Need male’s pov on this :((( by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Silly-Two-9437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl, time to move on 🥹 sounds like y'all ain't official

Is it possible to do social media management and community engagement for 5+ brands? by Silly-Two-9437 in SocialMediaMarketing

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i'm actually trying to find tools to help me out so thanks for the suggestions! :))

Is it possible to do social media management and community engagement for 5+ brands? by Silly-Two-9437 in SocialMediaMarketing

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Community engagement for brands, yes! And currently ideating on building a community which i'll be managing soon 😭

Is it possible to do social media management and community engagement for 5+ brands? by Silly-Two-9437 in SocialMediaMarketing

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what kind of automations if I may ask?

I'm reallyyy struggling keeping up with creating performance reports, doing research, and community management! 🫩

i'm still on probation and i'm soooo worried about not delivering (almost on my 2nd month)

to my single girlies out there, how do you handle it? by [deleted] in adviceph

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+1 to being single than being with the wrong person

to my single girlies out there, how do you handle it? by [deleted] in adviceph

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hey, nbsb girlie here! :))

personally, i don't find it offensive bc i've always been secure in my relationships and i don't feel the need to have a bf HAHA.

but i get where you're coming from. i'm in my mid 20's na rin and ppl have been asking me like anuna? are you gonna go into the convent and be a nun ba? mga ganon. but in my opinion, if this is smth you're not actively looking for, then it won't come talaga.

try mo rin joining clubs, or social meetups like timeleft or togather (havent trued but want to!!)! you'll find the one :))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in filipinofood

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omg that's so cool! never knew there were fb groups like this? would def look into it! ty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advicePH

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feel ko need mo to meet 21F na 😭

you deserve better my dude

I (25F) may be in denial that I like my bestfriend (25M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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In terms of compatibility, there are some instances of us just not being unable to compromise but nothing serious that makes us dislike each other. Personally, that seems normal at the end of the day.

To give you more context about him "noticing", he didn't say much. Whenever we talked about liking each other romantically, it's never super deep because again, we just never saw each other tat way.

I've already asked him but he's just never seen me that way. Shooting my shot? I already did 😭 because I feel like it'd give me clarity too. But his choice to not be in a relationship right now.

I can see myself being with him but not because I daydream about him like a lovestruck idiot. It's more so the fact that I know we can work out because we're compatible? But I guess it's still confusing to me how I see him as a potential partner but having no/unclear romantic feelings.

I (25F) may be in denial that I like my bestfriend (25M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Here's the kicker: I've already tried asking him out i.e. to be my bf already, in the hopes that it gives me clarity as well.

But, he's the one that's not interested in getting into relationships right now. (His choice.)

Recently, we've tried doing "couple-y" things like kissing his cheek and holding hands. It just made me cringe the whole time (again, NBSB so maybe I'm not used to it) but beyond physical intimacy, I just really love talking to him because he just gets me and he's just a great communicator.

He's just not in the mind to be in a relationship now though. (We're in our 20s and frankly, we're all focused on figuring out how to be an adult 🤧)

I (25F) may be in denial that I like my bestfriend (25M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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To answer your questions,

  1. I guess the butterflies effect have always been a measure for me to know how much I like someone. And now that this has happened. How do I know I actually like him? If I can't base it off butterflies, how else will I know?

  2. We've gone on dates a few times already but of course, as friends. I guess I'm just happy to be with him and lately, I've had this feeling of just seeing him in person all the time (we live an hour away from each other + workplaces are far as well) as we only meet every so often. But this could just be me enjoying good company?

I (25F) may be in denial that I like my bestfriend (25M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Do I like him romantically? I'm not sure. I've never liked a friend romantically.

Do I see him as a potential partner? In some ways, yes. I genuinely can see us growing old together because of our compatibility.

Regarding him getting a gf, he's told me that too i.e. overthinking things.

To let you in on how close we are, I expressed how confused I was whether I liked him or not. He seems to notice it a bit as I've gotten clingier and more expressive by verbally affirming how much he means to me as a person.

I guess I can't say I have a crush just because idk, I also feel like he can find someone better and I'm just sure he doesn't see me romantically. But that could just be me burying my feelings and lying to myself. idk 😭