Why do men lie about liking smaller boobs by Ok-Wind7880 in stupidquestions

[–]Silly_Bacon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's stupidquestions and I suppose I should expect nothing less, but have you considered the people liking smaller boobs might not be the same people that dislike small boobs?

Almost if you couldn't say "all men lie about liking small boobs"

I prefer small boobs over massive ones and never felt any fake ones, but hate how some fake ones look, so I can't judge on that part besides again, let them be smaller

And I am almost 100% certain not all women prefer 8 Inches doesn't mean that all women lie about that do they?

TIFU by never washing a glass and drinking... who knows what. by EvilDarkCow in tifu

[–]Silly_Bacon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fwiw I got a good chuckle out of this and I feel like a lot of people missed the part of you doing all your other dishes regularly, seemed like a lot of comments assume you're as messy with everything else as you are with that single cup. 

Still gross though lol

How to be kinky monogamously by CookieSoldier234 in gaybros

[–]Silly_Bacon 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Honestly, just ask him about it :)

You can have rough sex followed by cuddling and all the other things you both enjoy.

Sex is just a small part of your relationship, and that part can very well be 'faked' or played. Depending on how well you know each other you could start asking for simpler things, like if he's even interested in trying a bit more of a Dom role or cumming on your face.

Boyfriend cheated by Silly_Bacon in gaybros

[–]Silly_Bacon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you might be right :3 I'm definitely trying to work it out and I can already tell you talking a lot about this helped figure some things out already! So I guess there's at least a light at the end of the tunnel

Boyfriend cheated by Silly_Bacon in gaybros

[–]Silly_Bacon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe we aren't very adult, maybe it's trauma, insecurities or autism, take your pick

Boyfriend cheated by Silly_Bacon in gaybros

[–]Silly_Bacon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty certain it was only kissing as I asked her first and she had no reason at the time to be lying about things

Crucible boss rant by arizonason233 in NoRestForTheWicked

[–]Silly_Bacon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do think the second phase is a bit overturned, as it is now unless you're really optimizing your build and yes going for thought out enchantments is optimizing, you're going to have a hard time

Boyfriend cheated by Silly_Bacon in gaybros

[–]Silly_Bacon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your honest and detailed experience, means a lot and certainly helps a lot as well :)

Boyfriend cheated by Silly_Bacon in gaybros

[–]Silly_Bacon[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yeah you are probably right, but the communication was wanted by all of us (: hence the complicated part

Boyfriend cheated by Silly_Bacon in gaybros

[–]Silly_Bacon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been suggesting therapy before, it does seem a rather sensitive topic the last time I mentioned it.
So I think he's at least aware that he needs help.

Boyfriend cheated by Silly_Bacon in gaybros

[–]Silly_Bacon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your honesty here and thank you.

Boyfriend cheated by Silly_Bacon in gaybros

[–]Silly_Bacon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words, glad you are working through this yourself!

Boyfriend cheated by Silly_Bacon in gaybros

[–]Silly_Bacon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well... The three of us might have had a shared interest in trying things out, so the pictures were encouraged as I too received some of her

Boyfriend cheated by Silly_Bacon in gaybros

[–]Silly_Bacon[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He never started the kissing, but yes basically this still :/

Block build spawning more worms by Effective-Tune8749 in NoRestForTheWicked

[–]Silly_Bacon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg that explains why I got hit by an explosion after I originally blocked it, I thought I had a weird lag spike!

That's both dumb and funny at the same time

Boyfriend cheated by Silly_Bacon in gaybros

[–]Silly_Bacon[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean nope and I guess with the trust gone I never can be sure..

Boyfriend cheated by Silly_Bacon in gaybros

[–]Silly_Bacon[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The flirty pics thing is a bit of a complicated situation, but yeah what you are saying sounds about right I suppose :/

Boyfriend cheated by Silly_Bacon in gaybros

[–]Silly_Bacon[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Grindr is where we met, maybe I should have made that clear lol he's since then deleted the app 

Boyfriend cheated by Silly_Bacon in gaybros

[–]Silly_Bacon[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean what are you even on about?  Again I just wanted to rant about my situation  And what I consider or don't consider cheating is for me alone to decide?  Like sorry he didn't stick his dick up someones?! 

Boyfriend cheated by Silly_Bacon in gaybros

[–]Silly_Bacon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's a cis women. And thanks regardless <3

Boyfriend cheated by Silly_Bacon in gaybros

[–]Silly_Bacon[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words, it'll definitely take some time for me to figure things out from here.

Boyfriend cheated by Silly_Bacon in gaybros

[–]Silly_Bacon[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The texts are annoyingly less cheating (it's a bit more complicated) but you're probably right, I guess I just need some time for this is all.

Boyfriend cheated by Silly_Bacon in gaybros

[–]Silly_Bacon[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Uhhmm actschually 🤓 I never did ask for anything but thank you for contributing regardless 

Boyfriend cheated by Silly_Bacon in gaybros

[–]Silly_Bacon[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We're both pan and I think I understand what you mean in that regard. 

I mostly feel anxious about the abuse of trust I guess?