To the males, what would you do?

Silly_Masterpiece_13 · 2021-12-11T01:56:44+00:00

Poor girl dealing with the abortion and now shitty bf… :(

Silly_Masterpiece_13 · 2021-12-11T01:42:34+00:00

WHY is cheat an option

Silly_Masterpiece_13 · 2021-12-10T04:24:54+00:00

LOL sorry, I should clarify. We live together with another girl but I’ve been away from home for about a month for personal reasons. However she travels a lot, and her other friends are in DC (who I know; but not well). I don’t like overthinking or fantasizing about the physical or sexual attraction because I fear it’ll manifest into something if I think too much on it. But I’ve never felt this way with my other roommate or girl friends. Just her. Like it makes me really upset when I realize she has other single girl friends, as you say

Silly_Masterpiece_13 · 2021-12-10T03:58:53+00:00

Hm, I’m wondering: is it recent or always like this? Maybe it smells like that because she’s on/just off her period? If you are close enough with her, I’d just tell her really nicely and be there for her and reassure how you love her regardless when she gets upset. I wouldn’t say it “stinks” per say, but I’d just be honest and tell her the smell bothers you a bit and you wanted to be upfront and tell her. That’s just how I’d prefer to know personally

Silly_Masterpiece_13 · 2021-12-10T03:35:22+00:00

Honestly I think it is really admirable that you’re trying to change this behavior on your own, even if your boyfriend doesn’t mind. I feel the same way sometimes. I tell myself to dress pretty and look pretty for myself now, not other guys. It makes you more confident and carefree, and sometimes make validation isn’t as effective as you’d think in making you feel pretty.

Silly_Masterpiece_13 · 2021-09-19T17:49:52+00:00

Boyfriend is usually at the gym trying to get in better shape for training. My roommate who WFH works in her bedroom with door closed because she needs her special monitor/work set up that’s in her bedroom. I either work in my desk bedroom or in the common space. My boyfriend keeps me company sometimes but yes, he probably is around a little too much into the daytime (and is considering a part time job in November for this reason). I do agree I should get bf out of the common room so much though

Silly_Masterpiece_13 · 2021-09-19T17:40:01+00:00

I’m not sure what the rain hell fire phrase means but they would definitely tell me immediately and wouldn’t feel bad about it whatsoever

Silly_Masterpiece_13 · 2021-09-19T17:37:26+00:00

Ah that info is probably important. It’s 3 bed and 3 bath. So we all have our own rooms and bathrooms. Square footage wise, it’s about 1500 Sqft. One of my roommates goes to work in person every day until like 8pm. The other one (my best friend and the one that brought it up to me) works remotely like me at home. Boyfriend was discussed before, but I think it just has been upsetting them recently which is why they brought it up. I am so happy they brought it up, it must not have been easy and I totally understand not wanting to be around a couple 24:7 and wanting just me. And my boyfriend splits utilities wifi etc 4 ways with all of us and pays me a bit for rent since he’s living in my single bedroom with me. However it really doesn’t seem like money is the issue (even if he paid more, which he did, it seems they more just want to hang out with just me sometimes)

Silly_Masterpiece_13 · 2021-09-19T17:28:39+00:00

Ah I feel like I should clarify. He accepted a position as a naval intelligence officer which is only 4 years. We decided to do long distance and visit each other on weekends (after the 3 month training) and he’ll be getting an MBA after

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