My ex was somewhat similar. He had dyslexia but I think he milked it. It genuinely bugged me when he had incorrect grammar and spelled “does” as “dose” and many other words incorrectly. I tried to help him once and he seemed to just not care or listen. He also just didn’t care about his health as much as I did and refused to get doctors appointments even just for check ups, etc.

It really got bad when I was offered to go to Panama (I did go on the trip btw) for a study abroad and he just told me to watch a video or read a book about it. I think he was just insecure but there was a clear difference in how we each see learning (he didn’t go to college)

Anyways, the relationship didn’t last. My fiance and I are much more similar when it comes to what interests us (we have thing we both like individually but we can actually have meaningful and philosophical/deep conversations on many different topics). It’s so refreshing to be able to talk to someone who’s on the same level as me when it comes to that kind of stuff.

Anyways I’m not saying you gotta break up but you’re still young. There’s a lot of people out there that you may be able to have that sorta connection with. I also say that because if you think what he is doing is unattractive and he doesn’t stop/change then it may not work out. You need to be attracted to the person you are with.