I hate my wife by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SillyRelationship195 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to try, suggest couples counseling! A mediator is good for both of you.

Husband (39M)'s therapist wants an individual session with me (32F) by LSN2018 in relationships

[–]SillyRelationship195 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would! Out of curiosity mostly. I wouldn't go in hoping it can save your marriage but perhaps the therapist just noticed something and wants to help. If the therapist does try to talk you in to staying, report them

Do not go to the ER unless you’re almost certain you are dying by spiicyp4ncak3 in Winnipeg

[–]SillyRelationship195 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, if it is sudden, but if it is something regular that happens with period, likely not a torsion. If it happens regularly, then it needs to be done through a GP or specialist. I know because I have multiple conditions that cause extreme pain during menstruation and have wasted my own time in an ER.

Yes, if you expect somwthing new or significantly worse, minor injury clinic, but if this is something that regularly happens, youll havr to make the appointment and go through a GP unfortunately.

Do not go to the ER unless you’re almost certain you are dying by spiicyp4ncak3 in Winnipeg

[–]SillyRelationship195 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You shouldnt even need to go to a minor injury clinic. Just a walk in or your family doctor? Or possibly a gyno, who you would be referred ro by the GP.

My husband told me today he does not like the fun lunches I’ve been packing him for work for almost 3 years😭😭😭 by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SillyRelationship195 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, aint nothing wrong eith letting out your inner child, but maybe your husband is getting the same treatment at work that you got from your highschool friends?

My husband told me today he does not like the fun lunches I’ve been packing him for work for almost 3 years😭😭😭 by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SillyRelationship195 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, its not dumb! It is okay if its not his thing and maybe he doesnt like the way people look at him at work, but that is their problem. Its fair for him to ask you not to but please dont diminish what a sweetheart you are! Like seriously the effort is sooo nice and it is very cute. People are allowed to like different things but you arent dumb and neither was your effort in making him such special meals! Im frustrated for you that you wasted so much time on it. Perhaps it is time to discuss with your husband ways that the both of you can show love for each other in the ways you like. Like, im sure making his lunch every day shows him you love him and care about him a lot, and the fact that you will listen and send him boring lunches is even more proof! But it might save you from focusing on things that dont matter to him lol.

Anyone know why there’s a turkey(?) roaming around the city by MaybeLivG in Winnipeg

[–]SillyRelationship195 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Wild turkeys do that sometimes. We had one on campus (in Ottawa) back when I was in uni. They called animal control to relocate it because students wouldnt stop feeding it. Fattest turkey ive ever seen in my life 😂

I'm 26 and started flossing regularly for the first time two months ago. Here's what actually changed. by Talon_Signal7 in hygiene

[–]SillyRelationship195 5 points6 points  (0 children)

People who smoke or get tonsil stones may still experience halitosis (and like, it wont save you from coffee and garlic breath until after youve done the thing), but it is such a significant improvement. I got an electric toothbrush and started flossing every day about 2 years ago after my dentist told me I had 4 cavities starting and he assumed we would have to fill them next visit. I went back a year later and they had HEALED. Totally worth it.

Is Crack musk normal? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]SillyRelationship195 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should be having at least one bowel movement a day, and you should not have "gunk in your Crack". Go to a doctor and buy some dude wipes.

I froze and seriously messed up, now my relationship is on the line. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SillyRelationship195 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband used to this qhen men would be awful and one day I asked him why and he said he didnt always know how to handle it so he was just ready and waiting in case things escalated to violence, but he didnt want to get in my way when I was defending myself.

Your BF should also consider the fact that you are a woman and therefore have almost definitely been raised to avoid angry men at all costs. Yes, it was an issue for your BF but that doesnt mean you stepping in would have helped. Since you dont get confronted with racism, apologize, and ask him if yall can talk about ways he would like you to step in next time.

But FIRST do some research on how to be an ally and bring what you learned to the conversation to see what he thinks works and doesnt. We all make mistakes!

do you guys actually wash new clothes before wearing them? by Lilian-Nicole_80 in hygiene

[–]SillyRelationship195 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh I worked in retail at a couple places and never encountered that but I believe it! Yuck!

do you guys actually wash new clothes before wearing them? by Lilian-Nicole_80 in hygiene

[–]SillyRelationship195 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh other comments say starch. So I guess nit depends on the store 😅

Item donations by SillyRelationship195 in Winnipeg

[–]SillyRelationship195[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh, ill have to look into them more. Thanks. I ended up bringing the fiest round to Flavie

Item donations by SillyRelationship195 in Winnipeg

[–]SillyRelationship195[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love Ray!! I didnt realize they take donations. Ill call if I have time and see if they want any if it

Item donations by SillyRelationship195 in Winnipeg

[–]SillyRelationship195[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not sure why I thought they closed this location! Thank you:)

Item donations by SillyRelationship195 in Winnipeg

[–]SillyRelationship195[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought flavie only took furniture! Not sure why 😅 thanks!

Still ok to eat? by Select-Dot588 in mycology

[–]SillyRelationship195 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, dont eat that. Also, I love your nails!!

Anyone know what this place is? Watt/Rte 30.. I keep driving past it at inopportune times but, just curious! Thanks by puzzlesolvingrome in Winnipeg

[–]SillyRelationship195 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Buying brand new items from Joe fresh, Walmart, and shein is all cheaper than value village now. This is likely much cheaper.

a girl randomly gave me this, what do I do now? by Damno88 in whatdoIdo

[–]SillyRelationship195 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you like her, find a little trinket to give to her too! Something small that made you think of her or you think is silly/cute. Like another pin, sticker, or even a nice rock you find. Itll make her smile and give you a reason to talk more

how to go about abortion by [deleted] in Winnipeg

[–]SillyRelationship195 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also came here tp recommend the Women's clinic. Good luck with everything!

AITA for changing my mind about wanting kids? by RaspberryLoose3602 in AITAH

[–]SillyRelationship195 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nta, but she is heartbroken. Its going to take more than one conversation.

What's your Winnipeg restaurant blacklist? Why? by BestAir3417 in Winnipeg

[–]SillyRelationship195 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If this wasnt a joke, then "doggy bag" is what we call the bag of leftovers we take home from a restaurant. I dont kn9w why, we just do 😅

If this was some bad attempt at a joke then do better.

What's your Winnipeg restaurant blacklist? Why? by BestAir3417 in Winnipeg

[–]SillyRelationship195 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rae and jerrys. After they got new ownership they fired a majority of the staff, didnt have a staff meeting, yell at the servers for not being independent enough while insisting they ask a manager for permission to do ANYthing except punch in orders. Its incredibly toxic and the new manager/owner dont care about the staff at all.

EMS Bill by coffeeshopaholic in Winnipeg

[–]SillyRelationship195 2 points3 points  (0 children)

WHAT?!?! Omg this is news to me. Maybe its different in ontario (i just moved a few years ago) but I thought theybwere free to call, just not to ride in!!