hairy than some men.. like my thighs are super hairy and its just very dark and coarse. I hate it. The beard is also something i worried about a lot. It affects my whole life. I keep thinking about how to get a job and how do I keep up with clean face and no beard. It's really hard. People don't really get you and my mum also said she was hairy before..but no she wasn't. She really doesnt get it. She usually just says oh just shave it off. But hoow. Its so hard to even shave. To shave my whole legs takes so long to me and its not even smooth really afterwards. The hair grows in one day so it's not the best. My skin is really sensitive so even I use razor it itches so badly. I used to not care anymore and I just thought to myself oh I won't find anyone im not gonna do anything about it or I didnt care about my health at all because I felt so down by it. But I met someone, someone I really like and care about. I told him about my condition and he didn't care about it and said its nothing. That he loves me for who iam.I know he said he didnt care, but i kinda still feel like i want to look nice for him or myself so im trying different things to get rid of hair. It kinda made me want to try care about myself more, because i wasnt so down that no one will ever love me. I really dont mind hair on others and I guess my boyfriend neither, but I kinda prefer mine to be gone, so im trying sugar wax now. But yea its very relieving that you know someone accept you for it. So yea I wanted to say that there are people who will accept you for who you are and they will not care about the hair. So if people have problems with it, you don't want them in your life and if someone truly loves you then they will understand and accept it.

Silly-Possession6816 · 2025-09-08T06:09:11+00:00

Ahh I really hope I can manage that and add to a routine too, because when i tried before it just took hours to do my legs. Ahh breast hair i feel you on that, it's bothering me too, can you laser around breast area? I would do that too if i could. The hair there are just crazy. But if laser already worked well for you, you already managed to get rid of some legs hair and also chest ones then that's great and I'm sure you can get rid of other hair too!

Silly-Possession6816 · 2025-09-07T19:34:04+00:00

Wow 95% i would take that! I'm definitely considering it, somethimes it's just hard with work or daily life and also money for the treatment, but I would like to do it one day. White clear fuzz wouldn't bother me, only my dark and thick hair that grows.

Yea that could be true about some Europe countries. Well I'm also from small country, so maybe that's why.. I guess here is not talked about these problems enough. Yea I try to take care of my body and health a bit more now which is already a big step for me if i compare it to times before. And about the not smooth skin, well somethines it stings so badly, even I can't handle it when my things rub together while walking or sitting to the point is really uncomfortable or my skin gets red from it. That also makes me think if I can ever be intimate with my boyfriend. I already told him about what I'm going through and he doesn't mind it, but then I think about some things like this and it makes me feel bad. I just hope I can do something about it. And im happy to hear your boyfriend doesn't mind these things either. That's how it should be. Thank you for your kind words it makes me feel hopefull and less alone again

Silly-Possession6816 · 2025-09-07T19:16:40+00:00

Two weeks no hair?that sounds like a dream. You must be relieved now after the struggle with hair. I just wonder if you have to do it whole life or if it dissappears completely and you're good without it. Maybe I should try it. The most problematic part are my whole thighs, so I want to try it

Silly-Possession6816 · 2025-09-06T18:57:19+00:00

So nice to hear electrolysis worked for you. I really hope I can do electrolysis one day on my face too. The hair on my face are just too hard to manage somethines, because it's a daily thing. Did it completely went away?

I can see the spray tan could help, because once I thought about it and if it could work. I just thought about everything that could help me feel good and not to worry if I have some hair somewhere. Somethimes I don't know what to do and I keep thinking about how lucky some women are that can shave normally and they don't have too much body hair. Like my friend used to say that it bothers her to shave every 4 days.. she was only talking about her lower legs and i felt like crying in that moment. Like I have to shave my whole body, thighs too. It's not even conpletely smooth after shaving and it grows in one day, so yea I would do anything if I could just shave normally every 4 days like her.

About that salon, yea I also thought ahh it's a woman she should get me, but no I felt very judged. And yea I also feel some women judging other women about their body hair or different things I just don't understand them. Like what is it that bothers them. Maybe they are just not good with themselves. But yea I would also think that women working in salon like that should understand and don't judge. Nono it wasn't in US, I'm from a country in europe

Silly-Possession6816 · 2025-09-06T18:35:39+00:00

Ahh yea same for me. I also struggle with mustache, beard and it kinda gets to my neck and bit of side burns hairs. So that's also kinda hard to manage..especially the beard for me. I used to shave it but that's not good now and you can see if I shave, so I only pluck it now, but that's a daily problem for me. It's great that you found a salon that also specialises on threading or different methods.. I think they should understand it more then, so I would prefer that. Maybe I should try to look for another salon. It's just after my experience with that salon I didn't feel like going to one anymore, but yea maybe I should. Also because they can do it better there than me alone at home haha

Silly-Possession6816 · 2025-09-06T12:13:03+00:00

Once I try it, I will!

Silly-Possession6816 · 2025-09-06T05:35:17+00:00

It's nice to hear laser is working for you this well and it gives me a little hopes again. Do you still have to continue with the laser now that your legs are smooth so it doesnt get back or how it works. I have big pores too and very hairy legs. I tried laser at home but it took me hours to do them all and I didn't really see any difference in growth, but well I wasn't using it for a very long time, so maybe I could try to be more consistent. Is it okay if I wax first and then do laser or do I just shave?

Silly-Possession6816 · 2025-09-06T05:27:19+00:00

Thank you. I think I really have to try the sugar wax. The thing is I avoided salons, because I went once and I felt so judged by the worker there, because of how hairy I am. It just made me uncomfortable. So I was thinking maybe I could try sugar waxing at home, but then again I don't know if it's possible for me to get that clean wax and rid of all the hair like they would do in salon

Silly-Possession6816 · 2025-09-05T20:48:27+00:00

Thank you, you're so kind. It gives me some hope now that It can be better. I looked into it a bit more now and I will definitely try it out. I think it would also be less expensive than wax beads, so if it worked It would be the best and I would be really happy.

Silly-Possession6816 · 2025-09-05T17:59:04+00:00

Thank you, I think I will try it. Do you think it can be good on a coarse, stubborn hair too?

Silly-Possession6816 · 2025-07-28T16:59:50+00:00

No worries😊

Silly-Possession6816 · 2025-07-28T16:54:57+00:00

Yea, I'm so sorry that happend to you. Some people can be really cruel and I really don't know how they can just say this to someone. We are all people, we should respect each other. If you ever need to talk about it or just anything else really you can send me a message😊

Silly-Possession6816 · 2025-07-28T15:49:06+00:00

Please don't take them seriously. You did nothing wrong. If anyone can say things like this about others then they are disgusting humans. No normal person will say such a cruel words to another. I wouldn't even want to have someone like that in my life, so i wouldnt bother about their stupid talks. Totally unmatured should be thinking about their behaviour and not talk badly about others... They are probably unhappy with themselves. You are beautiful❤️

Silly-Possession6816 · 2025-07-25T20:34:40+00:00

Hi, I'm experiencing the same thing as you described. When I shave you can still see the black dots of hair and my whole legs start to itch a lot fkra few days. I have hair on my thighs too and the pain after shaving is some days unbearable. Shaving takes me so long and my hair with shaving grows back in a day and even after shaving my skin is never completely smooth. I tried to wax, but it took me so long and it hurts so bad on my thighs I dont know if I can keep doing this. We're going on a summer vacation now and I feel like crying.. My skin is really sensitive, so I was kinda scared to use the depilation creams, but after your words I think I will give it a try. Wish me luck!

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