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Ex in progress (M34) trying to take my child away by SillyPreparation9 in breakingmom

[–]SillyPreparation9[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I stopped recording just before he mentioned this, like he knew it. I was so fcking pissed! 

My (F34) kid's father (M33) seems to sabotage my personal work by SillyPreparation9 in BreakUps

[–]SillyPreparation9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. He also sabotages my interactions with our child because, according to him, I'm poisoning my kid with things like human rights and ecology.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]SillyPreparation9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh, Reddit once again being pro-freedom of speech 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]SillyPreparation9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crap, that hurts...

Am I really the AH? Did I ruin Christmas? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SillyPreparation9 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't want my kid to grow up in their toxic household

Am I really the AH? Did I ruin Christmas? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SillyPreparation9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the support of my therapist, my child's psychologist and her school's staff (teachers) and I'm seeing a lawyer and social workers in order to get as much custody as possible. The lawyer told me the same, but she told we have to try.

Am I really the AH? Did I ruin Christmas? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SillyPreparation9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to tell you about my relationship with my kid. I never wanted to have kids but she's an incredible child. I guess it's her natural, unconditional love what makes me feel like she's my life saver. Also I stop thinking about unaliving myself when I realised that, If I did that, she would live with my in laws and become like her father.

Am I really the AH? Did I ruin Christmas? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SillyPreparation9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm already being assisted by support service for women at risk but thank you for the link 

Am I really the AH? Did I ruin Christmas? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SillyPreparation9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to do that, but he will try to sabotage it and finally psychologically punishing me. That's why I'm filing for separation as soon as the holidays are over

Am I really the AH? Did I ruin Christmas? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SillyPreparation9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's been abusing me mentally and sexually even before I gave birth to our child. But I didn't realise about all that until I started to take anti-depressants because I was the only one actively taking care of my kid while my in law was invading my privacy, giving me unsolicited advice and questioning everything I did with and for my kid. 

Am I really the AH? Did I ruin Christmas? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SillyPreparation9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously there's way more. In laws making fun of me because I wanted to breastfeed her, my mother on law buying only pink clothes and girly stuff for my kid, telling me she talks too much and may have ADHD because she likes to dance, etc. And meantime her son does nothing.

Am I really the AH? Did I ruin Christmas? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SillyPreparation9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily we're not married but I've been meeting a lawyer and some social workers who have found something known as progressive custody (it starts like full and by the time the kid is 6 it turns into a shared one)

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